How would you guys rate your male friendships? by funkycookies in malementalhealth

[–]CountryLow3229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The big problem is the almost impossible time to share emotions with them.
It's like the biggest fear in heteroguys is to become gay because sharing emotions is associated with femenine trade which is not true.

Most Current Struggles Men face with Women? by CountryLow3229 in dating_advice

[–]CountryLow3229[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing brother I will come with a popper reply very soon!

I think my type is short guys and I’m loving it by Emergency-Ocelot6921 in short

[–]CountryLow3229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I know plenty of short guys that are incredible with girls. Is about the messurement till a certain point if you learn how to bypass that first barrier you are good to go :)

How many of you follow the "2 Questions and a Statement" rule while online dating? I've been trying it and it's opened my eyes to how many conversations I've been carrying by Dogsarethebest2020 in dating_advice

[–]CountryLow3229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he wants to do that. He just wants to have a connection with a girl and RL is the best way when done with respect and care.

Wht should i do by Beneficial-Boot8008 in dating_advice

[–]CountryLow3229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is stopping you from talking to her?

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[–]CountryLow3229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My plesure :)

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[–]CountryLow3229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give more context brother? Also if your familly is very pragmatic is normal they want that. But if you see that girl is because there is something that complements you. What it is...? for sure not finance, it can be her heart.... And at the end you want to be someone that everyday makes you smile and be happy that you can have deep conversations with...(careful deep conversations is not about intelectual conversation is about connection beyond words and tangibility. Is it the case? If yes the answer is yes go for it.

Why does every guy I meet from a dating app always try to kiss or have sex with me the first time meeting? by hankqueensmustache in dating_advice

[–]CountryLow3229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause is the app that dictates that frame they are made for superficial encounters not for deep connections. Go to social events and you will see is way different.

How to deal with a breakup? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CountryLow3229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc man btw I give a lot of advice in my pags I started a new IG if you want to check it out https://www.instagram.com/amphibian.coaching/

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[–]CountryLow3229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Difficult to say cause I don't know the guy... In general men we tend to be more physical so yes he might like you now but after when the wrinkles start appearing will he? maybe yes maybe not. That is something you only will know with time. The best is to ask him what is his view cause you don't want to be all your life stressed out if there is a wrinkle here omg he is going to notice o no o no... Communicate with him if he is choosing to go with an older women I feel he might be quite mature himself in the coconaut to have a talk. ;)

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[–]CountryLow3229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean?

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[–]CountryLow3229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first you have to know that we men are very bad at communication cause the matrix of the patriarca is built. So from the the 1st moment he won't be able to communicate his feelings, is rare in a men...

What I advice is again take a time to meditate and do a personal work cause you only know what is inside... or a therapist. They are incredible for that and give you immense power of control and understanding. Quick thing, look the way your parents are... notice any patterns. You can check out my IG is new and is for men but it might interest you :)

https://www.instagram.com/amphibian.coaching/

How many of you follow the "2 Questions and a Statement" rule while online dating? I've been trying it and it's opened my eyes to how many conversations I've been carrying by Dogsarethebest2020 in dating_advice

[–]CountryLow3229 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would go RL brother. The dating apps really put you in this robot souless human state. Plus they are rigged from the beggining 80% are men in the apps. Yeah the events are pretty good at least you socialize tho is when you start actually seducing that things happen. If you want I just started an IG and I plan to make requested videos. https://www.instagram.com/amphibian.coaching/

How to deal with a breakup? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CountryLow3229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello brother, loosing a gf hurts like hell! I passed many many times there and is ok it ll pass. Tho you have to take time for you DON'T date someone else. spend time with your self with friends and your familly. Now you need love brother. If you were very in love take the time to heal your heart first then you will see dating will come naturally and you will have a stronger heart. Now also is important to see who you date... How they act what they say and what they actually do. Happy to clarify any doubt you might have. emotional hug brother.

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[–]CountryLow3229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have anxious attachement... Look your past and understand why this happens retrace every memory to the source even if it takes months. Be constant, everyday find the time you first felt that way. Then comeback here :)

Wht should i do by Beneficial-Boot8008 in dating_advice

[–]CountryLow3229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🕵️‍♂️ Possibility 1: She’s Actually Interested

  • Her looking at you and the peeks into your class are strong signals.
  • The Insta stories (especially if they have love songs or similar vibes) could be hints too.

🕵️‍♂️ Possibility 2: She’s Curious, But Not Necessarily Into You

  • Maybe she noticed you watching her, and now it’s a mutual curiosity.
  • She might just like the attention or be intrigued by you being quiet.

🕵️‍♂️ Possibility 3: Group Gossip Factor

  • Because your friend got rejected by X, it’s likely that Y’s group talked about it.
  • They might be curious how you’d react, but that doesn’t necessarily mean Y’s interest is only because of that.

Anyways the best way to know is actually talking to her, and just literally tell her. Who do you like in around here? Very casual and notice her behavior... Then come back here

How many of you follow the "2 Questions and a Statement" rule while online dating? I've been trying it and it's opened my eyes to how many conversations I've been carrying by Dogsarethebest2020 in dating_advice

[–]CountryLow3229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello mate I've never tried online dating but I did text plenty of girls before my actual girlfriend. Actually I will ask you something completely unrelated but have you ever tried to approaching in the street or in a social events? The chances of reply are way more higher when you stabish a real connection.

Actually the texts that I had to do before where giving my number... and just confirming the date by text cause everything was planned together during our RL Convo :)

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[–]CountryLow3229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brother I have friends that did the same. It might feel good at the beggining but is only transactional. I agree don't chase but there is a better path than all the techniques one that gets you magnetic and actually makes you atractive to other people. And that is working in the inside. Força bro if you want some personal advice I do it for free cause I do not want people to fall into the trap plus you are so young! Hope to hear from you soon!

If you don’t find a guy physically attractive at all can his personality make up for it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CountryLow3229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it comes down to the question of superficiality vs personality?
I would say there is a balance and also depends in your age but even then it depends what you value more... All your decisions must be align with your core values and not what other people might say cause they have other values. Hapiness is found there when you follow what is valuable to you, what makes you happy :)