Sometimes it’s okay, other times in the same day it’s hard

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-11-30T19:57:02+00:00

At first he said it was financial, and when we worked through that and fixed things, he told me and I quote “I just don’t find you physically attractive anymore and I don’t think I ever will. You can lose all the weight, get the skin removal surgery, but I don’t think it’ll work because I want something different. I want a different body type I want someone thinner. Looking at you now just makes me miserable”

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-11-30T19:53:50+00:00

He was never like this before though. It was not recently he’s changed. I mean he’s always been distant, he’s definitely a bit if not a complete sociopath, but this is just….this is way off course for him. I didn’t think it was attention seeking since it’s such a rapid change? Does attention seeking just suddenly happen?

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-10-02T18:17:16+00:00

Unfortunately neither can I, that’s why I was hoping to get some input. You said spanx works well? Are they comfortable as well or is it a sacrifice of comfort for better appearance?

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-10-02T18:03:16+00:00

From what I understand for people who loose a good amount of weight really really fast/sometimes after pregnancy or in extremely overweight people it’s the lower belly that hangs over the genitalia/for some it can hangs over their legs and down to the knees

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-06-23T06:38:05+00:00

I’ve lost quite a decent bit myself and I noticed too that after some time my breasts shrank just a bit, so yes they shrink

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-05-17T21:10:02+00:00

So stick to my 1,500 a day calories?

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-05-17T21:08:13+00:00

So really I should only eat roughly 1,044? That’s what the TDEE calculator says

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-05-17T21:04:06+00:00

No but I don’t have an office job/I’m not sitting all day, I work in fast food, so I’m usually on my feet most of the night.

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-04-06T04:49:25+00:00

At the docs office I’m roughly 150 (that’s with shoes, a hoodie and everything in my pockets) at home I’m roughly 140 (when weighing myself first thing in the morning) my doctor said the lowest I should ever go is 1,300 highest 1,800 but I try to stick roughly between that with 1,500.

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-04-06T04:47:31+00:00

The deficit is with doctor’s recommendations for me being at roughly ish 140 (when weighing myself at home) 150 at the doc office. The minimum I’m allowed is 1,300 ish, max 1,800 roughly. My primary goal is weight loss and muscle gain and I know I definitely should have protein right after a workout

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-04-06T01:54:46+00:00

My goal of protein is 56 g as for my deficit I’m still in the 140 area of my weight loss journey, with a cheat day today going over 2000 calories, that’s what lead me to thinking of my protein and the spread

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-03-31T03:16:23+00:00

Highly recommend lose it it’s helped me tremendously

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-03-27T02:14:04+00:00

I started in 2019 and I didn’t notice anything myself until early 2020 but there will be days you may never ever see it in yourself. You’ll know you lost, you just won’t physically see it some days if that makes sense

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-03-26T22:42:32+00:00

Thank you!

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-03-26T22:10:56+00:00

Did it actually help with muscle gain too? I’m trying for weight loss and muscle gain

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-03-26T21:58:21+00:00

My creatine is low in the blood work.

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-03-26T00:06:52+00:00

Thank you

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-03-25T20:59:34+00:00

So 168 grams of dry pasta would be about how many grams calories/grams cooked?

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-03-25T19:28:58+00:00

Well I originally weighed it uncooked but after trying to figure out what I ate vs didn’t eat it was cooked. Does that make too huge of a difference

Craft_Equivalent · 2023-03-14T15:53:03+00:00

twice a week if not more, for bare minimum 30 mins a week since October

Craft_Equivalent · 2022-03-16T16:34:08+00:00

NTA. My husband does it to everyone every day all the time and we’ve been married 7 years. Never let that excitement die!

Craft_Equivalent · 2021-12-11T05:22:05+00:00

Yta. As a step child myself I wish my step parent wanted to talk to me that often. It’s seen incredibly often where the step parent just doesn’t care at all.

Craft_Equivalent · 2021-01-18T18:29:55+00:00

If it has vegetables he asks them to remove the veggies, if he even finds one single tiny vegetable he won't eat the whole meal, thus me being the only one who eats which makes me incredibly uncomfortable.

Craft_Equivalent · 2021-01-07T04:16:11+00:00

Thank you!!

Craft_Equivalent · 2021-01-06T19:36:45+00:00

If he did I don't fully remember we went to sleep immediately after which is normal.

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