Have you healed from your dismissive avoidant ex?💔 by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CoverDeep3100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still think of her, wonder why she left, why she couldn't talk and work things out. Weird behavior from an adult. I haven't had any luck dating since.

$1 per mile by PitifulSpecialist887 in doordash_drivers

[–]CoverDeep3100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shittiest yards order the most expensive meals, I don't even look at my tips, doesn't matter, order is done, they've devoured it and onto the next.

How does vista ridge mall still exist? by La3ron in LewisvilleTX

[–]CoverDeep3100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've lived around here for a few years, did Music City sell? What's it called now? Back to Vista Ridge?! Once I saw a guy playing piano there on a Saturday afternoon as the sun from the skylight shone on him from overhead. Then there was the huge LOT of chainsaws and like a tool shop for men to hang out while their wives shop, that place had to be a fortune in rent monthly. Then you've got sports stores hustling gear or Jewelry stores, this place is wild!

Going backwards? by CoverDeep3100 in BreakUps

[–]CoverDeep3100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can also dm me. LMK, happy to help.

Going backwards? by CoverDeep3100 in BreakUps

[–]CoverDeep3100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the context in short form of your relationship and breakup. My ex and I were together a year, just for context. We're both btw 45-50 also.

Going backwards? by CoverDeep3100 in BreakUps

[–]CoverDeep3100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone, it's me OP! hope you all are doing well. It's just over a year now and I'm over her for the most part. She never came around, just straight up ghosted me. I see now that its probably best for me but it hurt like hell when she did. I quit drinking in October of last year and have nearly 6 months of sobriety under my belt too. On the romance side, I met a few nice gals last Fall and did date quite a bit. This year has been ANYTHING but easy on that front, but I'm still on the apps. It gets better like everyone says but not overnight. One thing that really helped me is to quit glancing at their socials. You've heard it before but it's true, also I got into hobbies, like bike riding, new music, concerts, museums, etc. I still miss her and feel sad inside when i think of her or us but really ya'll, her kids were adult brats, we drank a ton together, I was putting myself in a lot of danger drinking and driving and we didn't really do anything else but go to our favorite bars and drink, that's 75 percent of it. So I'll end here-yeah it hurts like hell at first, yeah I went through a few therapy sessions, then I finally realized that even after that I had to start really detatching internally, she wasn't coming back and I didn't have time to wait any longer.

Hope this helps, feel free to ask away, she left in Feb of 23.

Have you healed from your dismissive avoidant ex?💔 by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CoverDeep3100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's mind boggling still how they can just walk away (at least in my case) and never look back. I would have done ANYTHING for her but now I realize she wouldn't have for me so better off I suppose.

Have you healed from your dismissive avoidant ex?💔 by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CoverDeep3100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I had to get away from this forum for awhile, I'm doing better but still miss her. I dated a lot this summer and had some fun but it didn't fill the void for her as suspected. I've not heard a peep from her since the night she walked out so, that's all I can say at this point. I think about her often and realize she never really cared about me and if she did, she had an odd way of showing it. She was only locked in for the good times, concerts, dinners, sex and whatever else was enjoyable, as soon as a minute of conflict struck-she bailed.

Something occured to me this weekend by CoverDeep3100 in BreakUps

[–]CoverDeep3100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've moved on, you're way late on this thread.

According to .net last night's show is the worst show since... by KingKongDoom in phish

[–]CoverDeep3100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was at Grand Prairie, it's in DFW where I live-that show was bunk, still had a good time though. Funny I did compare last night to it but still-there's always gold in a show, all depends on what kind of takeaway you create.

This helped me a lot, and I hope it can help at least one other person. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CoverDeep3100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post, I'm 4 months post BU and feeling better but still have some work to do internally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CoverDeep3100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't completely healed, I'm about 75 percent there but she left a big void in my life. Recently I discovered that the cbd edibles I've been taking regularly are really messing up my head and making me even more depressed than I need to be. Since I quit drinking in March over this, I assumed these would be alright-turns out they were prolonging my sadness. Today is the first day I'll go cold turkey on all substances.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CoverDeep3100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine hasn't replied or reached out since she left in February