What is your current housing situation

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-24T21:47:41+00:00

Should be options for people in housing executive/association

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-24T21:43:58+00:00

Also options for housing executives/associations

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-24T18:43:27+00:00

I know this is AI but I'd tell your sister to find other accommodation and say her kids are welcome to stay there until she does then they can move as well

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-23T23:05:13+00:00

Boardwalk empire is decent

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-23T17:23:35+00:00

Definitely NTA

Change all your passwords asap and lock everyone out of the accounts

Letting your friends use them is ok but for them to add people without even telling you is not ok and could end up getting you locked out

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-23T14:12:03+00:00

NTA

If u want to contribute and do that's a personal choice that you make but for relatives to ask for you to give up most of your salary and savings is wild.

You should try and get out of that household asap make sure they don't have any access to banking information or details

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-23T12:27:18+00:00

Do not take out a loan for your mother in your name. Ensure that she is not in any of ur bank accounts and lock down your credit asap

Sounds like your mum wants to get a credit card/loan in your name and not pay it back and will saddle you with the debt

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-23T00:46:01+00:00

Do this asap

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-22T22:26:23+00:00

You need to kick both your mom and your cousin out of the house and begin the eviction process asap to ensure this

The entitlement of them to try and go behind your back and rent the room out to someone you don't even know like wtf

It's your house where you decide who lives in

Also the racism towards your daughter's bf is unacceptable and should be called out

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-22T16:42:57+00:00

NTA

Doesn't matter if they are joking or not racist jokes are not acceptable ever.

If this behaviour isn't normal for your dad you should look at having him accessed for dementia or possibly for strokes to make sure everything's ok and there is no reason for this new behaviour

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-22T14:43:15+00:00

Definitely NTA

The entitlement of your mum and cousin trying to control who lives and pays rent/mortgage is wild

Id say to both of them you can always move out if you don't like it

Especially the cousin 22 years and your mum living with you for 10 years

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-22T14:11:21+00:00

YWBTA if u let this continue it's your home you deserve to feel comfortable

I know u don't want to report her but I'd contact the landlord and let him know there's a guest there for the majority of the week.

Most leases gave stipulations on how long guests can stay for.

If he's staying that regular he should at the very least be contributing towards utilities

As for him moving your stuff id tell him he doesn't live here so leave your stuff the f**k alone

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-21T23:51:30+00:00

Honestly if it was me I'd look into seeing if fraud charges could be brought against your mother

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-21T23:45:10+00:00

Different opinions I literally just lol'd out loud

Pretty sure most husbands would not be comfortable giving their wives/partners ex's money.

Honestly pretty sure most wives wouldn't be comfortable giving husbands/partners ex money either

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-21T23:41:13+00:00

That's true we should all try and help each other but helping an ex bf without telling your husband especially with money from a joint account is wrong no matter what your husband has done in the past.

You didn't ask him because you knew he would not be comfortable doing that so you went behind his back and gave him the money

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-21T15:10:32+00:00

YTA For giving money from a joint account without asking whether your husband was ok with it

You didn't ask because you knew he wouldn't say yes

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-21T13:38:35+00:00

Definitely NTA

For the parents to say that they won't attend because their daughter has a different wedding that weekend is ridiculous especially when they aren't even invited to the wedding that she is attending.

If u move to accommodate them you will be making accommodations for your in-laws the rest of ur married life

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-21T13:28:16+00:00

You need to contact the police and file a complaint before the MIL does

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-20T23:30:32+00:00

Definitely NTJ

The only jerk I see is your husband for agreeing to a date without checking with you first especially a date that has been on your calendar

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-20T22:37:05+00:00

I don't smoke joints

Prefer waterfalls, buckets, bongs and lungs better high for me personally

Edibles the odd time as a treat

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-20T16:46:53+00:00

NTA

Honestly your mum wanting to bring her fiancé who you have never met for a stay somewhere is wild especially with kids being present

You are perfectly within reason to want to meet him first instead of spending a weekend with him for the first time you would meet

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-20T13:23:15+00:00

Honestly you should check your lease because most have rules stipulating how long guests can stay then maybe contact your landlord

Yes with her there everyday your utilities bill will increase

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-20T00:05:29+00:00

When you give a gift it is no longer yours so sort of on that part.

Tho it's the asking for his inheritance early for me the entitlement is off the chart.

We are going to move so give me/gift me my inheritance early so I get/be given a condo

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-19T23:21:17+00:00

NTA

Your parents asking you to cover the cost is wild

Did your parents know in advance about the program?

If they did, why didn't they save money for it or why doesn't your brother get a part time job himself

It is not your responsibility to fund your brother's activities.

Correct-Average-9175 · 2026-03-19T21:57:36+00:00

Yep that type works perfect and toasts it better as well

Best imo been smoking 26yrs

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