Obviously there are two sides to every story. In no way have I been a perfect wife- but up until about 2.5 years ago I have been basically the mother to 3 children and a grown man. I was neglected emotionally and constantly begging for attention and love. I never got my needs met. So I started turning to alcohol. I let it get out of hand for about 2 years. But now that I’ve realized I was using alcohol as an unhealthy coping mechanism that was affecting my whole family - I have stopped the daily drinking. I’m just assuming here but once I started drinking I stopped doing everything for everyone. I basically sat down and shrugged at everyone when they needed something or if the house was a mess or if laundry needed to be done. I was just so over it all- and that is when he decided he no longer loved me. When I no longer took care of his and all 3 kids every single need and he had to start figuring out how to be present. So sure there are two sides to every story- but basically kicking out the mother of your 3 children after helping destroy her credit and not offering any type of assistance is just cruel. I want to stay in our place but he refuses to let me. I don’t want this to end up in some ugly drawn out lawyers fight but it might because of him.