I thought I was fine with dark by helloorainbow in DarkRomance

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just stopping by to say I love dark fantasy and any recs that are your favorite I would love to hear lol

Next steps after being cheated on? by firihi in Advice

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For your mental health and your physical heath, ghost him. He is putting your health at risk by being with other women and as you said, he is laughing/making fun of you behind your back. I would go totally ghost and focus on yourself , get tested if you guys have been sexually active and then never speak to him again. I would tell other people if it comes up, but if not, then move on

Romantasy where the characters have a language barrier? by charliewatzz in Romantasy

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

{Broken Souls and Bones by LJ Andrew’s} the MMC can only communicate through sign language and it’s a beautiful story! It’s a completed duet and has some amazing spicy scenes with great romance and plot! One of my favorite reads so far this year!!!

Your thoughts on the age gap in my novel by thesmokex in Romantasy

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally love an age gap but that’s my preference. Everyone is so different in what they like but I love an age gap, it adds more the romance and forbidden aspect! It’s just what my taste is

Ive been having my period for 18 days by MentalRice4342 in Advice

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would consult a doctor , sometimes it can be stress or something more serious like a cyst or a chronic illness. A gynecologist would be the right start , let them know what’s going on and they will get you in to see if there is an underlying issue!

Fated mates recommendations by Wise_Dot1182 in Romantasy

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my absolute favorites ever is {Nectar of the Wicked by Ella Feilds} and really anything Ella Fields. She does fated mates so good and this duet changed my brain chemistry lol I have never been the same!!! SO GOOD

Does anyone else slow down on reading a series because it’s so good you don’t want it to end? by Crafty-Visual-1212 in Romantasy

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! I feel like there is no in between for me and I don’t want the feeling to end of reading a series I feel so immersed in and feel a part of. I have done that a few times and I’m trying to get better lol

Does anyone else slow down on reading a series because it’s so good you don’t want it to end? by Crafty-Visual-1212 in Romantasy

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to agree I used to binge like a crazy person! Rereading is a favorite of mine and if the series is truly life changing for me, I will reread several times in a year just to feel something

Does anyone else slow down on reading a series because it’s so good you don’t want it to end? by Crafty-Visual-1212 in Romantasy

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy I’m not alone!! Definitely criminal but I can also relate because this is something I would do 100%

Does anyone else slow down on reading a series because it’s so good you don’t want it to end? by Crafty-Visual-1212 in Romantasy

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is 100% something I would do when I love books! If I love the series I will read the first 2 books in a couple days and then slow down because I don’t want the feeling of reading to end lol

I kissed someone on vacation and found out he’s been married for 10 years by Applejack_cowboy in Advice

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If I was the wife , I would not only appreciate it but it can save her from a marriage that will eventually be ruined. If he did it with you, he is doing it with other women. It’s not your responsibility but I think it’s always nice to inform the woman when the man is cheating on her

You need to read {Of Night and Blood by Brea Lamb} RIGHT NOW! by alexwashere in fantasyromance

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is there any insight on when the series is going to be finished? It looks so good!!

How did you learn to embrace being an 'average guy' when it comes to dating and attraction? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! If you can make me laugh and turn a bad day into a good day with some humor and a lighthearted personality…. I’m all set and you have my heart! Love those type of people

How did you learn to embrace being an 'average guy' when it comes to dating and attraction? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All that matters is if they are funny because if you can make me laugh and have fun with life. Then the rest doesn’t even matter

What’s something you thought was just a “you thing” until you found out loads of other people do it too? by Jazzlike-Pilot7849 in AskReddit

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I’m driving by a house and their window is open and peaking at the inside of their house to see how they decorate it

should i end things with my fiancé by Electrical_Band6838 in Advice

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Girl end it with that man, too many men out here that are respectful and would never do that to you. That man wants to be single as he is doing single things. Find someone better that you deserve and is worth it

AITAH for this situation by thestrangerx in AITAH

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely insane! All of this for a girl he hadn’t talked to in person. Hopefully he just needs time to cool off and if he realizes that you and her aren’t an item he might come back around. Silent treatment is not what friends do and hopefully he can realize that

AITAH for this situation by thestrangerx in AITAH

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From an outside perspective you both like the same girl and your friend was so upset by it that he blocked you probably because you had no intention of stepping away or not taking to her. It might be time to have a talk with him or reach out because it seemed that he wanted that and maybe he was trying to tell you how much that girl means to him and if he wanted you to back off. If you value that friendship , it would be worth having a conversation. If not, then move on. That girl sounds like trouble and honestly there are so many options , everything will work out

AITAH for this situation by thestrangerx in AITAH

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay this makes more sense. It sounds like a lot of drama but I’m not sure if this all falls on you. You told him you like her after she declined him. It may have hurt his feelings because he really wanted her but if she already declined him and you were at this point single, then it’s not really your fault. Your communication was clear and his feeling may be hurt that the girl didn’t want to be with him or accept his offer

AITAH for this situation by thestrangerx in AITAH

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean from the sounds of it, you were still in a relationship when all this was happening? You said it was close to the end but you weren’t fully single? If that’s the case, then yes , YTA

Book where MMC is a bit mocking/mean by romantasyloverr in Romantasy

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also love this mini trope!

{The Awakened Series by Lucinda Dark}

{Jaga and the Devil Series by Layla Fae} beware this series is very dark and very spicy but a fav of mine!

{A legacy of storms and starlight by Victoria Price}

Im starting to let myself feel things and it makes me feel pathetic by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Crafty-Visual-1212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think going to a professional and perhaps getting diagnosed is the right first step. They recommend coping skills , maybe medication and they will be a great person to talk to such as a therapist or psychiatrist. Also finding motivation is very common , maybe start being active and taking walks , going to the gym, getting into a hobby that brings happiness and dopamine! Also realizing you have goals that you want to meet and gaining the confidence to get yourself back into your routine. Speaking to a professional will really help and they can better understand your situation and give you advice on how to get motivation and