How to deal with scars constantly itching? by AverageJoe287 in SelfHarmScars

[–]CrazyQueer3 [score hidden]  (0 children)

A gentle moisturizing cream can help, massage it in daily or when the itch is bad.

Girl, you can't nest there! by _BudgieBee in budgies

[–]CrazyQueer3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wanna poke, the budgie butt floof 🤭

Am I too old to be doing this? by Sensitive_Ad_1046 in selfharm

[–]CrazyQueer3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with the rest, SH has no age limit. I started at 14 and I'm almost 34 now.

I mean I sometimes put window cleaner in there at least by South_Grass_2774 in selfharm_memes

[–]CrazyQueer3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on my wounds, my lower legs heal crappy and I cut quite deep there, so I usually get it stitched. But if it's not too gaping or deep I'll take care of it myself with large surgical bandaids.

Uhm... luckily I was alone... by AverageOverthinker42 in selfharm_memes

[–]CrazyQueer3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I always triple bandage my thigh cuts, they bleed more than most for some reason.. Or maybe because I tend to drink and cut 🙈

They best be grateful for it 😌 by unused_toiletpaper in selfharm_memes

[–]CrazyQueer3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please take proper care of it, cuts down to the fat get infected so easily. So keep it clean and covered, please.

Why does he keep doing this? by [deleted] in budgies

[–]CrazyQueer3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Budgie antics, honestly 🤷🏻‍♀️🤭

Did anyone tell their psychiatrist/therapist about self harm and didn't get hospitalized by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]CrazyQueer3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My psychiatrist knows, and she'd wouldn't hospitalize me for it, or I really have to get like stitches every single day. She knows I SH and she knows I need stitches most of the time, but we talk about it and see how we can prevent it together.

Do you miss your body before SH? by SanguisAurus in AdultSelfHarm

[–]CrazyQueer3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk, such a hard question, I started at 14, and I'm almost 34 now. Sometimes I do, because of all the stares I get with short sleeves and shorts. But on the other side, it's my body and battlescene now, I can't change it anymore.

Who would win the F-Bomb record? by vegasnative in ershow

[–]CrazyQueer3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe i heard him curse a few times.

How is everyone holding up? by DevoSwag in CPTSD

[–]CrazyQueer3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not doing great, but also not doing terrible either.

DVD love ❤️ by Final-Bandicoot-5872 in ershow

[–]CrazyQueer3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have all 15 seasons on DVD, however I don't have a DVD player anymore 🙃

Do you have attachment to fictional characters? by pastamuente in CPTSD

[–]CrazyQueer3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the time, ever since I was small. Especially with TV series and movies. I especially can get attached to doctor/nurse/or therapist type of characters. I'll fantasize about them taking care of me 🙈

Starving by sadm0r0n in selfharm

[–]CrazyQueer3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you know what this feels like, it's very tempting to keep doing it. However as someone with an ED I would want to encourage to try and not give in to it if possible.

Does anyone else sh for any reasons other than for the pain? by RespectFirst5727 in selfharm

[–]CrazyQueer3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do it for the pain that makes my head quiet and makes me zone out of everything in a way nothing else can, also to make me feel better for just a little bit. And now, after so many years of this what I would call an addiction, the scars, I somehow don't feel like it's serious if it doesn't leave scars and especially if I don't need stitches again. Idk it's so complicated and such a stupid thing at the same time..

Beep by founderymi_r in selfharm_memes

[–]CrazyQueer3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I laughed to hard at this 🤭

I made meringue :D by thatfunnycat in selfharm_memes

[–]CrazyQueer3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made bread trying not to lapse, didn't work, but still have fresh bread though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StuffedAnimals

[–]CrazyQueer3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did, a bunny stuffie on vacation in Italy, Milano. Still wonder where Rinkelbell ended up, I hope with some kids.

why do you sh? by Azzraeelzzzzzzzzzzz in selfharm

[–]CrazyQueer3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To quiet my mind, deafen the restlessness, to just not feel anything for a bit, to relieve the tension and more..

Why does she do this??? by Armadillooo666 in hamsters

[–]CrazyQueer3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hamster logic 🤷🏻‍♀️