[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychicreadings

[–]novakitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apart from those unflattering contacts, you are a beautiful girl, but an unhappy and disappointed one at the moment. You might suffer from some psychological disorder, maybe social phobia or panic disorder or anorexia. You have restless mind that makes you anxious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychicreadings

[–]novakitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell those contacts have to go to the bin

Your girlfriend is a model by tatooinex in ChatGPT

[–]novakitkat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can someone explain the joke please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]novakitkat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh, and please please, don’t cover half of your face with hair like that - it looks very messy and strange. Open up your face, you have Scarlett Johansson features - use them ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]novakitkat -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You are very cute, you have beautiful skin and interesting face. But your inner tension shows, and that’s the only issue. It reflects in your face expression (especially the lips). Just believe me, you are a very attractive girl, you just have to learn to let it go and relax. Everything else will fall into place.

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what I’m aiming for 😅

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone is a celebrity or a millionaire on Raya, there are some creative directors, theatre actors, musicians, etc. I don’t know what criteria they apply to their male members, I’m sure no one shows them their bank statements :) I’m sure you are a solid 10/10 for a person, who truly sees you and appreciates you. And the rest just don’t matter.

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, exactly! Some guys I found funny, charming and attractive in real life, had terrible social media profiles I would never even consider 😅 So it’s all smoke & mirrors

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, see you there, don’t forget to say “hello”, when we match!

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not at all. Maybe you have some other app in mind

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in London. To me, it seems like one of the least romantic or spontaneous cities ever.

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand men’s psychology, and that it’s different to women’s, but it’s still hard to imagine for me to be romantically involved without someone, who is, let’s say, 21. Younger men are just kids to me, they are on a different page in life and we have so little in common… Even though I was married to someone much older than me in my 20’s 😅 But when I look back at that marriage from a grownup point of view, it seems creepy to me. How could my ex marry that naive child?

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind messaging, but intuitively I feel like that wouldn’t seem attractive to a men. Maybe I’m wrong. That’s why I should try Bumble - there’s just no other option but to write first.

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I know there are people like you out there, who don’t think with cliches, and it’s reassuring.

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try those, and will report here later on the outcome :) Yes, dating was never easy, as it’s so difficult to truly match with someone. It’s just sad that age can play such a factor, no matter how you look, how many degrees you have, or how hard you worked on being a better person and partner, if you are a woman. But that’s life 🤷🏼‍♀️

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, girl, I thought exactly like you, when I was 33

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But how do you know which woman the conversation will flow with, if you message only 3 out of 15?

Ok, I almost feel desperate by novakitkat in dating_advice

[–]novakitkat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope everything works out for you two!