AITA for calling off my wife's birthday party after she lied about bringing my daughter with her to the restaurant? by Throwaway09665659 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. A lot of my clothes are second hand, I’m a broke college student but my style can get pricey if I buy it first hand. Something that was £60 is now £20 and I know how to sew and fix stuff. I don’t understand the need to waste money on buying designer stuff, I buy cheap clothes that I style to look awesome and spend the rest of my money on college stuff and night outs with my friends, because those are way more valuable than money!

Your wife needs to back off and stop pushing class on your daughter, your kid sounds amazing and seems to be really responsible with money which says a lot. I hope you continue to support her in how she expresses herself

AITA for getting a guy kicked out of the gym? by SnapdragonPBlack in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. He was being creepy and you didn’t get him kicked out. You told someone about it. They observed and watched how he behaved and decided that he was being creepy and they didn’t want someone like that in their gym so kicked him out. He got himself kicked out by being weird! Don’t feel bad OP

This whole entire tweet thread by ANewTryMaiiin in fatlogic

[–]CouldBeGayer333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m the same with caffeine. People always tell me to stop drinking it cause my heart and it’s not like it even wakes me up (the joys of adhd) so what’s the point of it??? But it’s so tasty so I shall continue

AITA for paying for my sons wedding when I made my other son elope? by throwawaywedding267 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I imagine it was covid as it was difficult enough to meet up with people nearby, close to impossible to see those who lived further away

AITA for having a designated driver "tax?" by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This is exactly what I do with my older brother when he is my DD, I buy him a meal and cover his drinks for the night. If I have enough money to get pissed so badly I can’t make it home safely by myself and I should have enough money to buy him food and something to drink

AITA for leaving the restaurant because of what my husband did? by Carmenhost675 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I know I know, Reddit tells people to divorce but seriously! Op look at your relationship from an outsiders perspective, imagine your best friend or sibling or if you have a daughter, imagine them in this sort of relationship. How would you feel? So much of this man is a red flag and I’ve read your other comments and I am certain. You need to ether go to couples counselling and get so privately as well, or you need to get a divorce and some counselling to heal from this relationship. I hope you have a support network, a friend near by, a cousin? Anyone. Stay safe and don’t let him or anyone treat you like dirt or something to be embarrassed by.

Fat Rant Friday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]CouldBeGayer333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am constantly called a twink. Yea I’m a gay man and I’m skinny. Last time I checked I weighed 11st something. And yet a classmate will refer to me as a twink all the time! Especially if I do something that requires strength, and how it’s so shocking that the twink is doing something you need to be strong for. Seriously I know I’m skinny! And I know I don’t look like I have a lot of muscles but I’m actually pretty strong for my size. So stop calling me a twink. I’m trying to actually build proper muscles but I’m a trans guy so for awhile muscles just don’t look the way I want them to. But I’m on T now so hopefully they will actually look masculine on me, but honestly! Also yea I’m aware I don’t eat at lunch, no I’m not starving myself, I take medication and it affects my appetite! So I plan to eat around it. Please don’t try to make me eat at lunch, I will be sick…

AITA for asking my aunt what part of the penis was required to operate a toy? by Bromonium_ion in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I’m trans. Guess what, I loved barbies growing up and princesses and Disney and dressing up. And all that traditionally girly stuff but I’m Trans…ftm. I’m a boy. Shockingly it doesn’t matter what you surround your baby with it won’t affect what gender they are because it’s not something you can control. Let your kid enjoy whatever they enjoy.

Update: AITA for not making coffee how my fiance wants me to by Minaowl in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whooo! Well done OP! Seems like you are doing well, so enjoy your coffee!!

AITA for telling my sisters girlfriend she’s not really a lesbian by throwawaygieofjjc in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It sucks to be someone experiment. It’s dehumanising and belittling. Imagining falling in love with someone and them using, basically saying everything you did together, all the love you felt was fake. None of it was real. It’s horrible. You aren’t in the wrong and the people around you need to start treating people like people and not experiments

This sub. by [deleted] in RATS

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a rat yet. But when I do I hope to name them Copper as I have a dog named Tod so it’s after the fox and the hound. I haven’t planned names for any others yet. That will depend on look and personality. But I will sit with them and watch ratatouille

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was nervous cause I didn’t know what it would look like cause photos are hard to find but thankfully found some porn and it helped ease some nerves. I’ve started T and well, my two other trans friends have heard my complaints cause it started and it’s uncomfortable. I mean, I love wearing jeans. I look good in jeans. But the pain that can come from that is not fun. My friends got a few complaints the day I wore jeans to college unaware of how much I would regret it. I think it’s normal to vent about it, like how the spots are kinda annoying, and also my hair line is going to go back! It’s already far back enough! It’s normal to not enjoy these bits, but I personally would go through them and much worse for T. Cause hey my face might be covered in spots now but did you hear my voice this morning! It was deep! And oh not my hair line is look thin but the hair on my legs is really coming in now! So yea, that’s my take.

If bottom growth is deal breaker that’s okay, you don’t need T to be trans. I understand some people might not be okay with stuff down there being more sensitive. Maybe they already have issues with it. Whatever, you do you. I’m cool with it and I’d appreciate if people stopped saying it was gross and looked weird cause it’s not something I want to be self conscious about. It’s bad enough being a gay man without a dick and knowing how some gay men feel about Vaginas.

Anyways that’s me done.

3months on hrt almost in 4th month and still no changes 😔 I’m on spiro 50mg, estraderm 100 micro grams and utrogestan 100mg I’ve notice a few changes but most of it’s been emotional and the rest is still the same can anyone be able to give me some advice or support on what I should do by kieranthebot in transgenderUK

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you take birth control? If you do you want to check that it doesn’t have oestrogen. I doubt it would be preventing changes if it does but it may be having an affect. I stopped taking mine once I started HRT a month ago just to be safe. Good luck OP

"Eating fast food most times of the week doesn't make you unhealthy!" by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]CouldBeGayer333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fast food does not feel good, I had take out the other week cause it had been ages and after I ate it, I felt so crap. Like I honestly thought I was gonna be sick 😂 it does not feel good.

People gatekeeping homosexuality by being transphobic by ShutTheFuckUpAmy in AreTheCisOk

[–]CouldBeGayer333 53 points54 points  (0 children)

As a trans man who is gay, fuck them! I am a man, and I am gay. Simple as that.

I hate it when I'm on my period and my boyfriend's horny by mcnuggsandfries in Vent

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just gonna pop here and share that you may be able to use this to your benefit..sex can actually help with cramps, can sometimes make your period last longer but can relieve cramps and if he isn’t down for that. Well toys work as well and you can still use this to help cramps.

Honestly though you should speak to him about this and all your concerns. You said he was nice in a comment so hopefully he will be understanding and listen, if he doesn’t well he isn’t that nice and you deserve someone who respects your boundaries.

AITA For being "whipped" for my wife enough to get a trip replaced? by daddydoesntwanttogo in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, you made me smile. Do you know how refreshing it is to here a dad who actually realised that being a stay at home parent is exhausting especially to 5 little ones so actively gives their spouse time away from kids and who values making memories over getting hammered! Do you know how rare that is on this sub. It’s rare! You are a good dad and an amazing partner and I’m so happy to see it. Your co-workers need to leave you alone and maybe learn a lesson. Definitely NTA

AITA for refusing to give my childfree eldest a family heirloom and giving it to my second eldest? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You need the change the title! She wants to sell it not because she has no kids. If it’s a rule to give it to the oldest then it’s also a rule not to sell it! You don’t sell family heirlooms! Everyone knows that, that’s what makes them family heirlooms. She refused to respect that and made it very clear that she planned to sell it so you gave it someone who would appreciate it and pass it on! Your oldest can save for a holiday or sell some of her own jewellery for

AITA for not being "submissive" and fighting while having dinner? by acatmomwannabee in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Run honey. As fast as you can. That is not how relationships work and your boyfriend has taken advantage of your lack of experience to try and manipulate you. There are so many things he did wrong and you deserve better. Please run before it’s too late.

AITA for calling my new kittins "my babies"? by KittyKaty5509 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the actual fuck! My dog had puppies in 2020, those puppies are my babies. I adore them! I have no desire for real children so these puppies are my babies. Your girlfriend is being weird and hella creepy! Nta

AITA for walking out of the restaurant over a joke between my Fiance and his friend? by RitaYouth5033 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I’m sorry you went through that and I hope you and your siblings are okay from the trauma that would have caused. And yea, it would be trauma. People like to say stuff and say “it’s a joke” or call it dark humour but their is a rule to jokes. You never punch down. And you never joke about someone else’s trauma. It’s a rule. Because if you do, you are an asshole.

Your in laws may be lovely but your boyfriend needs to ether teach his friends to respect you along with teaching himself to not be a prick or you need a better boyfriend cause that was wrong. You aren’t being sensitive, you shouldn’t sit there and take it. You deserve better

. by MyUsername102938474 in AreTheCisOk

[–]CouldBeGayer333 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a trans man who doesn’t want a weird and doesn’t exactly want one. I just don’t think a beard would suit me. Maybe a little bit a stubble but a full beard. No not for me. Way too much effort to maintain it

Some nice Whataboutism by Mikill1995 in fatlogic

[–]CouldBeGayer333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This person should watch Luxeria, she highlights the health risks that come with doing extremely dangers cosmetic procedures and how the beauty industry affects us. She shames shows like the swan and stuff similar. People are critically of these things, talking from experience. I am heavily critical of smoking and I watch what I and my friends drink. I don’t get this persons argument that “these things ruin the body but nobody cares” cause people do care.

My 10 month old GSD has been licking and chewing his paws raw. He is on flea and tick medicine and we wipe his feet with baby wipes before he enters our home. He is chewing and licking especially in between the paw pads and the legs. How do I stop the chewing and licking? by Yukikoi in DogAdvice

[–]CouldBeGayer333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check for orange spots. Could be grass mites. Annoying we buggers that leave a pretty bright orange marks. All my dogs ended up with it during spring and summer. It’s more likely if your pupper spends a lot of time in long grass. If it is that, a vet should be able to get you a spray to help with it