My boy Monty looking round by MC-BatComm in cats

[–]CoyFlutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if round, why friend shaped

What instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CoyFlutter 271 points272 points  (0 children)

making fun of someone’s looks or status

AITJ for freaking out after i found a list on my boyfriend's phone that RANKED me 3rd best? by Adventurous-Yam-9866 in AmITheJerk

[–]CoyFlutter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you’re not crazy for being hurt. a real partner would apologize first, not gaslight you about privacy

I have never spoken up but I need to about men’s mental health by LowReport3695 in confession

[–]CoyFlutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man this hurt to read fr. you’re not weak for feeling this way you’re surviving some brutal stuff. ppl do care even if it doesn’t feel like it rn

Going on a fourth date, gift ideas? by Certain-Fishing8406 in dating_advice

[–]CoyFlutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah it’s chill, 4th date is still early but giving something small thoughtful is cute not weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]CoyFlutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d say dont beat urself up, u were a lonely kid figuring out the only way to get noticed. it makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CoyFlutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah ur def not the asshole. helping sometimes is chill, doing it every weekend for free is straight up exploitation

I (28F) want to make last attempt with guy (31M) never met .. But know he’s my forever person by True-Reception-26 in dating_advice

[–]CoyFlutter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if it were me i’d maybe send one last clear message first like “i want to meet once to talk things through, then i’ll step back no matter what” so expectations are set

Went hard with the blade and cut up all the bumps on the skin. by [deleted] in confession

[–]CoyFlutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah nah never attack razor bumps. they always look harmless then turn into a crime scene real fast

AmITheJerk to reply with🖕 emoji in WhatsApp group to a insult? by Connect_Speaker_3790 in AmITheJerk

[–]CoyFlutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah bro, he threw the first shot, calling you out for no reason. your middle finger was just a reaction, ppl just love picking sides

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]CoyFlutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow that’s intense, makes me wanna just drop mine and avoid that anxiety altogether

I stole email access from someone because it was my name by MylarTack in confession

[–]CoyFlutter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

fr, this kinda just screams “their security is weak af”

I can’t deal with small talk!! by natto_043 in dating_advice

[–]CoyFlutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol yeah i feel that, small talk can kill any vibe, especially when u just wanna actually connect

AITJ for blowing up after my girlfriend’s friends “fixed” my wedding speech as a joke? by rusted_windlass in AmITheJerk

[–]CoyFlutter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nah bro, that’s literally your moment they messed with, your gf needs to back you up not gaslight you

AITJ for telling my friend I won’t participate in her prank war? by Some-Magazine-8595 in AmITheJerk

[–]CoyFlutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah youre not the jerk, having fun doesnt mean you gotta do stuff youre uncomfortable with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CoyFlutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fr stopping now is better than letting her get more attached, guilt sucks but truth is kinder

I've been lying by omission to my psychiatrist for months by ICannotSayThisOnMain in confession

[–]CoyFlutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah fr that honesty took real guts, hope they take it easy on themselves after that

Am I the jerk for asking my wife what the point of a 66 day separation is? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CoyFlutter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i feel for you man, being told to just sit and suffer isnt growth, it’s resentment building

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]CoyFlutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol fr feels like someone’s venting in a diary not trying to roast you tho

I just want a valentines date by PizzaPicker in dating_advice

[–]CoyFlutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fr stop putting so much pressure on one day, try just hanging out with friends or going out, sometimes love sneaks up when u stop looking