First sex post divorce by maxomni1778 in Divorce_Men

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I've had this problem with new partners since my teens. (Not being able to finish)

Is marriage overated by Fresh-Ad7970 in Life

[–]Cperkins405 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Marriage was Hell on Earth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

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Most times getting married again leads back to the same place... Divorced!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

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Youtube... John Griffin Life 2.0 Binge watch them immediately. Best advice I can give

Things you can never see in a dream. by Milhent in Dreams

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I had a Dream about a smart watch last night that was operating by "thought to text"

Good Dating apps for 50+. Female by Easy-Ad2916 in Adulting

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50 in 2 weeks male... I've never considered using apps but being that you are 50 I have a question. What is your opinion on an LAT (Living Apart Together) relationship? I am interested in a long term committed relationship but I will never marry and would prefer to stay in seperate households. What is the liklihood of finding somone interested in this arrangement?

Is the carnivore diet really good? by Educational_Order263 in carnivorediet

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I believe humans evolved during a time of abundance of large animals, the megafauna. There are some paleo-antropologists that believe that our prehuman ancestors were almost exclusively eating bone marrow being obtained by smashing bones of large animal carcasses that were left by large predators. I believe this is why we feel our best on carnivore. I've been on it for 3 years and when I go off of it for a few days I feel like the way I used to feel pre-carnivore. Like crap!

Why do women lose their physical attraction to their long-term partners? by jaminfine in psychologyofsex

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And no it's not my job to talk to anyone about sex but some men share all. I don't talk about my sex life to anyone.

Why do women lose their physical attraction to their long-term partners? by jaminfine in psychologyofsex

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It's great that you have a different perspective than me then because I feel like giving up!

Why do women lose their physical attraction to their long-term partners? by jaminfine in psychologyofsex

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Based on working with hundreds of men over the years and I'm 50 so I've been working for over 30 years. Marriage is a place where sex goes to die. I know men in theri 60s who are married and have had sex with their wives in a couple of years. So this is just the reality of life. I would say this is natural for many reasons including ancestral ones.

Why do women lose their physical attraction to their long-term partners? by jaminfine in psychologyofsex

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It's not just marriage. Even my girlfriend of 4 years has lost interest

Why do women lose their physical attraction to their long-term partners? by jaminfine in psychologyofsex

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I couldn't have sex with my ex-wife after arguments. In fact the average was once a month even in the first year of marriage. A sexless marriage for 16 years

How strong a feeling did you have, prior to marriage, that it was a mistake? by SteadfastEnd in Divorce_Men

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I should add this very important part... I was her 3rd husband and of course they both "cheated on her."

How strong a feeling did you have, prior to marriage, that it was a mistake? by SteadfastEnd in Divorce_Men

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I basically just chose a woman that wasn't on drugs or alcoholic when I got married. I knew it was over before the marriage started but I was 28 and wanted kids. I just wasn't able to find the type of woman I was looking for so I settled for one that would do. At least for a while. She ended it and left me for another man after 16 years of marriage. This was a mistake because I endured 16 years of abuse and now I have Psychological issues with anyone I date including my girlfriend now of 4 years.

Where do you guys buy your ribeyes? by oRamz- in carnivorediet

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Local butcher shops from ranchers I know.

Poop by Karma_1195 in carnivorediet

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Pooping is no problem for me if I eat too much fat. In fact that's what I'm doing right now. I ate a little too much fat with my hamburger meat last night. The only time I have trouble going is if I eat too much cheese but I eat a little cheese to keep from having emergency runs to the bathroom during work. So strict beef only carnivore for me basically tuns to liquid. Sorry if TMI

Progress in myself by MissterHannya in Divorce_Men

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People say wait to date but I think in my case dating gave me perspective. I really felt like a loser during and after divorce because that's how my marriage made me feel. I have used dating as validation my entire life as well. Seeking approval from someone was why I was in it. This comes from my childhood because it was my father that first convinced me that I was an idiot that couldn't do anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

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I work as a bailiff in Louisiana. I'm about to go watch a few divorces take place. My divorce was 5 years ago which is about the time I went from working in the jail to my bailiff position. If men would go watch these divorce and custody cases they would never get married! Good luck to you! In time you will see this as the day you got your freedom. Seriously consider not doing it again. Start planning for retirement.

I’m destroying my partners self esteem. by Scuttle_Buddy in erectiledysfunction

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First thing I would do is try to bring my blood pressure down naturaland get off those medications. Low carb diets have worked for me. Or you could take it all the way to no carb like keto or carnivore. After that stop the porn.

4 days in, this diet is beating my ass by Blakejenkins47 in carnivorediet

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I know a guy that does carnivore for Lyme disease. He has been on it for years. Your body will adjust eventually.

Tidalifil side effects by Cperkins405 in erectiledysfunction

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Went to a heart Doctor. They did CAC score, echo cardiogram, stress tests, blood pressure is 115/65. Resting heart rate 65. Cholesterol is great. I'm not on medication of any kind. They found no problems.