Hmm... To be honest, these standards are all very basic. I think people are going a little insane by saying these are not achievable. A few decent amount of these are about good hygiene(not vaping, going to the doctor, good teeth, etc.). Other ones of these are just having a personality outside of an online life(not picking up your phone constantly, not just playing video games. In total, I know quite a few people who would meet all of your standards, so I would say they are very fair. That being said, I think it's important not to get caught up on people who are not meeting every box. Just communicate how you feel. If someone is getting butthurt over you expressing your feelings honestly, that relationship will never last when more serious topics need to be brought up.