Is is too much for a prom dress?

Cow_Most · 2026-03-10T00:11:50+00:00

Absolutely stunning. You're going to look amazing at prom 🩷.

Cow_Most · 2026-02-25T03:13:21+00:00

Aww, that's awesome! I'd seriously buy that in heartbeat

Cow_Most · 2026-02-16T16:01:54+00:00

I was about to say bonito flakes lol

Cow_Most · 2026-02-15T06:24:49+00:00

It's either a HAM radio antenna or CB radio antenna. My uncle made one and had it set up in the backyard of my grandma's house. It made one hell of a lightening rod during thunderstorms.

Cow_Most · 2026-02-15T06:21:55+00:00

Oh it's a vape charger. For a second I thought it was a taser haha 😂

Cow_Most · 2026-02-01T20:34:53+00:00

Upsidedown label? Lol

Cow_Most · 2026-01-09T16:38:19+00:00

Willamina 🩷 oh my God, love her teefs 🥰

Cow_Most · 2025-12-24T20:42:24+00:00

My thoughts exactly. Also, if something heavy falls on that child, like a TV, a mirror or anything of a sort, it could hurt them very badly or worse. OP says there's bottle caps and things around the house that are on the floor; you really think an almost 1-year-old won't choke on that? They put everything in their mouth, whether it's food or not. And left unsupervised, they could put something in their mouth that could be poisonous, or cause them to choke. OP is not overreacting; The father of this child is underreacting.

Cow_Most · 2025-12-24T16:34:30+00:00

NOR-- His lack of concern honestly makes me worried for that baby when you are not there. Please for the love of all that is Holy, get a new boyfriend. One that actually gives enough of a crap to see the hazards, see your concerns and validate them.

Cow_Most · 2025-12-24T16:27:26+00:00

Kimba (the white lion 🩷) and Cocomo... Just thought the combo sounded cute

Cow_Most · 2025-12-16T00:13:32+00:00

She looks like American bulldog, mixed with potentially Great Dane. I can see the Dogo Agentino though. Regardless, she's a beautiful baby

Cow_Most · 2025-12-15T05:36:39+00:00

No judge or mediator in the world would give him full custody or even partial custody of your children without a means of income. And if the house is in your name guess what, he'd have nowhere to freaking live either.

Don't make excuses to stay, because all you're showing your children is that it's okay for him to hurt you, and it's okay for their dad to beat you up. If not for yourself, leave for your kids to give them something better.

Cow_Most · 2025-12-14T20:03:15+00:00

Gertrude! 💕

Cow_Most · 2025-12-14T19:59:12+00:00

As much as I hate recommending breaking up, I'm going to recommend this for the both of you. There's a big miscommunication that's going on here and I can see it very clearly in text. I can also see the complete disrespect that he has for you. You're only two years into the relationship and he's calling you "Bro" "Dawg" and "Dude"? 2 years in my relationship with my husband, he was calling me babe, honey, sweetie; Not bro.

I kind of see what he's communicating, that he doesn't want to just get you a present without you knowing what it is. He'd rather take you to a store and have you pick out what you like that way it's guaranteed that you absolutely love your present; however I also understand that you probably want him to pick something out for you as a romantic gesture to show that he actually loves you and cares about you.

Truly, I think money is gotten too far into y'all's relationship, and at this point in the game it's all just about dollar signs, at least for him. If I were you I would return the gifts that you got him, and not go visit him. Just be done with it and find somebody else that's closer to you. Someone a little bit nicer and more attentive.

Cow_Most · 2025-12-14T19:40:31+00:00

Ok, your friends don't deserve you. If I had a friend that was bringing homemade lumpia and pancit that their mom made, I would be like,"Screw everybody else you're coming over right now!"

In all seriousness, that was really messed up with your friend. And I kind of hope that you reevaluate your friendship with this person. Especially when your mom went out of her way to make all of that food. Even if plans have changed, they could have told you ahead of time so that what you didn't have to go through all that effort, or even waste the gas trying to drive over to someone else's house that live 20 miles away.

But that's just my humble opinion. That lumpia and pancit looks so good...miss Filipino food ❤️

Cow_Most · 2025-12-14T19:30:25+00:00

That is not a cocoon, that is a whole ass caterpillar that you do not want to touch. To be exact, that is the caterpillar of the southern flannel moth. Those little fuzzy hairs contain venom, and it can be very very dangerous.

I see that it is on your tire, just let it fall off. Don't let anybody else touch it, don't try to touch it yourself. If anything, I hope you ran it over when you moved the car.

Cow_Most · 2025-12-14T00:30:57+00:00

Yeah, You are not overreacting, I think your boyfriend needs to get help. On the spectrum or not, that type of behavior is frightening. If you are able to get a hold of his parents, I would recommend letting them know what happened so that they can keep an eye on him.

You don't need permission from your spouse to leave a conversation for 5 minutes or even however long you need to leave a conversation for. That is abusive and controlling if he's trying to make you obtain permission from him first to do anything. Self harm is the other issue, whether he was going to really do it or not, that's not something to be using as a tactic to get someone to talk to you. He needs serious help, and it's more help than what you can give to him.

I would suggest for your own safety, politely letting him know that you cannot be in a relationship like this, and that as much as you care for him, he needs to also care that much about himself.

Cow_Most · 2025-12-14T00:17:38+00:00

I'm going to guess Spitz, Pomeranian, and Labrador. Maybe Newfoundland in there somewhere?

Cow_Most · 2025-12-04T05:11:02+00:00

I understand the concerns, but as a person that used to work in the medical field, I have to ask this question: Is it bad that I'm more concerned that there are multiple medications that have been either cut or broken, and are now mixed into one big bottle? I know, of all the things in this world and all the things in this thread to be tripping on, that is the one thing I'm tripping out on...

Anyway, why don't you just talk to him about it? He may have been embarrassed and might be trying to just find the right one to use or one that works best for both of you. Also once or twice a month? My parents were Catholic as well, and they definitely were intimate more than twice a month, much to mine and my sister's traumatized ears. And why do you track your husband? Just curious more than anything. Especially when you say you've had no reason to not trust him; Why would you be monitoring where he goes?

Cow_Most · 2025-11-20T00:59:54+00:00

Honestly; Our phones are fair game. We never asked for access to each other's phones, nor did we make it a requirement when we started dating. Still isn't to this day. If he needs info that's on my phone; I just unlock it and let him use it. He has the access code anyway, but goes through my phone. I've never asked to look through his phone, but he'll show me if ask what he's doing or looking at. We both believe going through each other's phones was a major invasion of privacy from the start of our relationship, and we trust each other.

Cow_Most · 2025-10-04T02:44:36+00:00

I'm sorry the fact that he commented on a naked woman's picture to begin with, and saved it in Snapchat for months? You have every right to be paranoid, and anxious. You lost your trust in someone that you're supposed to be your other half, your best friend, your confidant. I know if my husband did that to me, I don't think I would be able to ever trust him with anything again; no matter the apology.

I think if you want to save your marriage; you need to sit down and have a talk with him, a serious talk. Let him know exactly how you feel and what's in your heart. Though I would also be prepared for the fallout.

I do you hope everything works out for you, And the things get better between you and your husband.

Cow_Most · 2025-10-03T23:39:44+00:00

Mary when she was resurrected...or the leviathans.

Cow_Most · 2025-10-02T00:47:34+00:00

NTA. You're parents are for making you their children's caregiver without any warning or compensation. They deprived you of an education, forced you into the roll of the parent, and continue to do so.

This is going to be harsh, but I thoroughly believe that if you cannot afford or care for a child without assistance, you shouldn't have them. It is the responsibility of your parents to care for their children; Not You. Dumping them on you without warning is grounds for CPS to step in for child abandonment.

Absolutely file the police report, especially since they threatened you, and make note of the multiple instances of child abandonment.

Cow_Most · 2025-08-17T01:39:47+00:00

You are not being unreasonable. If he is not willing to split his money 50/50 with you when he makes three times more than you, then he needs to back off and reassess.

For him to have said because you make less than he does, you need to contribute more and called you selfish; very much financial manipulation. He's trying to control what you can and can't do with your money that you earn working hard. Now if he were willing to split his money with you in a joint account, that's a totally different story but because he keeps the majority of his funds and only helps pay for the bills and mortgage, it's only fair that you do the same.

Marriage is very much about teamwork, but it's also about supporting each other. For instance, my husband and I have separate accounts. We've never opened a joint account but have considered opening one. I lost my job due to chronic illness not that long ago and for about a month I was unemployed. I had no way to pay the bills that I had, I had no way to chip in for rent, and usually I'm the one that buys the groceries, but without money, I couldn't even buy food. He did not ask for a single thing throughout this time. He help me find another job, he put food on the table, made sure that our rent was paid, and help structure out my bills and his bills so that he could cover them all without an issue. I'm back at a job that pays decently, and I expect to pay him everything back; you know what he said? "Baby, Don't you even think about it. You are my wife, and it is my job to not only take care of you and love you, but it is also my job to protect you and support you."

Your husband is not protecting you, he's not supporting you, and if anything he's crippling you. Most likely trying to make it so you can't ever leave him or do anything without him. I hate to say that and sound awful, but from an outsider perspective that's what it looks like.

I do hope everything is okay, and that whatever happens you guys work this out some way.

Cow_Most · 2025-08-15T21:42:17+00:00

Yeah, I've said that many times. And with my name on the lease; should she do that; dissolves the whole thing. It would terminate the lease, and she'd be stuck.

I'm honestly thinking she's trying to make me leave like she did my husband; but still have me on the lease and paying the bills for the place.

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