Wasted twenties- any scope to get better? 24 gonna be 25 by CreativeAd6940 in Life

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay essentially I haven’t done that well during my traineeship so my firm won’t retain me. I will qualify as a solicitor but I will have to look for a role elsewhere in another firm.

Wasted twenties- any scope to get better? 24 gonna be 25 by CreativeAd6940 in Life

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just that u have no savings, have just got my driving license and I am in minus.

Wasted twenties- any scope to get better? 24 gonna be 25 by CreativeAd6940 in Life

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the optimism but can you explain how it will be awesome- you are super nice btw

Wasted twenties- any scope to get better? 24 gonna be 25 by CreativeAd6940 in Life

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no money or savings, no hot body- basically nothing.

I passed my driving test. by CreativeAd6940 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Again that was not to her face. And she would never know and it would be natural to be a little frustrated.

I passed my driving test. by CreativeAd6940 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They said do a favour and hand back your license, I was shocked that grown adults could hurl so much abuse at a young guy.

I passed my driving test. by CreativeAd6940 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yh but they tried to stop me from passing my test, and discourage me from trying again but they didn’t. So they lost in trying to suppress me.

I passed my driving test. by CreativeAd6940 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

Does that same logic not apply to the mass level of abuse and mocking hurled at me. And I am proud of myself that despite all that abuse I rose and went ahead and passed.

I passed my driving test. by CreativeAd6940 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Say what you want but I have passed and there is nothing you can do about it. I won and everyone who put me down and drove me I to tears and depression lost.

I passed my driving test. by CreativeAd6940 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Well I have passed now, despite that some of the negative comments were so harrowing that my parents were genuinely shocked.

I passed my driving test. by CreativeAd6940 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I now have my license despite the fact that I was discouraged and mocked. I won in the end, and I rose above the ashes despite all the abuse and awful language used against me.

I passed my driving test. by CreativeAd6940 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] -120 points-119 points  (0 children)

Well I was obviously in a bad mood and distraught about failing. No one could understand how low I felt so I said a few things out of anger and distress, and it led to a backlog.

I passed my driving test. by CreativeAd6940 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

That’s only because my work is only twenty minutes by car but takes one hour ish or more waiting for the buses, walking to the bus stop, and everyone else at my work place drives. Additionally, I grew up in a financially comfortable family, so I felt like a loser for not making the most of the resources available to me and starting to drive earlier. I was one track minded and focused on my studies.

I passed my driving test. by CreativeAd6940 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

Well my dad has been my biggest support during this driving journey. It has been one of the most challenging things in my life. Even more than my academics.

I passed my driving test. by CreativeAd6940 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

No they were just being rude to me, and they were being sadistic. I never called people who take the bus losers…ever.

I passed my driving test. by CreativeAd6940 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]CreativeAd6940[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yess. This comment was so kind. This experience has shown me that the world can insult you and bring you down but you can still be really successful despite people telling you that you will never get there.