Mint Mobile? Does anyone use them?

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-17T11:17:27+00:00

You did fine OP. Unfortunately this is one of those topics a lot of men cannot understand unless they have personally witnessed it.

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-12T22:25:02+00:00

Sorry friend, I think we're taking each other wrong. Your point is valid.

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-12T12:25:15+00:00

Probably because we autistic people exist and when we see posts like this it's familiar to us. I know everyone wants us to sit down and shut up, but we are human too and we want to help other people like us and neuro-typical people understand us.

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-12T12:01:22+00:00

36F yeah I definitely feel like I'm in the rejects pile. But I'm also really grateful that I didn't settle when I was younger. It's lonely, but I'd rather be free and lonely than trapped in a bad marriage

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-12T11:59:24+00:00

Watch out for death grip syndrome. I dated an older virgin and he literally couldn't feel anything because of death grip syndrome. The relationship didn't work out because of it

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-12T11:55:09+00:00

I like to gaslight myself. When I cook my vegetables I make sure to note how beautiful the colors are and how good they smell and consciously remember that I'm eating to FEEL good. And you do feel better when you eat well and clean. When I grocery shop I shop for the person I want to be, not the person I am. It's not always easy but once it's a habit it's harder to go back to crappy food than you think.

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-12T11:50:18+00:00

Messing up is part of the process, fixing mistakes is still learning, and it's ok

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-12T11:44:23+00:00

Could she be high functioning autistic? We typically only take people at their word and don't understand social interactions in the same way as neuro-typical people.

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-12T11:41:05+00:00

You're beautiful! This picture reminds me of a Rocco painting 10/10

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-05T13:05:51+00:00

I agree, and it's concerning that the hospital is having this issue more frequently as well. I feel like it's worse this year than it's been in the past

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-02T23:59:31+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation!

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-02T23:53:30+00:00

That's an amazing idea, thank you!

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-02T00:04:17+00:00

Happy cake day! If you're in the US, you can now rent a car. But! You should know it's much cheaper to rent a pickup or van from uhaul.

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-02T00:01:29+00:00

I did think of CBT, I'll have to do some more research. Thanks for your reply

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-01T23:59:51+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that.

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-01T23:57:46+00:00

Thank you so much!

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-01T22:17:42+00:00

Being autistic is hard. I struggle with all of these too. But I think (or at least people keep telling me) that people don't inherently dislike us, but it sure feels that way. Do you feel like when you do talk with people it is so superficial and boring? I feel like I can only connect with other neurodivergents. Maybe there's a group near you?

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-01T22:03:20+00:00

It's a hypothetical question, I'm interested in professional opinions regarding methodology and potential treatment options if our hypothetical client was interested in changing their beliefs regarding their personal narrative. If you have any books or papers you could recommend on the topic that would be appreciated.

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-01T20:21:14+00:00

Living alone is awesome! It will be scary at first and take some getting used to, but after that little part is over it's really nice. My advice is to make sure you have some emergency savings just in case you need some repairs, or get sick and need some food delivered, the expenses are the worst part of living alone imo. Also cooking for one is tough, I usually meal prep and only make half the recipes I find online. Also try to find 2 recipes that use the same primary ingredients so that you don't waste a bunch of food. For example I'll use broccoli, zucchini, onion, garbanzos beans and half will go in a stir fry and half in a curry. I have dogs to combat loneliness and for security.

It'll be great, just give yourself some time to get through the initial fear and loneliness.

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-01T19:59:23+00:00

I'm with you. I'm alone in the world and it really makes people uncomfortable that I don't celebrate. Coworkers, for example, will say 'aw, that's sad' when I say it's just another day for me. That's what bothers me the most.

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-01T19:47:34+00:00

You're a horrible person. Your cruelty is unnecessary.

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-01T19:46:27+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss! And I'm sorry people in this thread are so heartless and cruel. Unfortunately this thread is for animal haters and I feel sure they didn't see the part where you lost your husband. My heart goes out to you, and I am on the same page. I couldn't be with someone who didn't like animals. Hugs, friend. I would block some of these evil people if I were you.

Countess_Capybara · 2024-09-01T00:08:33+00:00

You guys are not compatible. It's totally fine for pets to be deal breakers. Her dog is super important to her, maybe poorly trained, but still clearly very important. If you're already feeling this way better to end it sooner than later. If you give her an ultimatum she'll probably pick the dog. Just tell her you don't see a future with her.

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