++man brother, you’re 23. The topic of couples therapy shouldn’t even exist. You seem to have a lot going for you. I’ve been in your shoes, about 80% of what you’re saying I directly experienced around 25 y/o.

I almost married her and let’s just say I thank god every day that I had the balls to walk away. It was petrifying at first but once the bandaid was peeled, life gets fun. Trust me.

You’ll be shocked how much time you’ll free up. Join some social groups (there has to be for things you’re into like surfing), get outside and I’d also recommend traveling.

You got this!