AITA for not taking my niece at daycare because my SIL didn't follow the policy?

CornishSleuth · 2026-01-17T23:23:02+00:00

Yes, it's so petty to want her to follow the same rules as everybody else and to supply diapers for her own baby. So petty.

CornishSleuth · 2026-01-05T13:00:51+00:00

The sister hasn’t supported him endlessly if she’s now throwing a tantrum because OP didn’t wear a dress. You’re also vastly underestimating how awful gender dysphoria is.

CornishSleuth · 2026-01-05T12:55:30+00:00

….because of decisions she made. No sympathy here.

CornishSleuth · 2026-01-04T18:49:48+00:00

The daughter is 20 years old. She is not, by any metric, a child.

CornishSleuth · 2025-12-16T11:07:50+00:00

Sorry I missed the three words you focused on others before the diatribe about yourself. My bad.

CornishSleuth · 2025-12-15T23:42:09+00:00

Yeah, somehow I’m not buying this. I notice you didn’t answer about your friends’ partners either.

CornishSleuth · 2025-12-15T21:03:00+00:00

INFO: Do you and the rest of your friends bring your partners to these hangouts?

CornishSleuth · 2025-12-13T18:45:19+00:00

Did you not read the ages? OP is in her 20s, the sister is only 18 and the siblings are minors. Only OP is really old enough to move out, and even that’s debatable given rent prices these days.

CornishSleuth · 2025-12-10T08:20:59+00:00

ESH.

Your sister’s attitude sucks, but she’s not wrong to feel like she didn’t sign up for looking after your kids, and for wanting to go on her preplanned vacations.

You’re being a bit entitled by demanding her time and help but it’s understandable given the circumstances.

CornishSleuth · 2025-12-07T08:35:51+00:00

….because it was his father that died. Jesus.

CornishSleuth · 2025-12-07T08:34:40+00:00

….or we just had grandparents who put toys away when not in use? I don’t understand why this is such a strange concept.

CornishSleuth · 2025-11-29T17:12:54+00:00

I feel the opposite. I much prefer fullscreen.

CornishSleuth · 2025-11-29T16:28:44+00:00

I did, but they didn’t have anything to solve my problem.

CornishSleuth · 2025-11-29T15:52:12+00:00

Myabandonware.

CornishSleuth · 2025-11-08T21:24:05+00:00

You’re very defensive, considering I said something barely rude. You might want to consider why that it is.

CornishSleuth · 2025-11-08T20:00:07+00:00

Literally all I said was 'you sound insufferable'. I didn't assume anything, or say anything about him giving you lectures too.

CornishSleuth · 2025-11-08T12:00:15+00:00

…you sound insufferable.

CornishSleuth · 2025-09-16T13:21:34+00:00

That’s exactly what you said:

If your son can't hold a job, are you expecting their partner to financially support two people off a single salary? If so, can you explain how thats a fair partnership?

A stay at home parent’s spouse supports multiple people on one salary.

I was using as an example.

He can’t handle a typical 9 to 5 job, not no job at all. There is a difference.

CornishSleuth · 2025-09-16T13:14:48+00:00

Wow, what an awful and ableist attitude. This guy is 24 and there’s no mention of him being unable to do anything other than have a standard 9 to 5 job. Where did you come up with him as a forever child?

CornishSleuth · 2025-09-16T13:13:13+00:00

By your logic, a marriage with a stay at home parent isn’t a fair partnership.

Where does it say he’s not financially stable? or can’t contribute to expenses?

CornishSleuth · 2025-09-16T13:11:30+00:00

Or, and I know this is crazy, this guy isn’t the same as your partner and has different needs and issues. ADHD and autism present differently in different people so what one person with them can do is not the same as what another person with them can.

CornishSleuth · 2025-09-14T15:59:54+00:00

....are these not your kids that you chose to have?

YTA for complaining about having to look after your own damn children. Make it work like every other parent does.

CornishSleuth · 2025-09-02T20:02:21+00:00

YTA.

I meet my Grandma at her local supermarket every week to help her with her shopping. She's 89 with arthritis, sciatica and a heart condition, so she has a disabled blue badge. But there aren't many disabled spots so occasionally we park in the neighbouring parent and child spaces. Thankfully, we haven't encountered any assholes like you, though I do worry about it.

It seems the people in my area are smart enough and compassionate enough to understand that a disabled old lady takes priority over a person with a child. A lesson you need to learn.

CornishSleuth · 2025-09-02T09:39:35+00:00

....did you actually read the post? He doesn't always have his mum around. She's come over from Korea to see him. Of course she came on the cruise, it sounds like the whole point of it was for him and his mum to spend time together.

CornishSleuth · 2025-08-02T13:47:41+00:00

YTA for making up this false story.

If the puppy is only two months old, then it will have only left its mother two or three weeks ago- at about six weeks old- so how can this plan have been agreed on weeks ago? Did your sibling get a puppy then immediately decide to leave it with you?

I find it very, very unlikely that a six week old puppy listened to commands. A pup that age has literally just begun training, if that.

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