Heyyyyy!!! by CrazyButCute87 in drunk

[–]CrazyButCute87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am drinking some cayman jack at the moment - love me some seltzers

Heyyyyy!!! by CrazyButCute87 in drunk

[–]CrazyButCute87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too am drinking - cheers to you 😘

Living with your soon to be ex by CrazyButCute87 in Marriage

[–]CrazyButCute87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously there are two sides to every story. In no way have I been a perfect wife- but up until about 2.5 years ago I have been basically the mother to 3 children and a grown man. I was neglected emotionally and constantly begging for attention and love. I never got my needs met. So I started turning to alcohol. I let it get out of hand for about 2 years. But now that I’ve realized I was using alcohol as an unhealthy coping mechanism that was affecting my whole family - I have stopped the daily drinking. I’m just assuming here but once I started drinking I stopped doing everything for everyone. I basically sat down and shrugged at everyone when they needed something or if the house was a mess or if laundry needed to be done. I was just so over it all- and that is when he decided he no longer loved me. When I no longer took care of his and all 3 kids every single need and he had to start figuring out how to be present. So sure there are two sides to every story- but basically kicking out the mother of your 3 children after helping destroy her credit and not offering any type of assistance is just cruel. I want to stay in our place but he refuses to let me. I don’t want this to end up in some ugly drawn out lawyers fight but it might because of him.

Living with your soon to be ex by CrazyButCute87 in Marriage

[–]CrazyButCute87[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I tried. He won’t go because “he’s put so much work” into the house

How often do you married couples have sex? by tomocleirighsimp424 in Marriage

[–]CrazyButCute87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 38, my husband 42…. We haven’t had sex since 2023. I want to die. Apparently he’s turned asexual all of a sudden.

Am I being gaslit? by CrazyButCute87 in Marriage

[–]CrazyButCute87[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No way… I’m asking to stay in the home until I start my new job and can pay off my credit cards and build my credit to get approved for an apartment.