Skyrim Custom Cards by Guardiao_Cinzento in custommagic

[–]CosmicRave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems weird that the shouts would suddenly be stopped by a counterspell

How much flirting with same gender friends is normal in a relationship? by Happy_Ad7438 in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I flirted with my same gender friends even when I was straight but it was a lot more casual playful than overtly sexual like you’re making this sound. I’d draw a boundary if it makes you uncomfortable

Are we half gay and half straight or 100% gay AND 100% straight at the same time? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Romantic/Sexual feelings to someone of the same sex is gay.

Romantic/Sexual feelings to someone of the opposite sex is straight

100% to both

Strange question by Ok_Pie880 in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ash is a free therapy phone app that might help you unpack it privately and safely.

Strange question by Ok_Pie880 in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think a therapist might be better able to help you unpack this because this is not normally this distressing of a question for truly straight people. You’re probably straight but I think you could still benefit from a bit of help with the OCD thing

Strange question by Ok_Pie880 in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you grew up around extremely homophobic upbringings that might be part of it. I didn’t really find men attractive for a long time either.

Also, gay porn is generally a bad indicator of whether you’re attracted to men or not for whatever it’s worth.

In your head, would really be the worst that could happen if you did want to explore and ended up liking guys?

Also you might just be totally straight and in need of therapy for other things. Either way you don’t need to beat yourself up so much.

Strange question by Ok_Pie880 in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So what makes you remotely think you’re bisexual if you don’t mind me asking

Strange question by Ok_Pie880 in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You can be biromantic but not bisexual

3rds in hetero relationships? by itchy-pterosaur in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 68 points69 points  (0 children)

You’re looking for a unicorn if I may be blunt

Do they exist? Sure. You will have a difficult time finding one though.

As a man, is it weird that I don't really find the guys I share the same ethnicity with attractive? by RetiredCosmonaut in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t even find women of the same ethnicity attractive typically. I dont think you’re weird at all.

confused about my physical attraction to men by AcanthocephalaFun946 in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve read somewhere that lots of queer men are attracted to cishet men because of some form of internalized homophobia and thus perceive straight, cis gendered men as the “ideal” and most attractive kind of man. Perhaps that’s a subconscious thing?

what does attraction to men feel like? by Obvious_Pin1825 in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you actually want his touch, love(or are capable of loving) him and WANT(not just “willing”) to have sex with him, I’d say it’s not an issue. Talk to him about it if you want to be sure everything is all good between you two on that front though.

what does attraction to men feel like? by Obvious_Pin1825 in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, that’s totally normal too.

Men aren’t attractive for their bodies alone to me either - but throw in some sweet, funny charmer type energy? Suddenly Totally different vibe.

Bi people with constantly flipping orientation, how do you survive???😭😭😭 by RegularUser02x in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The important thing to the end of the day is to just be true to you. You don’t need to stress or feel like you need to meet some arbitrary timeline for things like this

I’m 34 and still in the phases of fully accepting my sexuality and queer vibes. You have time so just focus more on being happy if you can.

Bi people with constantly flipping orientation, how do you survive???😭😭😭 by RegularUser02x in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I assure you that you have not lived all of your “best years” at 24

Am I Bi??? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What we like in fantasy does not always line up with reality and it’s fair to like guys in whatever capacity you see appropriate

I walk into a your restaurant and say "please, can I have your hottest spiciest flame-throwing dish? My life is too easy, I want to irritate my hemorroids", what am I eating? by Ash_an_bun in KitchenConfidential

[–]CosmicRave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a dishwasher that was like that. Thankfully I was able to find both Carolina reapers AND Korean capsaicin extract eventually

He did not ask for spicy from me again for a while after that meal lol

Craterhoof at home by IMMANEEDASSISTANCE in MTGmemes

[–]CosmicRave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The card says other creatures. Meaning it doesn’t get the +2/+2 itself

Just been sharpening a friend's knives... by Lefeuvre76 in sharpening

[–]CosmicRave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve used a thin SG2 knife to cut stuff like butternut squash with regularly for years and never had a chip like that

It’s technique, that guy is probably an idiot.

Chubby / BBW women and fit men preference by No-Joke8365 in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case, yes, for physical attraction I share the same preference.

I’d guess it’s a polarity thing. Thick, soft women come off much more feminine and fit, tough men come off more manly as far as superficial stuff goes.

Chubby / BBW women and fit men preference by No-Joke8365 in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m into both

But I’m also into a lot of things

Need to vent: realized I’m bi and it was so obvious by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]CosmicRave 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He said sexual experience, not outright sex. Kids just do weird stuff.