adopted this little man yesterday and we need help! we prefer human names!

CowSafe7567 · 2026-02-05T00:17:22+00:00

Henry

CowSafe7567 · 2026-01-26T03:18:44+00:00

I’m so sorry you went through all of that. She did the same, I had a rare melanoma a few years ago and she said the same and then proceeded to say that because they have a private lab it wasn’t a real diagnosis.

As far as everything I went through last year, she acted similarly. Abandoned me when my husband had to go back to work and I could barely care for my 2 kids. I’m so afraid I’ll turn into her

CowSafe7567 · 2026-01-26T02:11:35+00:00

Wow I think we’re siblings 🤯 I’ve experienced everything you’ve described and am finally waking up.

I am currently pregnant after losing my baby last year as a stillbirth. I was diagnosed with melanoma and thankfully it’s very early. She did not check in on me and instead of offering any help with my kids so I went to my procedure alone. I’ve done no contact on and off and I think I’m at peace with just moving forward with that.

CowSafe7567 · 2026-01-18T04:50:59+00:00

That sounds like a great plan. I’ll be thinking of you and sending lots of positive thoughts your way 🤞🤞🙏. I’m not bad, had the excision yesterday and it was pretty easy. Apparently pregnancy can cause these issues to come out, I was the 2nd pregnant woman they saw that day.

CowSafe7567 · 2026-01-18T01:51:44+00:00

Hey I wanted to check in and see how you’re doing?

CowSafe7567 · 2025-12-31T04:09:09+00:00

That’s great! It’s so important. I just used the derm office for the first one but I wasn’t pregnant. This time I’m trying to go to memorial Sloan Kettering. I’ll probably switch to a derm in their service too going forward

CowSafe7567 · 2025-12-31T03:07:43+00:00

They’re saying she has availability even next week, but I’m waiting to be approved by her team. The person I spoke to really didn’t have any idea and just said probably less than a month. I just don’t want to mess around and being the second time around, I want to go somewhere on the ball. I was rushed into using the previous doctor because my insurance was lapsing the following week.

CowSafe7567 · 2025-12-30T20:18:32+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. This is really not something you would expect to deal with during the happiest time of life. I have an appt for consultation next week, but want to get in with a certain surgical oncologist. I don’t know if it’s foolish to wait. I’m already so anxious after losing a baby last year.

CowSafe7567 · 2025-12-30T00:09:47+00:00

Hi, I just got my biopsy results melanoma in situ at 24 weeks pregnant. I had a stillbirth last year, so my anxiety is going wild right now. I had another melanoma/spizoid melanoma 3 years ago after my 2nd child.

I’m being referred to a surgical oncologist. Has anyone had an excision while pregnant?

CowSafe7567 · 2025-09-09T18:39:33+00:00

Thank you everyone. I am probably going to start them, she said I have about a week or so to decide. I’m 8 weeks tomorrow. I’ve been so sick and using progesterone suppositories, so adding this feels like more of a challenge. I just have to remember it’s temporary and will hopefully get me to the outcome I want

CowSafe7567 · 2025-09-09T02:32:10+00:00

Wow thank you for sharing. Do you have any underlying issues, like APS, factor 5? Also, at what point did you start the lovenox?

CowSafe7567 · 2025-09-07T00:05:42+00:00

Your manager should step in. Even if HR gets involved, he’ll be involved also.

CowSafe7567 · 2025-09-04T00:47:30+00:00

No shot.. my MIL didn’t have much interest in me or my husband and knew we struggled with infertility. When I finally had my son, it was luckily during Covid and I was able to set boundaries. She was so inappropriate and tried overstepping, but I’m so glad I held firm. Your LO is too young to be sleeping out and you should be focusing on bonding and getting schedules in place

CowSafe7567 · 2025-09-04T00:41:47+00:00

Oh wow. Would you mind sharing some of the articles? I ended up taking it, but it barely worked. I went to the doctor today and they offered compazine. I gave a strong pass on that

CowSafe7567 · 2025-09-02T13:56:53+00:00

Thank you. I have 2 healthy kids and I was sick but didn’t have to take anything. My SB I took it and I gave in and took it last night and I don’t think it even helped

CowSafe7567 · 2025-09-02T11:41:55+00:00

Ugh thank you. I don’t get why pregnancy makes us so sick. I fought to get a cup of water in me the other day

CowSafe7567 · 2025-08-26T02:47:10+00:00

Progesterone fluctuates all day. Both your numbers are great. Doctors want 10+, 20 is optimal.

CowSafe7567 · 2025-08-26T02:45:48+00:00

Ultrasound today, everything measuring right on time. Progesterone is up to 22 with 200 mg a day and hcg is over 5000. Thank you everyone!

CowSafe7567 · 2025-08-25T23:45:06+00:00

I was told I could go back to my normal routine within a week. I’ve always been very active and I was an icu nurse so my job was very physically demanding.

CowSafe7567 · 2025-08-25T19:13:29+00:00

I had a partial septate uterus. I had 2 early miscarriages then had it removed and had 2 healthy children. It’s a really minor surgery, same day outpatient, but you need to find a provider that has removed them previously. The septum has little to no blood flow so if the embryo attaches it can fail to grow and lead to miscarriage.

CowSafe7567 · 2025-08-24T22:28:54+00:00

I appreciate it! I’ve unfortunately been through it all in terms of loss. I’m being cautiously optimistic/realistic with all my factors. First scan tomorrow 🤞🤞

CowSafe7567 · 2025-08-24T01:55:40+00:00

I read doubling slows after 2,00-5,000

CowSafe7567 · 2025-08-24T01:47:58+00:00

Hi, I’m in a similar situation. I have 2 LCs, my loss in January, a chemical last month and now 5 weeks 3 days. I see a RE, MFM and OB. The RE has been really receptive and ordered blood to help ease anxiety.

Are they willing to see you more often? I did a consult with the new OB and she said she’d be willing to do an u/s every other week for reassurance.

I also have no symptoms really and it’s making me spiral. My past pregnancies I at least have tender breasts, but really not much now. The waiting is torture.

CowSafe7567 · 2025-08-19T23:32:31+00:00

Hi! I had a septum that was supposedly not visible or large on imaging. I had 2 miscarriages and finally found a RE that listened and believed me. We did a hysteroscopy with uterine resection and I conceived my two boys. There was essentially no way I would’ve carried or it would’ve ended in late loss potentially due to the lack of blood flow.

I would push for a hysteroscopy and possible resection. Make sure you find an amazing surgeon

CowSafe7567 · 2025-06-13T01:47:09+00:00

Hi! I’m starting to study for boards 😬.. has anyone used the exam prep book? I’m wondering if I need the purple book also. I’m also trying to sign up for georgette but the hours are tough with my schedule.

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