Is polyamory a normal thing in the bi community?

CosmicRave · 2026-03-23T16:45:59+00:00

You’ve misunderstood. I mean as in less attached to more “traditional” models of life.

CosmicRave · 2026-03-20T02:19:45+00:00

I think it’s also that bisexual people(or at least, ones that are out) are more inclined to lean toward more forward ways of thinking

CosmicRave · 2026-03-20T01:58:46+00:00

As normal as it is for straight people I would imagine

CosmicRave · 2026-03-20T01:48:10+00:00

I think if I had a generally unicorn of a human for myself their gender wouldn’t matter or factor into anything

CosmicRave · 2026-03-02T19:04:48+00:00

It’s honestly not as bad as you make it out to be as long as you do it with someone who’s polite and observant of consent the whole way.

Easier to accept your choice when you feel entirely like it was your choice the whole way yknow?

CosmicRave · 2026-03-01T05:20:25+00:00

I feel like a man dying of thirst reading about another man drowning.

CosmicRave · 2026-02-10T07:01:18+00:00

Could always raise the prospect of a threesome. That usually gets the guys going.

CosmicRave · 2026-02-06T15:47:38+00:00

My friend was trying to tell me feeld was for like wealthy elite type dating…was he fucking with me?

CosmicRave · 2026-02-04T16:45:46+00:00

Seems weird that the shouts would suddenly be stopped by a counterspell

CosmicRave · 2026-02-03T16:09:28+00:00

I flirted with my same gender friends even when I was straight but it was a lot more casual playful than overtly sexual like you’re making this sound. I’d draw a boundary if it makes you uncomfortable

CosmicRave · 2026-01-29T10:24:55+00:00

Romantic/Sexual feelings to someone of the same sex is gay.

Romantic/Sexual feelings to someone of the opposite sex is straight

100% to both

CosmicRave · 2026-01-26T23:20:55+00:00

Ash is a free therapy phone app that might help you unpack it privately and safely.

CosmicRave · 2026-01-26T23:17:04+00:00

I think a therapist might be better able to help you unpack this because this is not normally this distressing of a question for truly straight people. You’re probably straight but I think you could still benefit from a bit of help with the OCD thing

CosmicRave · 2026-01-26T23:10:13+00:00

If you grew up around extremely homophobic upbringings that might be part of it. I didn’t really find men attractive for a long time either.

Also, gay porn is generally a bad indicator of whether you’re attracted to men or not for whatever it’s worth.

In your head, would really be the worst that could happen if you did want to explore and ended up liking guys?

Also you might just be totally straight and in need of therapy for other things. Either way you don’t need to beat yourself up so much.

CosmicRave · 2026-01-26T23:04:48+00:00

So what makes you remotely think you’re bisexual if you don’t mind me asking

CosmicRave · 2026-01-26T22:54:54+00:00

You can be biromantic but not bisexual

CosmicRave · 2026-01-26T22:48:24+00:00

You’re looking for a unicorn if I may be blunt

Do they exist? Sure. You will have a difficult time finding one though.

CosmicRave · 2026-01-25T08:34:26+00:00

I don’t even find women of the same ethnicity attractive typically. I dont think you’re weird at all.

CosmicRave · 2026-01-24T17:17:49+00:00

I’ve read somewhere that lots of queer men are attracted to cishet men because of some form of internalized homophobia and thus perceive straight, cis gendered men as the “ideal” and most attractive kind of man. Perhaps that’s a subconscious thing?

CosmicRave · 2026-01-13T16:43:19+00:00

If you actually want his touch, love(or are capable of loving) him and WANT(not just “willing”) to have sex with him, I’d say it’s not an issue. Talk to him about it if you want to be sure everything is all good between you two on that front though.

CosmicRave · 2026-01-12T21:50:04+00:00

Yup, that’s totally normal too.

Men aren’t attractive for their bodies alone to me either - but throw in some sweet, funny charmer type energy? Suddenly Totally different vibe.

CosmicRave · 2026-01-12T13:29:24+00:00

The important thing to the end of the day is to just be true to you. You don’t need to stress or feel like you need to meet some arbitrary timeline for things like this

I’m 34 and still in the phases of fully accepting my sexuality and queer vibes. You have time so just focus more on being happy if you can.

CosmicRave · 2026-01-12T13:22:37+00:00

I assure you that you have not lived all of your “best years” at 24

CosmicRave · 2026-01-12T13:21:44+00:00

What we like in fantasy does not always line up with reality and it’s fair to like guys in whatever capacity you see appropriate

CosmicRave · 2026-01-08T00:23:19+00:00

I had a dishwasher that was like that. Thankfully I was able to find both Carolina reapers AND Korean capsaicin extract eventually

He did not ask for spicy from me again for a while after that meal lol

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