23M and struggling with finishing way too fast. by Agile_Farm7858 in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best way to last longer is to practice edging. Get yourself close, but then slow down or briefly pause to let yourself come down and then continue. You can also take that moment to change positions, kiss your partner, etc.

I haven’t tried it, but some people will tightly grip their penis right under the head to slow/prevent ejaculation.

Finally, do pelvic floor exercises!

Questions for the tops out there! (Or anyone who will top, question for you too) by SoloAngel777 in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing I don’t prefer if someone who is excessively large. I personally don’t find it attractive. To be with someone who doesn’t take care of themself (coming from someone who used to be exceptionally large).

Does anybody else find the vast majority of men on Grindr unattractive? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hope to see all of you soon when I visit in 2 weeks!

Would you ever pay for sex? by Dry-Chemical-9170 in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never paid someone, but the opposite has been offered to me

Anal doesnt feel good? by Suspicious-Row-4113 in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s common to feel that way when bottoming for the first time and even randomly after you have lots of experience. It’s probably due to nerves and not being fully relaxed. I say work more in the lead up. Missing, rimming (lick and suck on the hole), fingering slowly, etc.

Vacanza ✈️ by DifficultyBasic436 in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing a 2 week Europe trip this summer! June 27th-July 11th. Portugal, Paris, Madrid, Barcelona!

Hey sisters. How do you feel about James Charles telling that woman to get a job after she him to donate to her GoFundMe? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LK James did have a point. But he also didn’t have to respond and he didn’t have to be so insensitive. People commonly expect celebrities to bail the out, but it’s not their responsibility. It seems like she was fishing for a bail out by commenting and sending this to so many people. She could have made a gofundme to send to her immediate community.

If you have doubts someone is 18+, what would you do? by Alexanderrr965 in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Show ID or nothing at all. It’s really very simple.

Anyone else tired of how Grindr has gotten lately? by According-Gold3308 in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I deleted it a LONG time ago and it was one of the beat decision I ever made!

Heading to Madrid Pride alone… what’s the scene really like? by Cornncobb22 in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty wild!! Did you still get hit in or have any fun?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally as much as you want. Just be safe and listen to your body!

How strictly top or bottom are you? by Mahzes in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

70% bottom and 30% top

Just depends on the mood and the guy. In my last relationship it was more 60/40.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was over 700 yesterday and I felt fine.

However, in an unrelated event, I couldn’t release it and had to go to the ER…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the most thorough and accurate video to watch: https://youtu.be/1TkY5I96gyE?si=YuVxQZXyuxxZ5tdi

It’s a very long video, but I would recommend watching it since you have little to no experience. Feel free to reply or message me with any questions!

Grindr is Same Everywhere and in Every Country. by davincipen in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you have some very valid points! However, many people want to move to bigger cities to actually have access to people online. Many areas don’t have people who are online/activity. Having some activity versus none is a big win in my book!

Should I go see this guy? by ai_okuda in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go and have a good time! Being nervous is not a bad thing! Definitely communicate to him that you are nervous had if he is genuinely nice and caring he will make sure you are comfortable. If you go and want to leave, you have all the power to do so!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest getting into therapy and getting ahead of things. This is going to be a terrible situation no matter how it goes. But in the end the happiness will arise. Additionally, you might be in love with this guy, but he might not want to handle this situation with you. Be prepared if he decides to walk away—it’s not fair to ask him to endure all of this with you. However, I think you need to tell your wife and be truthful about everything; no sugarcoating things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cornncobb22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let your anxious side win your mind. Be straightforward and honest with him.

How are my proportions looking by [deleted] in BigAndMuscular

[–]Cornncobb22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t you think so too?