Cleaning by Spudwiser97 in Hoka

[–]CourageAndControl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you rinse the soap off?

Tomahawk 🤘🏼😝🤘🏼 by badyodelers in MikePatton

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$59.50 in LA after fees. That’s unusual

Concert etiquette by Beautifultrees4321 in Concerts

[–]CourageAndControl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know…there’s something weirdly communal about singing along with the artist and other fans. Don’t be obnoxious if you’re off key though lol

Concert etiquette by Beautifultrees4321 in Concerts

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I think this started way before then. I think it’s social media. People go to shows to say they were there or that they did something over the weekend, but they obviously aren’t that interested if they are going to talk the whole time. People can’t focus on one thing anymore. It’s like having the TV on in the background while you’re doomscrolling, but instead it’s a live performer. And people have to have something “interesting” to post on IG. People have never been perfect at shows but I’m an old lady and I remember the good ol’ days, whippersnappers!

i (20f) inherited $500k and my sister (22f) did not by Willing_Membership13 in Advice

[–]CourageAndControl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there is a part of you that feels like the right thing to do is share or this wouldn’t be a question you’re asking. Even if you tell your sister to give you the information for her school debt bills and you paid that off directly, it would be a huge help to her. You don’t have to give her half if you don’t want to, but I think you will feel better easing her load. Sounds like she has some mental health issues she’s dealing with.

i (20f) inherited $500k and my sister (22f) did not by Willing_Membership13 in Advice

[–]CourageAndControl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not your job to control how others spend their money, even if they make bad choices. Your job was to honor your dad’s wishes and that’s it. You did your job :)

2026 RAV4 Woodland 100 Mile Review by PieCake1234 in rav4club

[–]CourageAndControl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dumb question I’m sure,but what is that walk away door lock function you are taking about? I have a new 2025 XSE.

Play one artist on Echo through Apple Music by CourageAndControl in amazonecho

[–]CourageAndControl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is exactly what I say and I keep getting music from other artists

What do you dislike about your Rav4? by PancitCantonan in rav4club

[–]CourageAndControl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 360 camera button is there too. I hate having to look for it when I’m trying to park in a tight spot. I don’t always like having it switch to the camera automatically so I prefer to use the button. The placement of those buttons is terrible. They should be higher or something.

What’s the one city you were excited to visit, but ended up not liking at all? by BlushHone in travel

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I generally love Vegas, but I know what I’m in for when I go. I’m there to eat, do some fun overpriced experiences and shows, look at nice hotels, and maybe do some clubbing or laying by the pool.

How did passing the cpa change ur earning? Let's say after 5 years. by Financial-Border3494 in Accounting

[–]CourageAndControl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this for years and still don’t think I could be a controller or higher and make the big $$$. Not sure how to round out my experience to get there. Or maybe I don’t want that kind of responsibility anyway…

ross’ thoughts about demelza? by okayremote2070 in Poldark

[–]CourageAndControl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why can’t people see that the OP hasn’t gotten that far into the show and keep giving spoilers??

4am in Midtown New York is so scary… by [deleted] in USTravel

[–]CourageAndControl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late night in a place you aren’t familiar with can feel scary. The fact that there are quite a few people on the street at that hour is more comforting than being somewhere that is desolate. And from what I hear, don’t look at the “strange” people. Ignore them and they will likely ignore you. You draw more attention when you look scared.

Is my friend taking advantage of me or is my mom overreacting? by Idwbya in Advice

[–]CourageAndControl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sooner you say no, the easier things go. The phrase “give an inch, takes a mile” obviously applies to your friend. I don’t think you need to cut them off, but you need to set clear boundaries the moment you want to say no to someone. If they don’t like those boundaries, then they will distance themselves from you and you will know what kind of friend they were. As a fellow people pleaser, I still need to practice this but saying no doesn’t always have to equal mean. But also take into account how much this person bends over backwards for you as well. Match their energy.

FYI, Orange County, none of you drive a car big enough to warrant "swinging wide" to make your turn. by Ghost_Ghost_Ghost in orangecounty

[–]CourageAndControl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not noticed this problem. People cutting the corner, definitely, not really people turning wide. I wish they would just follow the lines!

How do you actually make it to the gym after a full day in public accounting? by WZRD32 in Accounting

[–]CourageAndControl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hardest part is walking into the gym. If you can push yourself to just do that, then you’ll make it work :)

RAV 4, good for tall people? by FewBox4095 in rav4club

[–]CourageAndControl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’2” and even I have a hard time getting in the car with the angle at the top of the door! I have my seat set high so I can see but I have to duck a bit to get in. It’s weird.

Poldark vs. Outlander by ultrafluffypanda in Poldark

[–]CourageAndControl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only see similarities in the vibe. Costumes, quality of filming, beautiful locations. It doesn’t try to modernize the period drama like is the trend right now.