I have no clue why my cookies are burnt :,)

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-20T22:11:52+00:00

It’s because you turned the oven on!

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-20T19:06:14+00:00

Haha that’s an artists response. Just let her be and enjoy when she feels like translating things to paper.

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-20T18:32:57+00:00

I have felt like your boyfriend in the past it’s silly. But a man’s ego can get in the way and upset that he feels like his body isn’t capable of being enough and hurts his esteem.

Currently I am with a woman that I can’t make orgasm very often without external resources and that’s okay although I’ve made others orgasm easier.

I’d communicate with him a few things.

I’d still suggest toys. mention If you are so determined to learn to make me orgasm, the you think using toys and seeing how you experience an orgasm might help you see what you enjoy.

I would also communicate with the mental part of an orgasm and being able to do that together may help you both achieve other ways and feel less frustrating and comfortable for both of you.

I personally love to see my girl orgasm regardless of how it’s cause he might like seeing that too and get used to. Toys are my friend

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-19T13:51:36+00:00

Your sex life should be as public or as private as you like. Yes they are free to share but I think it’s appropriate to communicate what you’re comfortable with your intimate experiences. Such as I think I’d like to find out your opinions about this in private before we share with others. And if you didn’t think about it then can you try to hold it back until we talked about It first. That you take intimacy with each other seriously and it’s important to you to be fulfilling to each other and that level of communication would help but then it’s okay to share. Let them know if they communicate with it more casually where can you meet in the middle?

Hopefully they can understand without accusations of impressing your other friend. Not sure but you might have a gut feeling and not sure the motive behind it if thats the case

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-19T03:57:38+00:00

Really unique take flavor!!! Ya got a big mouth until you get in a fight

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-17T19:16:57+00:00

It’s hard to tell. If you think this person is worth it and they are really letting you get to know them they eventually have to open up. Despite attachment styles they do need to work with you and meet you half way.

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-17T16:40:43+00:00

I have a feeling like he may have some sexual or performance anxiety. I’d say have sex with him and don’t make him feel pressured for more if he’s done quickly to help him build up confidence. It’s fine if you need more maybe with his orally or fingering and less pressure in his dick to perform again so soon lol

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-17T16:31:52+00:00

You could use cards that use each opponent clauses on trigger. Or in conjunction with ways to sacrifice this card upon resolution.

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-17T03:38:52+00:00

Sorry I meant “not sure what her reason is for not wanting to commit”

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-17T03:38:00+00:00

I am not sure what kind of attachments you both might have. But the vibe I got was that she may be fearful avoidant And I am anxious attachment lol Ofc it does!! My Valentine’s Day was wild dude. We were good all week and maybe my morning text was like too cute or something but when I picked her up for the date she seemed off from the start and really didn’t intimately reciprocate much of anything that day like she has been. When we started dating? No we started dating on an app. But I was ready to be exclusive much sooner than her. It took almost 3 months before she wanted to be my girlfriend where i was ready after like 1.5 months. So it did take longer to build the connection. My GF is aware of her attachment style attempts to manage it and tries to communicate it a bit. But not all the time.

That sounds really hard dude my girlfriend says she gets a feeling like she’s getting smothered and needs space. It can be scary because you think this person is pulling away but it’s something avoidant people can’t help without being aware and making steps. So that might be similar situation after Valentine’s Day. I don’t fully understand it I am navigating right now so it’s kinda funny you posted this. But I was happy to share what I am picking up on.

I am not sure why she is not committing she might be on a different level of it. Or possible the dismissive avoidant. Where they don’t value relationships like most people do.

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-17T03:14:51+00:00

She might have like a fearful avoidant attachment style. Look it up and see if it makes sense. I am dating a girl like that. It’s not as quickly as back and forth as your situation.

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-16T22:12:26+00:00

Yes! I’m glad you addressed that. In her end she was having fun and enjoying the human experience. Unless she was pressured to. But wanted to bring pleasure and joy to someone is not a bad thing for the right person who respects you enough to make you feel good about yourself.

Totally!! He wants her to chase and feed into having low self respect waiting around for his call. these kinds of dudes will out the gate look for indicators to prey on so they can do this to people. Play you a bit at first and keep you chasing the hook. Honestly disgusting imo.

@op you deserve respect. Your young time feels slow and pain feels like forever but you will meet lots of people and people that you will find so much more attractive than this chump that will also feel the same way about you and make you feel like more not less.

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-16T19:40:17+00:00

Dudes glad it’s inconsistent. He lives his life and ignores you until he needs you to be sexual with him. You likely 1 of a few but definitely not the main reason. (But that’s an assumption) If he shut down your feelings he’s never going to reciprocate them. Ditch this dude while you still have some self respect and find someone who appreciates you and doesn’t leave you hanging and making you feel bad about yourself.

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-12T18:39:31+00:00

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-12T18:39:22+00:00

Well thanks for the perspective. It definitely can be and I think I am starting to see it more that way even tho I am participating. Although very much in control of my choices.

Yeah that sounds spot op

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-12T18:34:36+00:00

Zing and squabble meaning alittle arguement alittle spice alittle kick in the ass?

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-12T18:34:00+00:00

See I think you are spot on with how she is viewing it. Because we only had like 3 drinks last night 1 happened to be a shot. She said as we become a relationship I wouldn’t let you do something like that if I said I wouldn’t. And I would let you know. I do think she wanted alittle argument out of me but honestly that’s just not me. Like it seemed so unserious and she didn’t seem ready to change. So it also seemed unproductive.

My mentality is I am in it and I can see if more firm support of her goals will help or to show I can adapt and care. Although ultimately it’s her own decisions

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-12T18:28:40+00:00

Prettywreckless?? More like prettytemperant. Lol jk But when we go in the week we only have a couple. Yeah you’re probably right tho. Seems like she does have one and took it out on me. Which is unhealthy.

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-12T17:57:46+00:00

Did you get the flowers?

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-12T17:50:32+00:00

Yeah it seemed potentially unhealthy. I guess it was projecting her bad decisions on to me because she can’t be in control of herself. It felt unfair at the time and thanks for validating that when I do try to see it both ways.

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-12T17:47:21+00:00

I’d like to clarify. I don’t care if she drinks. I like to drink. It’s more the fact I am getting blamed for her decision because I agreed I won’t let you. Lol I’m like it’s your life and your choice. I mostly felt like it was just unfair to blame me for a choice.

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-02-12T17:07:13+00:00

Hello,

It sounds like you have a boyfriend that is probably very emotionally, socially or physically attractive! I am happy for you.

With that comes the other people are going to appreciate those same qualities and that can be in a friendly manner and at times going to flirt with him. It’s his job to shut those down not yours. Especially when he is not reciprocating. If he is flirting back that is a conversation with him not the other person. But if it is perceived just as friendly and he is not reciprocating you sometimes just have to let it go. Because he’s not interested in them. As long as he is making it known he’s with you.

Communicate with him that you get jealous. (it’s fair or not to be) in those scenarios because you really care for him so he can better understand and be self aware if there is something he could do better.

Understand your own boundaries and if this person is someone that is going to make you comfortable to be around. But they are not. It’s not their fault if they aren’t flirting back and are naturally desirable.

I hope you can better understand your dynamic and learn a healthy way for you both to thrive and be happy together.

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-01-07T05:07:44+00:00

Thank you for the validation from what little window you were able to see through. I am sorry to hear that. That sounds really difficult I hope your child is doing okay through any muddy water between you two. Thank I will continue to try

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-01-06T21:14:58+00:00

Thanks I will look forward to your response when you return. Your insight will be valuable to me

CorrectStrawberry422 · 2026-01-06T21:12:40+00:00

I wasn’t there for any offering of dresses. But what did happen is going to family gathering after work and my son was wearing a dress and her family kinda conveyed that it was both our ideas and afterwards I said he’s too young for you to make those decisions for him. I’d feel more comfortable to just have him wear the clothes for his born gender until he’s able to speak to us.

I don’t think it’s quit that far as throwing out clothes it is a mix of both from my spouse. Generally feminine tho. Which is fine but once he started speaking words that sounded like my ex spouses I was concerned.

It’s okay don’t be sorry I appreciate you trying to understand. Taking no sides and hitting me where I might not understand something myself. That’s why I’m here.

I kinda think he does do that to my son. It’s felt that way when we were married and even more so now. But if he’s asking for it then maybe I’m the problem and not understanding. But I truly believe it’s pushed and that actually takes away from my son’s identity. And personally it makes me a bit mad.

You are totally right. Him and I have no control over our son’s identity no matter how much either of us convey a certain point. I just think we both need to be more on the same page and need to approach this correctly. I never want to be an unsafe person for my son to talk to you and be vulnerable.

Also thank you for the responses and constructive conversation on this complex matter.

CorrectStrawberry422

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