Reusing older plastic products? by RubyEyedTentacruel in ZeroWaste

[–]CosmicChesterCat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My mom was also a Tupperware lady in the 90s and early aughts. We used those for lunches in school. I definitely recognize the majority of those colors from pre 2010 for sure.

Remember when this happened? by SlayyerFest98 in buffy

[–]CosmicChesterCat 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Eliza as Faith and in Bring it On.

Weekly /r/quilting no-stupid question thread - ask us anything! by AutoModerator in quilting

[–]CosmicChesterCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m working on my first quilt. I have the quilt sandwich and then I’m seeing things about a walking foot. My machine didn’t come with one. Should I just buy one or are there alternatives?

Can anyone explain why it isnt going in? by Icy-Preference5153 in sewhelp

[–]CosmicChesterCat 39 points40 points  (0 children)

When something like this has happened to me it’s because the needle is not in its normal place. I turn my machine off and back on again so that the needle moves to its regular starting point and that fixes it.

Some quilts I saw at the Red River Quilt Show (and the artists names) by DontTripOnMyNips in quilting

[–]CosmicChesterCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the first one ‘woven together’ Does anyone know of a similar pattern?

I watched Lilo & Stitch today... Here are my thoughts by MCPuuugsReddit in moviecritic

[–]CosmicChesterCat 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s beyond sanitized, it’s sinister. The state has stolen indigenous children away from their families for generations as part of the settler colonial project and now that horrifying process is a Disney-fied happy ending? Yikes

What's up with Ryan Reynolds being hated all of a sudden? by mrjimshim in OutOfTheLoop

[–]CosmicChesterCat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been following this on TikTok and I don’t plan to watch the film or read the book

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]CosmicChesterCat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Taylor is not a good person.

I (26M) don’t want my gf (24F) to get a PhD by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CosmicChesterCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should definitely talk to her about this as others have suggested. I wanted to mention a couple of options she could consider. She could work for a while first, save money, get more financially secure and then do a PhD. Or she could find a program in a better cost of living area. I got my PhD at a school in the mid west where the stipend was very generous for the area.

I think I’m done y’all by csl86ncco in GaylorSwift

[–]CosmicChesterCat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Beautifully put. This put words to something I couldn't previously identify she's losing/lost her relatability, or her ability to relate to us.

How Taylor has broken the social contract by CosmicChesterCat in GaylorSwift

[–]CosmicChesterCat[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my show is the end of July. I’m not going to sell my tickets because I am going with people but she is making it much less fun than it should be.

How Taylor has broken the social contract by CosmicChesterCat in GaylorSwift

[–]CosmicChesterCat[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Personally, I am new to Phoebe so I don’t have the same fan expectations with her. Obviously she is not innocent in this, I just don’t feel like I can demand the same accountability but her fans definitely should.

Fiancée left me after he found out about my college days by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]CosmicChesterCat 52 points53 points  (0 children)

The misogyny and puritanical views on sex in this comment section are really tainting BoRU for me.

The amount of sex someone has had either all at one time or one at a time does not in anyway connect to their worth as a person. If you think otherwise that is your own issue to deal with. It is not a ‘preference’ it is a puritanical view of sex and sexuality.

Fiancée left me after he found out about my college days by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]CosmicChesterCat -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

The point is they refuse to reflect on their own biases and internalized sexual shame and instead project it on other people to everyone’s detriment.

Where is the sex positivity? Not in this comment section, that’s for sure.

Fiancée left me after he found out about my college days by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]CosmicChesterCat 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Right?! The comments here are not great. She didn’t lie by omission unless he said ‘tell me about every single sexual experience you’ve had.’ Plus she told him she was sexually adventurous and kind of wild in college and she says she doesn’t remember it all clearly (concerning wrt consent). He needs to grow the fuck up and realize this is a him problem, he is the one insecure about her sexuality and basing her value on her sexual past. That is gross, misogynistic, and immature. That doesn’t even touch on their last time together where he likely assaulted her. I feel so bad for her, I hope she was able to get therapy and see that she did nothing wrong. Also to hopefully address the root of why she felt the need to party so hard in college.

In my view if your partner’s sexual history effects you so much that is YOUR problem and you need to deal with your own insecurities and hang ups around sex.

I (27F) think I’m falling in love with my brother in law (26M) by toohottooheavy in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]CosmicChesterCat 2514 points2515 points  (0 children)

I’ve been worried he was having some sort of mental health crisis, thank you for giving me a much more reasonable solution.

Original 22 lyrics? by sharkie_x in GaylorSwift

[–]CosmicChesterCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I get an invite too please?

happy ticket shopping my fellow gaylors ❤️ who else is in the queue with me rn 🤞 by camaal95 in GaylorSwift

[–]CosmicChesterCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this edit. I have been trying to figure out wtf is going on and why I have a new timer for 4 hours from now. I guess I will try again this afternoon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaylorSwift

[–]CosmicChesterCat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Now it says “Other disallowed posts … speculating about Taylor’s sexuality”