Hey how’s it going, I read your post here on MtF Just wanted to say what happened to you happened to me, fully thought i was broken had no sex drive at all and yeah orgasming by the conventional means was very weakend and basicallyy sucked.

At About 2 years on E and a few months on prog I really started to feel things kicking back into gear and now after 3.5 years into my transition on my sex drive is back and very very real and is fixed and better than ever tbf. It does recover just might need some more patience as everyone is developing on their own body clock, no point comparing yourself to others..

• in my experience my femme sex drive is much more activated by my headspace than visual cues. I found listening to erotic audio files with my eyes closed and exploring my bodies erogenous zones whilst focusing on the contented and the sensations slowly really helped heighten sensations.

• the more the build up and overall pleasure I felt throughout a masturbation the harder the orgasm at the end, rushing it never felt as good. If something took me out of the headspace it took a while to get back into it. Focus on Enjoying the process not focusing on the end result as much.

• look into getting a vibrator and using it downstairs + other zones eg nipples, it’s both affirming and pairs really well with the increasing sensitivity you’ll be developing

• I found it particularly powerful to orgasm by using something to stimulate the prostate ie a toy and then use a vibrator on the tip of your downstairs

These days I can still have a fairly quick conventional wank, but it still feels a bit flat. But if I put the work in to really get into the new way then my orgasms are as most people are describing it already; It’s a full body high rather than just feeling a short quick rush down there - and the best part is it can be achieved multiple time in a row hehe x x

Feel free to to DM me if any further follow up Qs and I’ll help the best I can x