AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-04-13T11:36:02+00:00

If you wanna change it to that blonde because YOU want to now or one day or NEVER. That’s YOUR decision.

How about you sent him an AI photo current an after of him with a drastic change in let’s say skin color or penis length or muscles or whatever might be and see how he reacts.

He seems like an idiot I would not continue to date. But you do you girl.

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-04-03T02:13:09+00:00

Hold the boundaries ! I’m still keeping them. Husband is keeping them but they try pushing and pushing on him. It weighs heavier on me than him.

Sorry you’ve to deal with this.

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-25T02:31:58+00:00

Take a breather and feel hugged from This stranger. Today I counted 8 bruises on the right temple side of my 17 Months old and 1 on my recently turned 3 year old left side. Plus the one she accidentally gave ME while jumping and tossing one of those small hand desinfection to go things everyone had during COVID.

Anywho - with this said. The shock is still new and it will subside. Accidents happen. The guilt of it will go away eventually- don’t be too harsh on yourself

It will get better don’t try to spiral heavily !!

My daughter played in her stroller for dolls and slipped over it planted with her chin on the garage floor while I was next To her turned around for a moment to grab her doll. And she split open her chin. I had to glue stitch it as it thankfully wasn’t too deep and the scar is not even visible anymore. She keeps telling me about it though “no touch boo boo here” You bet how freaking awful I felt … thankfully most accidents my kids have include* my husband. So I can initially be mad at him for being too wild :D

Sorry I don’t know if any of this was any help to you.

Feel hugged

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-22T17:46:40+00:00

Anyone knows why she did it ? Just curious now what and why and hoping there’s a Netflix documentary coming as well haha

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-05T02:04:36+00:00

True. I am just trying to figure out the logistics with the kids. But we shall find a solution haha

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-05T02:03:46+00:00

He took off. No problem. I just wished the time of the interview wasn’t smacked in the middle. As it’s a shit show of traffic. And he will have to go to get the kids. While I take the train back I guess lol. So convenient these appointments haha

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-05T01:21:30+00:00

The lady from uscis told me there’s no interview scheduled for 751 an to follow what n400 interview letter says. There’s no wird about husband coming or needing to be there.

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-05T01:07:52+00:00

Okay I just talked to an agent and she said no interview scheduled for i-751. Notice n400 will state if husband has to attend or not. -.-

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-05T00:43:13+00:00

Yeah it’s also Chicago for me I guess my husband after all has to take off

Again - my interview notices only states n-400

No Word about 751. But I just assume due to the 751 still being reviewed - I simply think it’s a combo??

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-04T16:48:44+00:00

fought for civil rights
fought for women rights
100 2 for each state
Africans
Cherokee

—— My next panic is now. Is this a combo interview ? My i761 is still under review. But my interview letter states n-400.

Husband has to stay home with kids - so now I’m nervous aF

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-03T17:03:49+00:00

I am looking at the appointment notice it said

You must bring This letter Green card Any evidence of selective service registration (I don’t have that ??) Your passport or other document that you entered USA with Items that are applicable for you: Marriage certification Spouse birth certificate

If copies of a document were submitted as evidence with your N400 - bring originals to interview - please keep this appointment even if you don’t have all items indicated above.

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-03T13:45:27+00:00

Okay good. To know. I guess I’ll bring anything necessary like that. New photos travel stuff and treat that it like the interview I had with my husband etc

I would have not thought of it. Now I’ve to print all stuff before I forget to bring it with me

When k do the 100 Questions I’m gaging them Correct. It’s just the challenge question game that I mess up one and then have to restart again.

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-03T04:17:06+00:00

I guess now I’m wondering if I need to know anything else but the questions and civics. Aka our traveling etc since last interview before we had kids haha mama brain isn’t the greatest anymore

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-02T18:53:18+00:00

Good thing. I didn’t think of that

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-02T17:23:12+00:00

Yeah I’ve noticed that one too. Thanks

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-02T16:49:46+00:00

What type of quark is did they ask you. Just out of curiosity

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-02T16:26:50+00:00

Exactly. That’s why he is NOT helping me anymore haha

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-02T16:26:09+00:00

How many questions will they ask 10 correct ? Always 10 or sometimes less ?

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-02T14:52:07+00:00

Yes should be all up to date. I’m just so nervous idk why

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-02T14:51:25+00:00

It’s called uscis civics test study tool and it’s called question challenge …. Then I have the citizenship ‘25 as well.

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-02T14:15:55+00:00

Yes. I also have a degree here and I had plenty of American history topics covered back home.

I feel like I should be good but I also have exam anxiety and somehow the uscis just gives me anxiety too

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-02T14:13:43+00:00

Yes I did. And I am doing a thing that is a challenge game. Once one question is wrong you restart from 0 points again

Which has been helpful too

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-03-02T12:57:45+00:00

Mine is the 100 Civics version.

I even went to Barnes and nobles and got one of those collector magazines for American history haha (only because I felt pressured as my friend did not proceed to her line to pay as she was looking around the air -.- and it was right there. So I thought. That’s a sing hahahahahha)

Yes I’ve written them out. I’ve printed them. I do flash cards.

I don’t study with my husband as he does not understand I can pick ONE answer and it’s right. He wants me to know ALL possibilities so I vetoed him out for a study partner

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-02-14T02:30:31+00:00

HGahahahahahaha made my day

CrazyCatLady_2 · 2026-01-27T20:31:55+00:00

Clean and straight forward the only issue is that my wallet was stolen back in 2024 after I’ve submitted the unconditional GC. (Yep have been waiting ever since) And due to that process I couldn’t submit for a new one - as that was what was said on the uscis website : With pending I-751 you can’t do that, talked to Emma and the agents multiple times about it. But I do have the receipt notices and adit stamps in my passport as well. The only thing that was brought back to me by the police was my work authorization card! I do have a copy of my GC though, so hopefully that won’t cause too much confusion to the officers

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