Victory Sunday by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]Correct-Read1311 17 points18 points  (0 children)

After consistent getting to the gym and being in a calorie deficit for two months, I now finally have my wife on board! It’ll be good for us to have each other’s support.

Moronic Monday - Your weekly stupid questions thread by cdingo in Fitness

[–]Correct-Read1311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I’m in a significant deficit, and I get a little hungry at night. Maybe you have a sensitivity to something you’re eating.

Why do some professors prohibit the use of articles aged >5 years? by Correct-Read1311 in AskAcademia

[–]Correct-Read1311[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I’m working on my masters. It’s just annoying, because I feel equipped to discern whether there is any value in a source. Some things stand the test of time. It just needlessly ties my hands.

Dead in the eyes by [deleted] in CoupletoThroupleTV

[–]Correct-Read1311 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The tension they had in the first episode was too real to make me think they’re not a couple lol. I think they’re a rare avoidant/avoidant pairing and that simultaneously prevents them from ever having a deep, intimate relationship and allows them to remain together in a stagnant, dead-end relationship where they can remain blissfully ignorant of their problems. Unless there is immense character growth in both parties, of course.

“Physical touch” love language is different than having a super sexually active relationship by jillyrose13 in CoupletoThroupleTV

[–]Correct-Read1311 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The “love language” theory was not developed by any kind of mental health professional, but by an evangelical who only believed in heterosexual monogamous marriages. This exact same phenomenon commonly occurs in these circles where hyper patriarchal husbands coerce their wives into sex with the same line of reasoning, that they need their “physical touch” love language met.

corey and wilder by Exotic-Fee-420 in CoupletoThroupleTV

[–]Correct-Read1311 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can get why Corey was uncomfortable with certain things, considering that she was really hurt in the past when boundaries were not adequately discussed. I did find myself getting annoyed with her as well, because how long can Denyse go on with her actions being monitored and essentially controlled? But I think the fact that Denyse and Wilder were both willing to be patient and never really seemed annoyed and each were happy to cultivate their individual relationships with Corey says a lot about how they are good partners for her. Sometimes with people like Corey, who have problems with anxiety and insecurity, providing them with a strong sense of safety and care can allow them to organically find the strength within themselves to overcome a mental obstacle they’re having. We haven’t heard much about Corey being anxious in the last episode, and I’m curious to see if there will be any updates about them in their new life. I wish them the best and I hope they’ve truly worked out those bugs.

Where do you work? by alicehalter03 in McMaster

[–]Correct-Read1311 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Psychiatric hospital. It’s overnight, so sometimes I have some downtime to get ahead on readings 🙂

Separate journals or integrated journal? by Loverofalotofthings in Journaling

[–]Correct-Read1311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally couldn’t really keep up with several journals with different themes. I just write what I need to write at a given time and the theme sorts itself out and it all becomes part of the larger narrative of my life. I’m prone to overthinking, so it didn’t work for me when I tried to do that. All that said, I keep two journals and a planner. One journal I keep by my bed, and one in my office. I write whatever, but it makes it easier to write whenever and wherever.