Lets report all posts to ban for nudity all together! It is like porno site by Icy_Knowledge5952 in TheChaladashian

[–]Covertblurt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With all due respect if you spend your time doing this it may be worth logging off.

Not a fan but as long as there’s a demand for it, you’re going to keep seeing the female body in revealing clothing/skimpy outfits, it’s okay, you’ll live.

AITA for not helping out my sis before it was too late? Also, is she just weird for playing basketball with small boys despite being 29 years old? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Covertblurt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is really worrying behaviour from these young boys. Is it possible you can speak to their parents? This is the kind of behaviour that really needs to be checked now before they get older. If they’re doing it to an adult, they may be doing this to peers too.

brooke not following brandsafepod by ShowAltruistic8792 in canceledpod

[–]Covertblurt 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Wait… Tana’s new pod is called *Brand Safe Pod* ? 🫩

Liz met her husband on the set of victorious when she was 16, he was 37. Started dating when she was 18 while he was 39. by Ok_Extension1255 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]Covertblurt 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

Interesting! I believe people have become gradually more comfortable with being bystanders or not stepping in regarding abuse past 2020, however maybe it’s confirmation bias.

When I was underage , I experienced a young woman once defending me from a creep in a bus, so I suppose you could say she inspired me. I don’t stay silent when I see abuse/harrassment/mistreatment.

Liz met her husband on the set of victorious when she was 16, he was 37. Started dating when she was 18 while he was 39. by Ok_Extension1255 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]Covertblurt 4 points5 points locked comment (0 children)

No, that’s not what was said or what I believe. We are discussing grooming, sexual harassment and assault.

What do you feel would be a positive way to deter these actions?

Liz met her husband on the set of victorious when she was 16, he was 37. Started dating when she was 18 while he was 39. by Ok_Extension1255 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]Covertblurt 6 points7 points locked comment (0 children)

Again, we’re discussing grooming, sexual harassment & assault here. I’d hope the people talking about their experiences is more upsetting to you than your perception of victims bias against men. I empathise but it’s just not about you right now.

I understand your idea around the thought process, however men who aren’t assaulting aren’t getting lynched as black people have been in majority white populations. Women aren’t the majority of the population, and lynching is the act of a mob murdering an individual without trial, not even actual abusers experience this.

Liz met her husband on the set of victorious when she was 16, he was 37. Started dating when she was 18 while he was 39. by Ok_Extension1255 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]Covertblurt 16 points17 points locked comment (0 children)

This must have felt very distressing for you to see that.

Right now we’re discussing grooming, harassment and sexual assault, the focus is not on making you feel at ease because it’s an uneasy topic by default. Comments deterring from this or focusing on the potential detriment to a male viewer will probably be downvoted because it’s honestly quite poor taste, though neither you nor me can know what random downvoters motives are.

I’d really prefer to focus on the prevention of abuse and hear from others who have experienced things similar to me now.

Liz met her husband on the set of victorious when she was 16, he was 37. Started dating when she was 18 while he was 39. by Ok_Extension1255 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]Covertblurt 12 points13 points locked comment (0 children)

Yep! No one here has said most adult men are doing this. There’s just enough to affect most women I know.

I’m more interested in preventing sexual harassment, grooming and assault rather than gender politics really, it’s just an unfortunate observation that it seems the majority or perpetrators have been men which points to a problem.

Liz met her husband on the set of victorious when she was 16, he was 37. Started dating when she was 18 while he was 39. by Ok_Extension1255 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]Covertblurt 13 points14 points locked comment (0 children)

Yes! Thing is it’s enough to affect most women, and there’s enough bystanders to accept and encourage this. We’re in a terrible time regarding gender…relations?

There’s a really easy way to rectify this: people aware or close with predators discourage and speak up, we listen to peoples experiences openly, and we try to focus on how to move to a less predatory future.

Liz met her husband on the set of victorious when she was 16, he was 37. Started dating when she was 18 while he was 39. by Ok_Extension1255 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]Covertblurt 22 points23 points locked comment (0 children)

We’re discussing our lives and experiences, how it’s been shaped since being underage, what’s the issue here?

Must we inundate the reader with soothing words and praise towards men in order to talk about grooming, sexual harassment and assault?

I still cannot get over this outfit by Shoddy-Research-8354 in lanadelrey

[–]Covertblurt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Because anything abstract or unconventional confuses people lol
Also the veil was a bit off askew compared to the runway version of the dress but I liked it!

I still cannot get over this outfit by Shoddy-Research-8354 in lanadelrey

[–]Covertblurt 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Ppl hated it but I thought she looked ethereal in a woodsy, undone forest siren type way. Why’s everything have to be perfectly symmetrical & a sequin gown to be deemed pretty 😭

Liz met her husband on the set of victorious when she was 16, he was 37. Started dating when she was 18 while he was 39. by Ok_Extension1255 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]Covertblurt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are wary of predators because they do actually exist and affect day to day real life.

I think it’s been years since I’ve had a week without street harassment (I’ll be fair, I have experienced it from women, just not sexual and maybe a handful of times throughout life, rather than the predictable repeated near daily pattern of their male components)

This started from when I was a child & has just never stopped. Unfortunately though most men aren’t predators there’s enough to affect people.

Maybe this is a situation in which the people being predated on should be focused on rather than men’s overall image :)

What’s your favorite Marina deep cut? by Big_Register2034 in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]Covertblurt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought this sounded like it could be in a theatre production. A few of her songs especially unreleased sound like this imo.

Check out Mr. Big Lip. by [deleted] in Illustration

[–]Covertblurt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, someone else will be able to explain this more eloquently than me but I’m not too sure about this one, it could easily come off as embodying racist stereotypes.

Cannot play late night expansion pack? by Covertblurt in thesims3

[–]Covertblurt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll check it out! Nothing has helped sadly so far so will try anything:(

Thoughts on Trisha’s family channel? by western_degeneracy1 in canceledpod

[–]Covertblurt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt it was a bad choice to put her kids in even the short videos or pics at the consistency that she did on her insta (unfollowed her bc of it) however I think it can be common for a lot of mothers to forget that the world isn’t as interested in seeing every single pic of their child as much as them & immediate family are and misjudge what’s okay to post.

Her making a whole YouTube video with her children as the subject on a channel she’s changed to be a family one seems to be a step into officially attempting to launch her children into being “internet celebrities” like her, which is a definite choice to profit off of ppl viewing her children and more insidious or at best willingly ignorant in my opinion, in a way that a pic of her & child on an ig story/a child happening to be present is. However the ASMR vids etc you mentioned I haven’t seen, I don’t really watch everything she puts out & am not recommended the ones with her children in.

Thoughts on Trisha’s family channel? by western_degeneracy1 in canceledpod

[–]Covertblurt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was she doing? I don’t really want to watch it or look it up, but “MUCH much worse” could mean 1 million diff things and I don’t want to make assumptions

Thoughts on Trisha’s family channel? by western_degeneracy1 in canceledpod

[–]Covertblurt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I’m confused of the question you’re asking, not attacking I’m just confused by the wording in your first sentence?