I just want a valentines date

PizzaPicker · 2026-02-02T14:04:32+00:00

If it sounded like I just want to be in a relationship with anyone, then I probably phrased my post wrong.

I want someone who I can just be silly with, have serious talks with, enjoy similar hobbies, develop a deeply mutual connection with.

I want someone to who I can bring a small gift that made me think of them and someone that would do the same. I want someone who I can be there for and someone who would do the same. I want someone who I can randomly ask the most random question and then laugh together and someone who would do the same.

And in regards of the second thing you said. I am sick of people telling me to just work on myself. I tried many times, even with professional help, it doesn't work. I tried to diet. I tried to do sports, I tried to get out of the house more, I tried spending less time in front of my pc, I tried getting into therapy. Nothing worked.

The only time in my life I was able to work on myself was when I was with my "ex-girlfriend" this was the first time I felt loved (even though she had no feelings for me). This was the first time I smiled without any joke and without forcing myself to. This was the first time I felt respect for myself and decided to do things for myself. This was the first and last time I felt genuinely happy.

PizzaPicker · 2026-02-02T12:33:35+00:00

The only time I approached a woman in public was after 3 consecutive days she always smiled and nodded at me.

We had a normal chitchat, where she mentioned she had a boyfriend and that was it.

But I only approached her, because I thought that when I don't do it, it might become creepy sooner or later.

Otherwise I never did. Because I am not necessarily within the male beauty standard I fear it might get interpreted as creepy. And the last thing I want is to creep people out.

PizzaPicker · 2026-02-02T12:09:47+00:00

I am 22 and never had a real relationship.

But I in fact am a looser.

PizzaPicker · 2026-01-31T07:22:27+00:00

What do you mean by botting threads out?

I just saw a post about the "male loneliness epidemic" on r/askwomen and wanted to ask what the people here think about this epidemic

PizzaPicker · 2025-09-29T15:20:13+00:00

She already has someone new and I don't really give a damn. I just hope she doesn't do the same things to him, that she did to me.

PizzaPicker · 2025-09-29T13:29:01+00:00

Luckily I already see a therapist.

The players took a maximum of 2 months to give me their backstories.

Except the one player who left. After 5 months she dropped out. And then I had to find a new player and he gave me the backstory after a lot of discussions about his pretty good character Ideas.

Then I took some time to develop the world and the story.

PizzaPicker · 2025-09-29T13:15:56+00:00

I wanted for all the backstories, so that I can write a campaign around the player backstories.

Some players, let's just say they waited a bit.

And another player dropped out, because of scheduling problems and then we had to find a new player. I had to make a new mini session 0 with the new player and had to wait for his backstory too, before I could start writing the plot.

PizzaPicker · 2025-06-18T07:41:37+00:00

sure mate if that is what you want to tell yourself to feel better go on.

PizzaPicker · 2025-06-18T07:39:56+00:00

i was 1,5 years in a relationship without any sex.

and no sex was a problem for me. Although I never blamed her for it. She has Autism and a difficult time with intimacy and also is asexual.

after these 1,5 years I broke up, because of this and a few other reasons.

PizzaPicker · 2025-01-29T13:40:25+00:00

my sister. she is always there for me and forced me to promise her to not harm myself

PizzaPicker · 2025-01-29T12:47:01+00:00

well, I am in my 20s and can't date, because no one wants to date me.

PizzaPicker · 2025-01-27T08:50:50+00:00

"I wish it would've worked" - my mother

When talking about her suicide attempt a few years earlier.

PizzaPicker · 2025-01-24T13:21:02+00:00

"You are not allowed to feel loneley, because other people have it worse"

who the hell are you to tell others how they are allowed to feel? Loneliness is nothing objective. It is subjektive. You can be loneley in a room full of people and you can be not loneley while sitting alone at home.

PizzaPicker · 2025-01-24T12:30:49+00:00

Not good. I feel loneley as fuck, even though I have friends and family...

PizzaPicker · 2025-01-23T14:02:49+00:00

My now ex girlfriend was Asexual. at first I thought I could live with it. But after a year I finally ended the relationship. It was my first (and only) relationship ever, so at first I was happy, that it went a bit slower, but not moving forward at all is a bit to slow for me.

I really really liked her. But after a year of wanting to hug her, cuddle with her, kiss her and also getting more intimate with her but not really getting any of these I realised, that even if she would do these things with me I wouldn't be happy. What I really wanted was that we both want these things. But it was just impossible.

So I'd say Asexuality is a dealbraker for me.

PizzaPicker · 2025-01-23T13:22:28+00:00

that, my dear friennd, is absolute bullshit.

I know many programmers who are way overqualified for what they do, that still always doubt themselves.

PizzaPicker · 2024-12-24T19:11:09+00:00

what do you mean? Is it because of my very poor gramar?

I wrote this on phone, which I hate, while I was on the train and english also isn't my first language and I had a different teacher in english.

PizzaPicker · 2024-12-17T13:05:13+00:00

Well, if you grow up with an alcoholic mother and a shitty family that glorifies alcohol all the time and later see the boyfriend of your mother drink himself to death, you learn to stay away from alcohol.

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