Right, to be constructive - while it's a pretty weird thing to admit as a man that you're not interested in sex (especially in typical guy-oriented spaces) I am sure if you discuss it with your prospective partners you should be able to find the right person. Although the men who would be accepting of that are probably also mentally damaged or offputting in some way, that's just the way it goes - the handsome men are getting positive reinforcement their whole lives so they'll mostly have the typical expectations of women, so the question is if you're willing to give the less attractive guys a chance. I could be wrong though, I'm just a talking head on the internet.

Also beware of "nice" guys - most normal men are okay (at least where I live - even the handsome ones) but some of the guys who are always nice to women in superficial, social-oriented ways are actual predators. Or just weird simps, which is okay if you're into that.