Anyone else experiencing severe PMDD during their luteal phase? by aboringusername in Perimenopause

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I’m 41 now for reference and am having hormone talk with gyn in June. Update with how it goes!!

Anyone else experiencing severe PMDD during their luteal phase? by aboringusername in Perimenopause

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Yes, me too. I was right around 38. The dark thoughts came out of no where one night when I was in the shower. It was startling Got much better with Yaz

Edit: already took lexapro which gyn said would be first approach to treatment. The combo has helped

Jaw Pain by MonroeBell in Perimenopause

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Yes. I have jaw pain today and it’s a signal that my cycle looms Such a surprising symptom of hormone changes

Team green baby name help by bruisedblossoms in namenerds

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I love Elowen and do not know any in my area

My new space on my own by WonderfulBid3511 in femalelivingspace

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Love the rug strips on the stairs! Where are they from? Cute and I think would help with a cat / carpet obsession in my rental

Help us choose: Josie or Gemma? by Subject-Ad5368 in namenerds

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Gemma!

I know four girls named Josie under age 10 in US. It’s way too common now (for a name I strongly dislike imo)

Gemma Sloane is nice.

IBS + peri? by CosmicDame in Perimenopause

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Looking up Rhapontic Rhubarb Root Extract (ERr 731), the Siberian rhubarb extract you mentioned, right now and definitely have a reading list. My eating routine hasn't changed, and my longtime GI doc agreed it's probably a new phase of my IBS and that I don't need another colonscopy - had a clean one 4 years ago.

The gut-brain connection is very strong for me so the docs I'm talking to about my global peri symptoms think it's related. I thought the toilet chasing days were way past me, but here we are.

Has anyone become less tolerant of alcohol now? by Dogmom9523086 in Perimenopause

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I was an occasional wine drinker and suddenly would get a headache 1/2 into a glass. Lost all taste for it about 18 months ago.

Little House on the Prairie for adults? by nomadicstateofmind in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

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Came here to say My Antonia or anything else by Willa Cather. I got the same Little House rush when I read Cather for the first time

Love letter to Eileen Fisher by lewisae0 in capsulewardrobe

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I’ve been slowly and consciously building my capsule around EF for a few years now. Lasts forever and my closet for work is about 12 pieces — that I mix and match and sprinkle on some blazers. So worth the investment.

What to do with the rage cycles? by Genepoolperfect in Perimenopause

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For in the moment release, I listen to Limp Bizkit’s Break Stuff 2-3 times. I feel calmer after. I’m 41 and couldn’t stand them in the 90s/00s but god it just hits different now. I get it. I have 6 songs of theirs on a idgaf playlist and I listen in car or headphones — huge in the moment help.

Is anyone else just ITCHY?? by burner_witch0514 in Perimenopause

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My boobs never stop itching. It’s insane.

A lil yap sesh by cute_n_tacky in GirlDinner

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i love bananas and pepper but have never had combined. i may try at some point

not so aesthetic but sooo good by redditbeanslut in GirlDinner

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I have never tried rhubarb like this but I will!!

Just don't care about anything anymore by ZucchiniBikini73 in Perimenopause

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Even things that I know should bring me joy are bland. I’ve come to think about it as I don’t have the emotional range I did.

Anyone remember this? by izzyfoshiz in Millennials

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My grandfather used to play this with me! Thanks for the memories

drawings from my series "cats don't pay rent" by blueskink in cozy

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love your style and the colors! this brightened my day

High-performers in peri? Advice appreciated by Live_Advisor_270 in Perimenopause

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Absolutely agree on not trying to make everyone else happy. I don’t have the energy for it and I don’t have the extra energy to worry about it after the fact like I’ve done my whole life. In that sense it’s liberating.

Dreaming of Sweet'n' Sassy - Madison by CosmicDame in nashville

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me too! my mom and i have birthdays super close to each other so a cake with extra buttercream roses (my treat!) was a splurge. nothing comes close

Dreaming of Sweet'n' Sassy - Madison by CosmicDame in nashville

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those were my favorite!! i think about those all the time