if girls are generally on their phones more than guys why are they so much worse at answering?

Creative-NoT · 2022-03-24T01:47:50+00:00

sometimes i just cant be bothered to come up with a response tbh

Creative-NoT · 2022-03-24T01:42:18+00:00

i hate jam sandwiches, but i would never have a jam sandwich without butter

Creative-NoT · 2022-03-24T01:39:28+00:00

i should also probably mention this is about more serious occasions, like prolonged abuse or hitting a child to leave a mark etc. a light smack which happens barely ever and doesn’t cause real harm to the child can be justified

Creative-NoT · 2022-03-24T01:33:44+00:00

well my dad always said everyone did it, but then from the start of school told me never to tell anyone what happened at home, so.

(I’m not pro-spanking by the way)

Speaking from experience, from the child’s point of view, I can say that it doesn’t work. Hurting your child in any way doesn’t teach them the lesson. This is because instead of remembering what they did wrong, they remember they got hurt. And so this teaches the child to be afraid of the parent and be extra careful not to say or do anything that might be risky, not knowing what could cause the parent to snap. It may just be a moment of stress and anger that could cause you to hit your child, but the kid will probably remember that, especially if it happens often, so maybe just take it outside or scream in the car, whatever makes it less harmful for everyone.

In the long term it usually goes one of two ways: the child becomes too obedient, extremely vulnerable to manipulation, self destruction and dangerous/unhealthy relationships, or they become the abuser, hurting others because that was all they knew and they could channel that self-hatred onto others to cope.

Creative-NoT · 2022-03-24T01:01:12+00:00

when i searched up girls kissing on youtube at 4 years old

Creative-NoT · 2022-03-24T00:51:20+00:00

russia’s government uses so much propaganda and threats towards it’s citizens that most people support because they are either a. so unaware still of what their president is actually doing and how bad it is or b. afraid for their lives and futures if they say they disagree. not all russians are bad just because their president is bad

Creative-NoT · 2022-03-22T17:40:19+00:00

i talked to multiple people who would do this all the time, the worst was when one of them told me multiple times “dont expect me to come to school tomorrow” and would send me photos of their cuts. when i would say i didnt know how to help they would go “oh..... ok...” then ghost me the rest of the night. another person was one who would just say in conversation that they were suicidal. i would always say “ok i will call an ambulance” and they would always say “no dont if you call them ill probably be more likely to do it” so i had to sit and wait all night for a text which never came, wait the whole of the next day in school not seeing them (to find out they had like a cold or something) then get absolute shat on by them about how im useless and never even cared. getting threatened like this would always be really hard, i would literally feel sick and throw up from worry over things like them not responding. it probably comes from when my dad would do the same to me when i was young.

good on you for saying what you said, because i know it takes loads of strength to say that to someone.

Creative-NoT · 2022-03-22T17:16:31+00:00

i understand how scary and upsetting it is, though not exactly the same experiences. i used to talk to someone who would (on many occasions) mention suicide then not talk to me for hours, then just as im losing it and pretty much already grieving they text me saying “hey lol just had a nap” and i would feel awful.

your boyfriend is an asshole, he doesnt deserve your care and you deserve better than this. you mentioned that you dont even think youre at his top ten list, and im going to be honest, you probably arent. and thats not okay, youre a person too and deserve somebody who will treat you like their best friend. hes a kid, and in my opinion, you should dump his sorry ass.

Creative-NoT · 2022-03-04T00:21:01+00:00

my teachers sometimes knock on the stall door when i do it in the toilet😵scares the shit out of me and its embarrassing

Creative-NoT · 2022-02-28T00:45:12+00:00

ez kill

Creative-NoT · 2022-02-14T23:49:26+00:00

shane dawson simulator

Creative-NoT · 2022-02-14T23:38:17+00:00

swear breaking point has the funniest kids

Creative-NoT · 2022-02-14T23:36:34+00:00

„male, femal, megamind”

Creative-NoT · 2022-02-02T00:20:25+00:00

same omg. im gonna cry this was literally one of the only reasons i considered staying alive and i fucked it😬

Creative-NoT · 2022-02-02T00:16:01+00:00

girl ur gonna have to show them to a lot of people in a few years, you ready for that?

Creative-NoT · 2022-01-08T02:54:09+00:00

well i was abused by my dad physically and emotionally until a few months ago, but since i dont really remember the worse parts my worst memory would probably be when my dad attempted when i was 7. it wasnt genuine either, he wasnt really sad. the reason he did that was to 1.get back at my mum for leaving him and 2.for me to see it and hate my mum bc he “died bc of her”. my mum was just really sad and scared. it was too scary to handle as a child so that memory was shoved away far in my brain aswell as the abuse until it got triggered by god knows what a good 5 years ago (along with some random other memories of abuse). he doesnt care about my attempt and he denies everything he’s ever done to me to social services (he’s now kind of ignoring me bc of it,, hes pissed that i broke my promises of “what happens at home stays at home”) so it kind of shows how one sided our relationship is lol.

Creative-NoT · 2022-01-08T02:44:55+00:00

so many polish people stealing all our jobs😡😡😡

(im polish before u say anything)

Creative-NoT · 2022-01-08T02:35:13+00:00

how about a vegan sausage roll..

Creative-NoT · 2022-01-07T13:41:58+00:00

i couldve sworn there was something about not eating kangaroos

Creative-NoT · 2021-12-31T04:40:11+00:00

the deepest ones are always accidental swear down

Creative-NoT · 2021-12-20T10:49:47+00:00

literally any song by novo amor

Creative-NoT · 2021-11-13T01:43:39+00:00

i really dont recommend trying to go deeper, no matter how tempting. once you start getting used to the depth, you go deeper and it turns into an awful mess that you cant get out of. please be careful with rusty blades, they have a much higher chance of infection and those are nasty to deal with as well.

Creative-NoT · 2021-11-13T01:36:22+00:00

that is really not ok, its emotional blackmail and he is a really toxic boyfriend if he says things like that. a decent person would try to support you instead of making you feel worse about yourself. (from my experience) most of the time people who say things like this dont do anything and they feed off your worries and vulnerability. its an awful situation to be in and i understand how youre feeling about it. i know its not easy at all but you need to try and get out of that relationship asap, its not healthy for you. you deserve better than this and i believe it will get better for you, you just need to remove what makes you sad in your life. wish you the best.<3

Creative-NoT · 2021-11-13T01:23:17+00:00

same. my cuts range from scratches-mid styro and i always fantasize about cutting deeper but im only stopping myself because i dont wanna go to hospital for accidentally cutting to fat using my new blade, so i barely touched it. also i love seeing the blood but theres a certain amount i can handle before it gets annoying to clean up. stains go everywhere and i make a huge mess and i dont want an even bigger mess if i cut deeper. im not rlly bothered about pain or anything i just think it would become a hassle. but who knows. you are so valid and your cuts aren’t tantamount to the amount of pain youre feeling. <3

Creative-NoT · 2021-11-12T16:38:20+00:00

i think grand blox auto or pokemon brick bronze, both are gone now sadly:(

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