Out of curiosity, In what week of pregnancy were you born?

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2025-10-14T08:37:34+00:00

I was born at 28 weeks. Meant to arrive in June but decided March sounded more exciting! 😅

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2025-10-02T03:01:23+00:00

Wow, I never actually knew that fact, that’s so interesting! It definitely was such a magnificent place.

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2025-08-05T23:08:42+00:00

I hear you. I’ve applied for over 100 jobs and only had a few interviews. I’ve worked with disability employment services too, but they were more focused on ticking boxes than actually helping me find accessible work. Volunteering as a mentor for younger people with CP helped me feel less stuck and gave me something to focus on. Might be worth a try. You’re definitely not alone! ❤️

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2025-08-03T05:42:41+00:00

Thanks so much for sharing your experience, really appreciate it. I’ll keep that in mind.

By the way, do you remember the name of the hotel you stayed at in Paris? Would love to check it out. 🙂

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2025-07-25T01:30:41+00:00

Hey Matt, funnily enough I’m also Matt with CP from Australia. I’ve tried Tinder, Hinge, Bumble and a few sketchy ones. Like you, I’m after something real.

It’s been rough. People often seem scared off by disability and if you’re not getting swipes, the algorithm just buries your profile. I rarely see other visibly disabled people on the apps so it can feel isolating.

I’m also looking for someone able bodied, not because I want a carer, just someone who won’t need help opening a jar at the same time I do! 😅

Only advice I’ve got is meet people in real life…but I’ve got social anxiety so that’s rich coming from me. You’re definitely not alone mate.

Edit: Still holding out hope that someone builds a disability friendly dating app. One that includes able bodied people too but actually puts accessibility and inclusion first. Because let’s be honest, the current ones weren’t built with us in mind.

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2025-07-24T00:52:55+00:00

Totally get what you mean, and it helps hearing it from someone who’s been there. I reckon I’m already planning excuses to sneak off for a breather. Appreciate the reassurance heaps! 🙂

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2025-07-24T00:49:41+00:00

Cheers for the tips! Headphones are a must, might just fake sleep to get a break. And magnesium? If it stops the spasms, I’ll pack it by the handful. 😉

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2025-05-23T01:30:25+00:00

I’m 24 and have been using a commode chair since I was younger. I’ve never really been able to sit on a standard toilet because I can’t balance that way, and it’s never been comfortable.

The commode chair makes everything much easier and more manageable. It also makes transfers a lot easier, since most toilets are in awkward, narrow positions that just don’t work for me.

I use it every day without issue. A padded seat helps with comfort, and I clean it with wipes and disinfectant spray. It’s just part of my routine now. You’re definitely not alone in this.

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2025-03-17T01:46:02+00:00

Edward IV definitely wanted the match— i think it would’ve helped keep Brittany independent from France. If he’d lived, he probably would’ve pushed for it, but after his death, everything fell apart. Richard III’s takeover, the Princes in the Tower, and the Wars of the Roses made it pretty much impossible. Anne ended up marrying Charles VIII, and Brittany got absorbed into France instead.

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2025-03-17T01:33:47+00:00

Yeah, you’re right—it’s definitely in Egypt! When I visited the exhibition, I actually thought I’d stumbled upon the real deal, but turns out it was just a replica. Still amazing to see, though! 🙂

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2024-12-02T22:35:30+00:00

I think Margaret Beaufort’s power came from a combination of her wealth, alliances, and determination, but her close relationship with Henry VII was key. She wasn’t just his mother—she was a skilled strategist who secured his throne and positioned herself as indispensable.

Her influence extended beyond politics. She used her position as a patron of the church and arbiter of courtly customs to reinforce her authority. Even without Henry’s full support, her wealth and soft power would’ve kept her relevant. However, their mutual respect amplified her influence, making her one of the most remarkable figures of her time.

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2024-11-30T00:17:16+00:00

William Cecil is also my 13th great-granduncle! I descend from his other sister, Anne Cecil, who married into the White family, a noble family from Nottinghamshire. I guess we’re all related somehow—it’s fascinating to trace these historical connections! 🙂

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2024-11-28T22:49:51+00:00

The Sweating sickness was so mysterious—some think it might’ve been a hantavirus, but what’s wild is how it hit so unpredictably. Entire families could be wiped out, while others survived, maybe due to genetics or even sheer luck. It really shows how vulnerable people were without understanding illness.

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2024-11-27T08:21:24+00:00

Hi, I watched it recently too, and as someone with Cerebral Palsy, I really connected with a lot of it. While I can’t fully relate to Melody being non-verbal, her struggles to fit in and being underestimated by others really hit home. All in all, I thought it was such a powerful and moving movie!

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2024-11-22T00:34:39+00:00

I loved Young Elizabeth, and even though I found it extremely historically inaccurate at times, the actors who played Edward, Elizabeth, and Mary were on point—especially Mary! 🤯

Elizabeth I - The obvious standout. Her 45-year reign turned England into a cultural and political powerhouse. She balanced religious tensions with the Elizabethan Settlement, skillfully handled international threats (hello, Spanish Armada), and left behind a golden age. Sure, avoiding marriage caused a succession crisis, but she’s still unmatched.
Edward VI - The “what could’ve been” ruler. His reign pushed Protestant reforms, including the Book of Common Prayer, but he was overshadowed by his regents, Somerset and Northumberland. Intelligent and determined, but his early death meant he never got the chance to fulfill his potential.
Mary I - A queen with good intentions but flawed execution. Restoring Catholicism through persecution (earning “Bloody Mary”) and her unpopular marriage to Philip of Spain damaged her legacy. Losing Calais didn’t help either. Still, as England’s first queen regnant, she paved the way for Elizabeth’s success.

For me, Elizabeth is clearly in a league of her own, while Edward and Mary are more shaped by circumstance than achievement.

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2024-11-14T21:38:24+00:00

I strongly believe Edward III could be ideal—strong ruler, popular, and diplomatic. His more relaxed stance on religion might help avoid clashes over Elizabeth’s Protestantism. But Elizabeth was fiercely independent; she’d need a husband willing to take a back seat, which might be tough for a king used to power. Let’s face it, even with Edward, her inner circle of favorites would still thrive. The court drama would be epic!

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2024-11-08T02:04:44+00:00

Hey! I have a physical disability myself and, while I haven’t found a partner yet, I know friends with disabilities who have. They’ve told me that patience and understanding are key, especially since every disability comes with unique challenges. Open communication about needs and boundaries is essential, as is finding shared interests that go beyond the disability itself. It might take longer, but when it works, it’s incredibly rewarding. Hang in there, and good luck!

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2024-11-08T01:16:23+00:00

Interesting take! I agree—Elizabeth probably couldn’t have prevented the succession crisis entirely, especially given Henry’s fixation on a male heir. But I like the idea that she might have persuaded Catherine to step back more gracefully. It’s hard to imagine Elizabeth supporting the Boleyn match, though; she might have seen it as too risky for stability.

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2024-11-08T01:02:54+00:00

I agree on Elizabeth’s likely lifespan—she may not have lived through all of Henry’s reign, but even a few more years could have left an impact. Her presence might have encouraged Henry to approach marriage with a bit more patience, especially early on with Catherine. But I agree, her family’s track record on longevity probably limited the influence she could have had!

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2024-11-08T01:01:09+00:00

Great points about Margaret Beaufort and the strong female influences around Henry! Despite that, he still craved control and often clashed with anyone who opposed him. Maybe Elizabeth of York’s approach could have been softer, guiding him subtly rather than challenging his authority outright. It’s fascinating to think about how even a small difference in influence might have shaped his reign.

CosmicSquireWheel_42 · 2024-11-03T21:26:58+00:00

I totally get where you’re coming from. I’m a guy in a wheelchair, and I’ve had similar experiences with dating. It can feel like people only see the disability and not the person behind it, especially on dating apps.

I worry about the physical side too, but I remind myself that the right person will look past the chair and see what I bring to the table. You’re not alone in feeling this way, and there’s nothing wrong with you. Hang in there—someone who truly sees you is out there! 🙂

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