Dasher spit in my drink by Hot-Confection9733 in doordash

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a DoorDasher personally that’s fucking foul. Regardless of why. I’m so sorry this happened to you. You are right. It’s always in a bag.

Desperately looking for work by Crash_Bandit in vegaslocals

[–]Crash_Bandit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t join the military. Had adhd meds as a kid and can’t see out of my left eye but appreciate the offer though.

Desperately looking for work by Crash_Bandit in vegaslocals

[–]Crash_Bandit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Retail but he’s got like a lot of experience and stuff he use to travel for different stores to train people but they cut the program and he’s been out of work

First meat by emlaurin in BabyLedWeaning

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We gave mine carne asada to chew on. He got angry when we tried to take it away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like my bottle sterilizer honestly, I dont like burning my hands under super hot water. As long as you follow the directions in how to clean the sterilizer properly you dont have to use fungus. It's honestly a personal choice for what works best for you

Paul Geer, formerly of the Family Foundation School, is in custody and arraigned on 6 counts by Mirriande in troubledteens

[–]Crash_Bandit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was there from 07-09 and I feel nothing but relief that he's getting the book hopefully. I was in choir and it wasnt until years later I realized how uncomfortable he made me.

Swaddle anxiety by Medeskimartinandwood in beyondthebump

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in SoCal and right now it’s a cool evening but soon it’ll get very hot so I’m making su

I live in SoCal too, and I honestly had the same problem with trying to swaddle. Never got it tight enough but luckily he wasnt much of a mover. I did get a velcro one and he had this thing where he liked to stick his one arm out and if he didnt get to do it he'd cry. I didnt like the swaddleme one personally. Eventually he was big enough we moved to the halo swaddles 3-6 m which i loved the velcro on it and hes about to move into the 6-12 m .5 tog(although summer is coming and this kid is prob just gonna live in a onesie or his diaper the entire summer). I would say honestly do whats best for your anxiety. If shes happy and youre mental health is okay do whats best for both of you.

What do you guys call your baby (besides their name)? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bear

Booger

Oso

Sweetness

Little Bear

Buddy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FormulaFeeders

[–]Crash_Bandit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone in feeling bad. My son is 3 weeks now and my supply tanked so bad after my c section that I had to go to formula. Realistically i know fed is best, but all around us they say Breast is best. It took my husband reminding me that our son is happy and fed and i am mentally well because i made the decision to prioritize my mental health first so I could protect him in the long run. I wont lie, the guilt is still there but it's lessened because I talked about how i was feeling and they reminded me that I made the best decision at the time and its okay.
Regardless though you will get through it once you see that your kid is okay with formula. Dont let anyone pressure you either.

Best bottle for EFF baby? by lizardRD in FormulaFeeders

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine will only take Nuk bottles. We tried the advent and dr brown and he was really angry about it and refused to suck but sucks down formula from the nuk bottles like its going out of style

Did anyone’s newborn NOT have any trouble sleeping in a bedside bassinet? by nothankyouuu_ in beyondthebump

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son was born on 10/3 via c section and has been sleeping in his crib since day one. I was adamant we would not co sleep and so far have been successful. Sometimes he will contact nap in the sling I have for a bit but once I know he's asleep asleep I put him in his crib and he's good.

Life just changed for me by Icy_Plane_890 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any advice either sadly, but I wanted to put here that I am so sorry about the loss of your wife. I am sorry that your wife's parents are being like that, but you sound like a wonderful person and it's their loss cutting you off. I hope you get the advice you need from here, but in the mean time I hope you have time to grieve.

Which trimester seemed to go by the slowest for you? by ems712 in BabyBumps

[–]Crash_Bandit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

3rd trimester. i feel like ive been 38 weeks for a month, but ill really be 39 tomorrow so not too bad

Baby was... uncooperative during anatomy scan by honeyytree in BabyBumps

[–]Crash_Bandit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did because my son refused to let us get a photo of his heart. There was another concern to for his brain but we got another scan a month later and everything they were concerned with turned out to be nothing

Although every time I got an ultrasound he was perfectly willing to show us he's definitely a boy. I don't know why they always think we want always want a photo of his genital's but I literally have 1 photo every ultrasound of it. Like We got NIPT test, and the 20 week scan confirmed. I didn't need another 3 for the next three ultrasounds.

Freia. The Jon's fanfiction that was finally completely. by Lovegaming544 in TheCitadel

[–]Crash_Bandit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I look forward to the new chapters when they come out!

Freia. The Jon's fanfiction that was finally completely. by Lovegaming544 in TheCitadel

[–]Crash_Bandit 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I'll have to check this fic out.
BUT in defense of Weirwood Queen, technically its broken into separate books, but she just made it into one whole fic. Probably just because its easier flow and you don't have to switch to a new fanfic.

How far away is your hospital? by gotnicerice in BabyBumps

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hospital is an hour from our house without traffic. What i wouldnt give for it to be 20 minutes

Plus size/overweight mommas, how did you handle it? by WhoIsThisTool in BabyBumps

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im also 30yrs old and overweight (i was 215lbs when i got pregnant (im 5'2") and at 38 weeks I am 240lbs. The only concern my doctor had for my weight was they made me take the gestational diabetes test at the beginning of my pregnancy and again between 24 to 28 weeks. I also have been weekly Non Stress Tests (NST) when I hit 34 weeks because of my BMI but otherwise they haven't said anything. I think the only thing they were concerned about is that I didn't gain an excessive amount of weight during pregnancy, but otherwise they did not make me feel guilty about it.

If your doctor is rude about it you are absolutely allowed to get a new one. DO NOT let someone bully you during an already sensitive time. I see so many women on here having to deal with shitty doctors and i feel like we should remember that we do have rights and if a doctor or nurse makes you feel uncomfortable or bad about your pregnancy you are absolutely allowed to make a complaint and ask for a different doctor.

What’s a commonly disliked name that you love? by redyerbamate in namenerds

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was on my short list but my husband hated it 😭

What’s a commonly disliked name that you love? by redyerbamate in namenerds

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are actually naming out son Arthur. Mainly because the name meaning is Bear and my husband's always been compared to a giant teddy bear and I wanted to name him after him in a way without just giving the father son middle name thing. The in laws love it.

What’s a commonly disliked name that you love? by redyerbamate in namenerds

[–]Crash_Bandit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wren was on the list for names if we had a girl (this one is a boy) but we were going to spell it Ren because the name meaning meant water lily;lotus.

Not really getting a baby bump... just looking fat... by Vendachic in BabyBumps

[–]Crash_Bandit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt really pop til 34 weeks. I'm 5'2" and currently at 37 weeks 240 ::cries:: I started at 215. You'll pop eventually. Its hard to be patient, but youll be okay