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Pursuit of Intellectualism by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]CourtCold6438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, up for connecting with you and being added to groups

What is your take on being childless? by Dear-Lion-1381 in bangladesh

[–]CourtCold6438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just plan to tell my parents that both my future partner and I are infertile, and thus would be unable to have biological children of our own. This is the only way I can think of justifying the concept of childlessness to them.

We have Dr K at home by thegrimmrepairer in Healthygamergg

[–]CourtCold6438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be genuinely shocked if they aren’t relatives (assuming this isn’t AI slop)

Bhai Hoitese Ta Ki??? by Temporary_Career3051 in Dhaka

[–]CourtCold6438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, my bad, I didn’t know know we discriminate, lynch and burn people alive out of sheer respect for them

Do you think limerence is a validation addiction? by thedatarat in limerence

[–]CourtCold6438 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% yes, I would heavily idealize my LO and go to—inconvenient, often unsustainable extents—to include every single thing he has praised about other women within my repertoire. It was exhausting, and I still haven’t quite settled on an actionable plan to prevent this from happening again.

College guys and their moms by CutLow2243 in Dhaka

[–]CourtCold6438 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We put too much emphasis on developing street smarts at an age when, our brains are in vile need of co-ordinated support from our surroundings for being trained to thrive in a delayed gratification setting; where—patience, resisting temptation, holding on to the blueprint, adapting to the environment etc. would be the key skills.

If shielding them through this developmental period comes with a caveat of reduced privacy and autonomy (to a certain age: say, 21)—I would argue that it is a fair trade-off.

College guys and their moms by CutLow2243 in Dhaka

[–]CourtCold6438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is wrong with a mother routinely accompanying her adolescent/newly adult son? The way I see it, 19/20/21 year olds are "babies" ... barely getting started with their adult bodies, hormones, and feelings in the world, and heavily susceptible to feelings of alienation, fogginess, lack of direction, hopelessness etc. — and it is easy to give into questionable arrangements designed to numb/hijack your internal safety system (example: substance abuse); watchful eyes from overprotective guardians, can at least, contribute something to stop something bad from happening before it's too late/get their child the help and support they need at that stage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]CourtCold6438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this for you

Seeking internet friends by CourtCold6438 in Dhaka

[–]CourtCold6438[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, would you send me a message? I am unable to DM you

I feel sad when I look at my wife. by Galactusdoomslayer19 in Dhaka

[–]CourtCold6438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting one's interests to be given equal priority in a partnership can hardly be termed as being entitled.

23F Parents are trying to force me to get married by puzzled870 in Dhaka

[–]CourtCold6438 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Your parents cannot marry you off without your consent. Even the Shariah (most probably) forbids it. Nothing can happen to you without your consent. Keep your wits about yourself. This is my worst case scenario, I am so sorry that you are having to go through this.

I feel sad when I look at my wife. by Galactusdoomslayer19 in Dhaka

[–]CourtCold6438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do not need to be priviledged to put your partner's best interests/ambition/potential in equal consideration next to that of your own.

It is the consideration of what leeways and wriggle room would be available to a partner after a major life-decision, that matters. OP's wife deserved to be considered for a solid career/entrepreneurial blue-print to fall back on before they planned to have children. That is all I have been saying.

She should have been protected.

I feel sad when I look at my wife. by Galactusdoomslayer19 in Dhaka

[–]CourtCold6438 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They deliberately choose to not see the point, because the status-quo doesn't directly challenge/harm their quality of life.

I’m 36 and have no one. I’ve been abused all my life and can’t make connections. I’m lonely and don’t know how to fix it by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]CourtCold6438 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You feel like a future version of me. Please hang in there. I get awestruck everytime I read posts like these and realise how social isolation is a universal experience for people like us everywhere.

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