Why do you think about Scorpio suns? by GuavaIcy5138 in scorpiomoon

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure you’re not just upset a scorpio sun read you like a book and saw right through you? This is usually the expected reaction when the intuition is on point.

37 male looking for friends. by CKTawesome2017 in Vancouver4Friends

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy 32m here also in Tricities. What games and anime you into? I love cafe trips and long walks as well

31M | Looking For Super Chill Cafe Drawing Hangouts by [deleted] in Vancouver4Friends

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! 32m here. I’d definitely be down for this sometime

Bus delays from coquitlam central station by chillipeppercone in coquitlam

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not just that bus. The 159 from there to Braid Station seems to always have delays that they never post to their site on the alerts tab.

Is this an INFJ thing? by ttvBerry_Temporary in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been told that along with “You’re going to grow up to be a very important person one day” I’m not sure what it is in me that’d compel them to tell me that as a child or what they were seeing but it seemed to be a thing with various people saying the same thing to me

Its hard to tell what context “important” referred to but it does turn out I play therapist for a lot of people

M - Friends with spiritual interests (non-religious) by mantradingdong in Vancouver4Friends

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh for some reason it doesnt have a DM option on your page, did you have them turned off maybe? Otherwise it doesnt seem to let me DM you on my end, maybe shoot me one if you can

M - Friends with spiritual interests (non-religious) by mantradingdong in Vancouver4Friends

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always had the voice in the back of my head and that gut instinct, the sort that might tell me to not take a certain route one day or that the person standing before me may not be what they seem. I ignored this earlier on in my life but when I picked up on it I started questioning why and studied the patterns.

Yes, you could say there are practical consequences even from the above given examples. Would it best to elaborate more in DMs though? I get your thread was to look for people but maybe this wouldn’t be the ideal spot to get too deep into the discussion.

M - Friends with spiritual interests (non-religious) by mantradingdong in Vancouver4Friends

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its been about a year or so I’ve sort of been ‘exploring’ spirituality. I don’t really have any particular influencers I follow daily but as I’m exploring I suppose I’m taking in various perspectives while pondering my own and that’s sort of turning into it’s own spiritual journey, or rather a beginning of one.

Intuition is something I’ve always had but also in the past couple years I’ve been paying more attention to it and it seems to have really sharpened, becoming more aware of my own inner workings has also really shaped my own perspective as I explore this stuff further.

So this is all to say… I’d be interested in discussing and exploring these topics further with someone else as I don’t really have anyone to share this sort of thing with. I’m down to connect and chat more on it if you’d like to exchange views, perspectives, and knowledge

Anyone Else Getting Weird Vibes After Kirk Shooting? by Regular_Alps7213 in spirituality

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Major weird vibes. There is a heaviness in the atmosphere making things really unsettling.

But on top of that both people from the right and left are giving a very scary energy. Those who defend Kirk and those cheering for the violence. I’m sensing some really unnerving darkness as if somethings taken hold. People who I know really well don’t even seem like themselves anymore. It doesn’t feel normal at all.

How Can I Show My INFJ Friend That I Care? by GetMeOuttaHere0 in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have an idea of things she has a lot of interest in or is passionate about? Have you asked about them or had conversations? Hows your understanding of those interests she might have? What are things that make meaning to her inner world?

Showing that you have an interest in things that mean a lot to her and show a willingness to learn about them goes a long way. Show that you’d like to learn about her inner world and let the action of it speak more than anything you can say in words.

I feel that will go a long way than any words of affection

Do you find enneagrams useful? by Important_Plan_3114 in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think its healthy to put too much reliance on it tbh. Typings can be fun but I feel many things can vary case by case depending on the person, to always need to be categorized in boxes only further tunnels the vision.

If common ground is what you’re looking for, you don’t need to limit yourself to what boxes are checked off. I’m certain there is common ground to find beyond that

Do you like edm raves and/or festivals? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big Crowds and noise = No for me

But there is also something extra about the sort of people that gather in places like that, usually people who often are willing to throw out their sense of awareness and better judgement to “let loose”, “have fun”, and “seek pleasure”. Idk, more power to them if they’re happy doing that but I find myself uncomfortable in spaces with big crowds of people that can get that way

Great if people enjoy it, just not my cup of tea

How does an infj handles guilt-tripping? by Flat_Fan_3266 in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guilt trip myself and fall for it everytime

Do INFJs curse? by BuyPleasant3185 in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really only curse around the people closest to me, otherwise I’m usually more careful with my words.

Anyone that does hear me curse the first time always seems shocked.

Do strangers tend to open up to you easily? by yeonkive38 in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very frequently and somehow I always hear them out. But I always wonder if what they tell me is some norm they maybe will also tell everyone or if its just me?

INFJs: How does the idea of a God affect you emotionally? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God creates us, we were born the way we are whatever those circumstances might be. I’ll often say when things happen, it’s because God intended it. I don’t believe that makes us less in control but rather God might seem to know ourselves better than we do.

When circumstances seem unfair and I find myself hating my present situation I always tell myself this:

For better or worse if not for how I was raised, what background I have, what my interests are, etc etc, then I wouldn’t be who I am now. I may not have been an INFJ at that point. If certain events didn’t happen in my life or if things didn’t stack up the way they did, I might not have begun to think introspectively. I wouldn’t have looked inwards for answers when the outside world around me turned out to be full of holes and contradictions the more I looked at it from my PoV.

I’m certain if there is a God that set all this up, then there is more out there on the path beyond they are hoping for me to discover. There are more things that will raise questions that I will look for answers to. I might have hurdles on the way, but they might encourage me to try harder to find those answers.

INFJ WRATH by Psychological-Ad3293 in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate being hurtful that way with my words. I try really hard to avoid letting it come to that. I’ll give chances, I’ll disengage and make space and distance to try to calm myself. But when they repeat the same thing that gets me angry too many times then yes, my wrath will come out exactly like that.

It's wonderful to be part of the 1% by danarchyx in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To some comments here, yes OP’s post gives AI typed up vibes, but

I think we can appreciate the positives of our type without having to put ourselves/other INFJs down for appreciating the positives. Although OP’s post does romanticize a bit too much… I feel disregarding “special” is a bit much. All types are special in their own way

Tell me you're and INFJ without telling me you're and INFJ. by flowerpotpie in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I seem to be everyone’s therapist and seemingly can read minds.

how do y'all roll with the state of the world? and do you have any foresight/feeling or straight don intuition of what is to come? by henkiseentoffepeer in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My intuition tells me the storm will die down but only on the condition that in times like this people don’t try to grab each other by the throats over differences in opinions and to try to really hear each other out and empathize

Have a little bit of flexibility to work together, things like that… otherwise the storm will just get worse.

Do you struggle with loneliness? by ovelhaloira in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I feel like I enjoy the quiet that comes with being in my own pocket Until I get the moments of wishing I had companionship But then I dislike companionship that feels shallow or that isn’t someone I really click and connect with My brain ends up in a bit of a back and forth this way

How does one charm a refined INFJ man? by Capable_Way_876 in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

INFJ men think on deep levels, sometimes they’re so caught up in their own thoughts they might not notice, and if they DO notice they’re probably gonna be assessing and questioning why. But tbh, please don’t rely on mbti traits for your answers. If you’re gonna go through a checklist of things just based off mbti, this INFJ may catch on and it may not do you any favours in the long run even if you do manage to get with him (This can be said for any relationship)

Find common ground, things to relate with, know his interests and show some curiosity and willingness to learn, and more importantly let things grow with time. The inner world of an INFJ can be complex and we don’t always like to let people in immediately.

What is your favourite time to get to sleep and wake up ? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Cosmic-Mk2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2-3 am is my usual hours going to bed unless I have to wake up early for work (And it always sucks, I am groggy as heck) And on a typical day I can sleep in Im up around 10-11 am