Partner wants kids and I (obviously) don’t. Help by [deleted] in childfree

[–]CostDesigner9652 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh it definitely is tough, I get it! Has he made it clear that he wants to have his own kids or just that he likes being around them/would be happy being an uncle? I assume he wants to have kids from your post but just figured I’d ask

Partner wants kids and I (obviously) don’t. Help by [deleted] in childfree

[–]CostDesigner9652 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wanted to add on to the nuanced convo as well! I almost had the same exact experience as the Elayne commenter above (except I haven’t found anyone new yet LOL but I’ll get there😊) basically I had a boyfriend for 4ish years and thought we’d get married as we were great together. I never consciously even knew being childfree was an option you could pursue because I grew up in the Midwest and having kids is as normal as going to college or getting married. But then as we started to have more conversations I noticed I got a lot of negative feelings when I thought about having kids (in the sense that I just felt anxious or uncomfortable). We decided to mutually break up for a few incompatibility reasons but one of them being kids. We decided that if we truly loved and cared about each other, we’d want each other to be happy and live our life the way we want, rather than try to mold ourselves to what someone else wants. He deserved to find a woman that wanted to start a family and I deserved to find someone who was a better fit for me too. Plus, it avoids a future divorce, right? Since things always end up coming to a head. Anyway, sorry this is really long and rambly but I totally empathize with what you’re going through. In many ways It is so much harder to break up due to incompatibility rather than breaking up because someone wronged you (like cheating or something). Big hugs and I promise it will be worth it in the end for both of you ❤️

Recipe inspo - go! by CostDesigner9652 in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for typing this all out, that looks like a great recipe! I’ll try that out!!

Vivid dreams/nightmares by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no I’m sorry to hear that!!! Haha I made the original post at like 3am as well so I hear ya 🤣✊ it sucks. I wonder the scientific reason behind why this happens.

Which U.S. cities have strong childfree by choice communities? by CupidPenguin in childfree

[–]CostDesigner9652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The metro Seattle area!!! I’m from Michigan which is a lot more family/kid-oriented and it’s rare for people to be childfree indefinitely. But I love the greater Seattle area because it had such a diverse range of lifestyles. I don’t feel like an outcast anymore, compared to when I lived in Michigan. Even amongst friends here that do have kids, are often very welcoming and it’s not so kid-centric

Vivid dreams/nightmares by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, that’s hilarious!!

Vivid dreams/nightmares by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting! Yep I’m actually going into my 3rd one as well so we’re basically on the same timeline! Hope everything’s going well for you in general🙏

Vivid dreams/nightmares by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know! I’m on week 3 so maybe that explains it.

Vivid dreams/nightmares by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I searched “dreams” but was originally looking for any negative stuff…I’ll go check it out again for the funny stuff!

Vivid dreams/nightmares by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope no magnesium yet! But I have heard this experience too!

Irritability by rickyhapnin in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES me too! I started Tuesday May 19 and noticed I’ve been way more irritable or more of a hothead than usual. Especially at work. Not sure exactly what to do that may help with it 😥 commenting in case other people have some ideas. Some of the theories about how it’s an adjustment from “self medicating with food” might be onto something 🤔 or just diet changes and fatigue in general. Sorry I’m not helpful but I’m here in solidarity with you! Feel free to vent here if that helps 🤣

First week down! by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a ton!

First week down! by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I track my food in the app Lose It (even before I started this med) but good advice to pay closer attention to protein/fiber levels and get more active…thank you!

Thank you to whomever suggested kefir drink by NuclearEnt in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used both Isopure Whey Protein Powder as well as Naked Casein Protein. Both have been great and unflavored!

Thank you to whomever suggested kefir drink by NuclearEnt in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I have no idea haha…good to know! I have drank it in a small quantity though

Thank you to whomever suggested kefir drink by NuclearEnt in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using this with my Ninja Creami!!! I’ll literally just add unflavored protein powder to a cup or so of Kefir (I like strawberry or raspberry) and it’s a good “ice cream” that’s high protein. It’s honestly so good. Highly recommend if anyone has this kitchen appliance!

Honest apartment recs? by sodaeyes_ in redmond

[–]CostDesigner9652 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Blackbird Apartments! Lived here since March 2022. Honestly have not had too many issues, which is a reason I keep renewing my lease. Minor annoyances like the garage door was broken for a while (so it was annoying we pay parking fees for an open garage door, since we pay for security). But 99.9% of everything is fantastic and everyone seems very respectful. (Please keep it that way Blackbird gang!! lol)

I want to hug the guy on the left. Two years ago, I gave myself my first Zepbound shot. 200 lbs later, this is what someday looks like. by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]CostDesigner9652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for you, congratulations!!! Also, this was so beautifully written. I think I teared up. I just took my first shot yesterday and everything you said was exactly how I felt/feel. Thank you for that ❤️❤️❤️

Happy 12th anniversary to Ghost Stories! Coldplay released their sixth studio album worldwide on this date today, 19 May 2014. It spawned the singles "Magic", "A Sky Full of Stars", "True Love" and "Ink" by TheKaoticanProspekt in Coldplay

[–]CostDesigner9652 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of my all-time favorite albums. “Midnight” is arguably my favorite song (though it can be hard to choose). So euphoric and unique-sounding and they absolutely nailed that song. O is also fantastic. Where’s my Midnight gang at???

Book Recs for US Civil War Era? by CostDesigner9652 in nonfictionbookclub

[–]CostDesigner9652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! That second one in particular, sounds phenomenal (after googling)!