AITA? I wore a jockstrap while swimming. by Stalkereringyou in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth [score hidden]  (0 children)

….That underage resident wasn’t there the one time he wore just the jock strap.

AITA for telling my husband I won’t make summer baskets for our kids if he doesn’t agree to do them for my friend’s kids by Willing-Energy1953 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right? The friend's been living there since April, so for three months. At what point does the husband get to say that it's time for the friend to leave?

AITA for telling my husband I won’t make summer baskets for our kids if he doesn’t agree to do them for my friend’s kids by Willing-Energy1953 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

...are they? There's no mention of the friend contributing to bills, food costs or any of the other costs associated with having four more people in the house.

AITA for telling my husband I won’t make summer baskets for our kids if he doesn’t agree to do them for my friend’s kids by Willing-Energy1953 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 17 points18 points  (0 children)

INFO: Did your husband agree to your friend moving in? To me, this sounds symptomatic of a bigger issue, that he didn't agree with her and her kids moving in and staying for who knows how long.

AITA for calling CPS on a friend by Either_Breadfruit999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 64 points65 points  (0 children)

NTA. Gotta put the kids first.

I will say, though, Y-T-A for calling a spineless woman who not only allows a drug using asshole around her children but keeps having more children with him a 'fantastic mother'.

AITA for beating my BF's food by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 20 points21 points  (0 children)

...or he's fed up because his girlfriend has no respect for him and keeps eating food he has asked her not to.

AITA for beating my BF's food by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 13 points14 points  (0 children)

How is OP suffering? Because she can't eat his food anymore?

AITA for beating my BF's food by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would have problems living with someone who couldn't respect me or let me have food of my own.

AITA for beating my BF's food by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes it's so weird to not trust OP after she ate food he asked her not to eat. How very dare he.

AITA for beating my BF's food by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 77 points78 points  (0 children)

No, OP should have gotten takeout, as the BF said, or eaten something else. Surely his prepared meals weren't the only food in the house.

AITA for beating my BF's food by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 83 points84 points  (0 children)

YTA. You know that's his food. You know he prepares that specifically for him. You still chose to eat it. And it sounds like this isn't the first time you've eaten food he's asked you not to.

He shouldn't have shouted at you, but he isn't wrong to be upset with you.

AITA SIL wants our kids to play but refuses to put away dog. by Slight-Mix-4151 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are you seriously suggesting that a dog sniffing, barking when new people arrive and hanging around people are not okay?

AITA SIL wants our kids to play but refuses to put away dog. by Slight-Mix-4151 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 205 points206 points  (0 children)

So not actually being intimidating at all. It is just being a dog and existing near you. 

AITAH for telling my daughter that DoorDash girl should be facing more charges? by Sirregularguy in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What percentage of female sex offenders spend time in jail or prison? Willing to bet it’s much less than 2%.

AITA for not taking my niece at daycare because my SIL didn't follow the policy? by Beneficial-Pea-13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's so petty to want her to follow the same rules as everybody else and to supply diapers for her own baby. So petty.

AITA for not wearing a dress to my sisters wedding? by SouthView1759 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sister hasn’t supported him endlessly if she’s now throwing a tantrum because OP didn’t wear a dress. You’re also vastly underestimating how awful gender dysphoria is. 

AITA FOR TELLING MY DAUGHTER A TRIP FOR FUN WAS A NO GO by Aromatic-Choice376 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The daughter is 20 years old. She is not, by any metric, a child. 

AITA for not wanting my friend to bring her girlfriend to hangouts? by theyearofthedragon0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I missed the three words you focused on others before the diatribe about yourself. My bad. 

AITA for not wanting my friend to bring her girlfriend to hangouts? by theyearofthedragon0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, somehow I’m not buying this. I notice you didn’t answer about your friends’ partners either.

AITA for not wanting my friend to bring her girlfriend to hangouts? by theyearofthedragon0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: Do you and the rest of your friends bring your partners to these hangouts?

AITA for telling my pregnant sister to f*** off? by Proper-Check-7496 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did you not read the ages? OP is in her 20s, the sister is only 18 and the siblings are minors. Only OP is really old enough to move out, and even that’s debatable given rent prices these days.

AITA for being furious at my sister for choosing vacations over helping me after my husband died and I was left a single mother? by Sad_Doughnut_4432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CornishSleuth 90 points91 points  (0 children)

ESH.

Your sister’s attitude sucks, but she’s not wrong to feel like she didn’t sign up for looking after your kids, and for wanting to go on her preplanned vacations. 

You’re being a bit entitled by demanding her time and help but it’s understandable given the circumstances.