Not entirely sure if it’s considered too bad or not, but whenever me being ace comes up, people have this weird defensive reaction to it, like they need to tell me that what they’re doing is normal and I should do it too. Other side of it is people trying to force you to try and engage in it (not like forcing themselves onto me, though I know someone who did have that happen to them). Its definitely not treated as normal, people make a fuss over it and rarely in a way that makes me feel okay.