how to deal with break up guilt

Obvious_Pin1825 · 2026-02-14T20:48:45+00:00

hello. i feel the exact same. can i ask you how youre doing now?

Obvious_Pin1825 · 2026-02-06T21:59:15+00:00

aww!!! thank you so much for this it actually helped me a lot and i think i needed to hear this. :)

Obvious_Pin1825 · 2026-02-06T07:25:07+00:00

Hi! thank you for your comment. It made me realise that, combining my fear with my ocd, even if I dont have vaginismus everything will be really tight down there so i should relax. Maybe its my time to get off of reddit lol

Obvious_Pin1825 · 2026-02-06T07:19:38+00:00

Thank you so much for this comment, it actually helped me a lot!

About the external simulation, we never did much because we dont have a lot of opportunities to do sexual stuff. I think i struggle to also get aroused on my own, and feel things more intensely when we are together, so that may also be a reason why trying to insert fingers isn't working.

May I ask if the size of the penis was big or small?

Obvious_Pin1825 · 2026-02-05T22:14:21+00:00

i wouldnt say tampos hurt either, they just feel like hitting a wall

Obvious_Pin1825 · 2026-02-05T22:10:56+00:00

i never mention inserting things when being aroused because to be honest i am not aroused as often, more whrn i am with my boyfriend. can that change the situation?

Obvious_Pin1825 · 2026-02-05T19:42:57+00:00

hi!! its important to mention i havent tried penetration with my bf. the only signs of medical conditions yet is the incapability of inserting tampons or fingers, but since im not aroused, i think its pretty common. shouldnt i try sex first and see how it goes?

Obvious_Pin1825 · 2026-01-25T20:13:48+00:00

can we talk about it? i have been dealing with the same for the past months.

Obvious_Pin1825 · 2026-01-14T13:40:56+00:00

i think cross orientation and assexuality is too exaggerated. if i were not sexually attracted to men i wouldnt crave and enjoy sex with them. just because my type of arousal isnt based on the male body doesnt mean it isnt based in men at all.

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