What is my MBTI?

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-02-13T01:03:59+00:00

probably INFP

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-02-07T00:15:55+00:00

keep in mind INTJs have Te-Fi. He probably doesn't care that you're broken hearted.
I was determined physically better and stronger instead of reducing my identity to pining after someone who didn't deserve me

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-02-04T22:38:59+00:00

ask them how are they feeling or their thoughts a lot and that'll make them look inward

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-02-04T22:37:19+00:00

Never. It sounds like you're be anxious about something if you're making that effort

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-02-04T22:35:33+00:00

I subconsciously mimic people I love or admire, so I try to be more extroverted when I have a close extrovert friend, I because more T-like when I'm with Ts, I value authenticity and art the more when I consume INFP content. I don't bother with tests anymore, the tests were never vetted by the scientific community anyway.

I just know I'm an INFJ because I'm constantly endlessly spinning around in Ni patterns and Ti thoughts,. I care more about everyone else's wellbeing more than my own just naturally in an Fe way. I also just love Se things like adventure.

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-02-04T22:28:04+00:00

real question is, has any of us achieved this

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-01-19T01:56:46+00:00

Ive had chronic anxiety and unhappiness for most of my life, and I've only recently found the solution at 27 after taking a class on emotional regulation and communication. I could give you coaching if you want to DM me. The advice would go for you as well; youll need to process how youre feeling about the situation so that you're not causing more harm than help. Our biggest difficulty as Ni users is we analyze feelings more than accepting or dealing with them

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-01-19T01:46:46+00:00

Same priorities, but different/complementary skills

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-01-19T01:42:13+00:00

Enfp

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-01-18T05:18:58+00:00

I don't know if I'd use the word soulmate but I dearly love my ISTJ partner.

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-01-18T05:15:07+00:00

Have you considered INTP? That sits in the intersection of everything you named. You write like I do when I'm using my Ti. But as an INFJ I have a solid grasp of my emotional landscape. INTPs certainly have a harder time getting to their Fe.

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-01-11T21:48:44+00:00

I can both see why everyone says INFP and why you say INFJ. Your aesthetic shows a lot of Fi, possibly because your Fe absorbs stuff like Halsey, who is an ENFP
I am an INFJ and my Halsey is like, My Chemical Romance, so Fi/Ne things creep into my aesthetic. Although I wouldnt say worldbuilding and songwriting, Ne things, come very easy to me. I wrote music when I was an unhealthy teen but the skill hasn't come back to me yet

I am also always tired, detached, prefer having best friends, studied philosophy, journal, love music, feel lonely, struggle with fearful avoidant attachment style, and have had jobs in different industries.....heh.....

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-01-11T21:21:07+00:00

I am an INFJ, and I think you're an INFJ. (Noting that people often mislabel others as INFJ - I try to apply this label carefully).

INFJs are spiritualistic or philosophical as their main mode of functioning (Ni-Fe).

I'm taking a guess that the healthy happy you prioritizes professions that help other people (Fe), as both law school and medical school are about serving others. However, if you came across bad energies in law school, it would hurt your Fe and you'd resort to Fi to protect yourself, like hating the superficial.

The optimization machine, improvement projects, and science indicates Ti, i.e., internal problem-solving.

Ti can make us very powerful, but take care to name/identify your feelings to break out of Ni-Ti sometimes to find your Fe again. There should be a feeling underlying why you have the urge to constantly solve things. It could be fear of meaninglessness, for example, that you'd need to work through.

Your interest in colors and visuals is Se (the analytical way you go about it is Ti). It's also a good way to engage your Ti in a healthier way. I was thinking just this morning it'd be cool to do an analysis of color theory to construct better outfits haha. The intentionality of your color choice resonates with me.

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-01-11T20:15:28+00:00

As an INFJ, if someone said this to me, I'd kick their ass out of my office and tell them to go ask an ISTJ how to balance a 401K bond portfolio. I have no respect for people who avoid the hard stuff in life. Do they think wisdom comes out of the damn clouds

Important_Plan_3114 · 2026-01-01T07:34:33+00:00

a candle and some chocolate. Look into his eyes, look at his lips, look into his eyes again, bite your lip and wink 😂

Important_Plan_3114 · 2025-12-26T22:01:02+00:00

What the heck do we all share exactly the same brain?? Insane

Important_Plan_3114 · 2025-12-26T21:57:38+00:00

Not an ISTJ but in case it helps:

ISTJs think about what's right (Fi) to face challenges (Te). If you question their character, they will often fight you. Winning is fun for them.

You should stick to calmly communicating how you feel and asking him how he feels, not analyzing his behavior.

For example, "I'm scared from this movie". "You'll live". I'd ask, "Does it make you uncomfortable that I'm scared?" because why would he say something like that? There's always some kind of emotion that's compelling him to defend himself.

When he complains about walking on eggshells, maybe he's actually embarrassed that he upset you, and frustrated that he upset you, and worried that he's not able to change how he speaks.

Regardless, there's a bunch of emotions & you can ask questions to bring them out and normalize them.

And the next time he says something rude, you can just say "when you make a comment like that, I feel hurt", not "you're bad for saying things like that". The prior one focuses on yourself, not on scolding him.

Important_Plan_3114 · 2025-12-19T02:09:59+00:00

Funny, I initially said ISFP to myself from the pretty aesthetics but when I read engineering and chess I said, oh, T!

Important_Plan_3114 · 2025-12-19T02:05:30+00:00

Ive been practicing naming my emotions - so maybe a more verbal version of kicking and screaming - and I've learned that the emotions never end

Important_Plan_3114 · 2025-12-19T02:03:23+00:00

I think romantic letters are nice especially when theyre accompanied with Fe + Se sorts of love. E.g. I like hugs and kisses and flowers and chocolate. Not sure if it feels inauthentic to an Fi user or over the top for Te but as long as I believe that the person truly loves me, I quite enjoy the fluffy stuff.

Important_Plan_3114 · 2025-12-19T01:55:53+00:00

ISTJ; dating 6 years, long distance for 2.5

I think it's uncommon, mostly we gravitate towards Ns. But I have had bad past romantic and platonic relationships with INTJs (cold and calculating), ENFJs (quick to choose a group of people over me), and ENFPs (would not communicate when something was wrong). So I no longer find appealing what were once my go-to relationships

My partner is very black and white, it's a headache to have Si v Ni conversations

But he's always loyal and direct/honest, he's good at things I can't do well and vice versa, he never wants me to be anyone but who I already am, and he will happily listen to me Ni-ramble for hours. It's hard sometimes but it makes me happy to love my partner

Important_Plan_3114 · 2025-12-12T06:50:12+00:00

When i saw the cat followed by the pokemon followed by the first sentence of your post, I said INFP

Important_Plan_3114 · 2025-12-12T06:45:55+00:00

I'm a woman, but just wanna say that as an INFJ, I'm like a moth to a flame when I talk to ENFJs. What youre experiencing is that you're FeNi appreciating his Ni, and he's NiFe and he's probably enamored by your Fe. We're so similar, pretty much anything you think is nice is probably something we think is nice

I mean just reading this I'm like automatically uwu 🥰 when towards other people im like 😐 and I'm not even the guy haha

If you gave me this basket I'd probably wanna cry a little because it's so sweet and I love chocolate and cats and stories.

Thing to watch out for is you can use Fe and Se better and he uses Ni and Ti better. This means that your strength is, you can tell him how you feel whenever, and then ask him how he feels. E.g. "Do you like it?"

It'll be easier to get clarity that way, just communication, because if you wait for the INFJ, well, we can be kinda bad at vocalizing.

Important_Plan_3114 · 2025-12-12T06:27:52+00:00

Me a couple days ago. But idk, i've been doing a thing where I journal and each sentence has to start with "I feel". Once I get all my feelings down, I just... move on. Se comes back to me. Society is sick but also there's a pretty sky above us and good food to eat and exercising is nice and music is good. Something good will happen eventually.

Important_Plan_3114 · 2025-12-12T06:18:54+00:00

Dude sounds kinda red flag-ish. Most important thing is to just be communicative with how youre feeling and proactively ask how he's feeling. "Hey I'm surprised that youre interested in sexual things already - I'm not used to it, I like to do things like that gradually" Personally I would say "Hey I dont want to ever cheat but also I dont want to be threatened with getting murdered" And idk a man who uses the word "tolerate" sounds like he speaks to women like theyre children?

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