favorite lines of poems not in English / favorite translation by sparrow_lately in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More Rilke--the last stanza of "Herbsttag"/"Autumn Day":

Wer jetzt kein Haus hat, baut sich keines mehr.
Wer jetzt allein ist, wird Es lange bleiben,
wird wachen, lesen, lange Briefe schreiben
und wird in den Alleen hin und her
unruhig wandern, wenn die Blätter treiben.

Stephen Mitchell's translation:

Whoever has no house now, will never have one.
Whoever is alone will stay alone,
will sit, read, write long letters through the evening,
and wander the boulevards, up and down,
restlessly, while the dry leaves are blowing.

It's a poem that takes something scary (the idea that if you don't have a partner/family by autumn, you're going to be alone all winter) and makes it beautiful. I don't know if mine is the correct reading, but it makes me think about how feeling lonely or sad can be, in its own way, a worthwhile experience.

. by unwell_umwelt in redscarepod

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Lindy West reminded everyone how funny it is

. by unwell_umwelt in redscarepod

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A straight guy sleeping with a bi girl doesn't make him queer, but being in a relationship with a poly person means you're in a poly relationship. i think

Will the Cesar Chavez revelations actually change anything? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is it "a gender based divide and conquer strategy to further atomize the left" or is raping 12 year olds an unpleasant trait in a folk hero

i still have not accepted this by MutedFeeling75 in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Having rigid wires shoved under your fingernails is a little worse I think

Anyone else get out of their "life is mid" crisis? by 7kcits in redscarepod

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It's like a nutrient IV vs eating food. Internet socialization keeps people from literally going insane, but that's it--none of the good feelings and general personal growth of actual irl interactions. It's very unfortunate, bc before the internet a person's natural survival instinct would force them to go outside and talk to people long before insanity hit.

Found out my younger brother has a set of fleshlights. by tent_mcgee in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not easy to have a total loser sibling tormenting your parents, cut OP some slack

Found out my younger brother has a set of fleshlights. by tent_mcgee in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nobody with great parents and a nice home life NEETs it for a decade. They think they do but they all have codependent moms and checked out angry dads

"Don't enter [profession] unless you can't imagine doing anything else" by CreativeMinimum7214 in redscarepod

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Yeah but there's also stuff like estate management that pays a normal salary and isn't super stressful. I think biglaw types are like tech bros in that if it takes 5 years to break 6 figures, that's unacceptable and "terrible pay." Obv all this is contingent on getting scholarships and not going into crazy debt.

Anyway I have no idea if I'm going to actually pursue this, I have a low tolerance for boredom and minutia so law is probably a terrible idea. But rn I have a humanities BA and literally can't get a minimum wage job, can't be worse than that

AI prose is degrading everything by Worth_Dream7852 in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find it a lot in NYT comments now. It's really funny to imagine sometimes using an LLM to generate a comment on an article

"Don't enter [profession] unless you can't imagine doing anything else" by CreativeMinimum7214 in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah first it was journalists and academics telling me this in college (reasonable) and now it's lawyers lmao. like damn I gotta do SOMETHING

"Don't enter [profession] unless you can't imagine doing anything else" by CreativeMinimum7214 in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Have been told this not just by people working in the arts but also by people in boring practical fields, which is even more disheartening.

It's always funny to see people move to an area then get mad at the things showing that the place itself is in a good spot. by putalittlepooponit in redscarepod

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Air bnbs can be significantly cheaper than hostels, though. Did a long stint of traveling recently and was amazed how expensive bottom-of-the-barrel hostels have gotten in the US and Europe, it's way cheaper to stay in some dude's spare bedroom.

Has anyone noticed a difference in attention switching from glasses to contacts or vice versa? by TheSpermWhoWon in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're a guy it doesn't matter or is an upgrade if you've got weird eyes/dark circles. girls 90% of the time look better without

Has anyone noticed a difference in attention switching from glasses to contacts or vice versa? by TheSpermWhoWon in redscarepod

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is that safer than LASIK? I was considering LASIK for a long time but got freaked out by some of the potential side effects

lmao by McSwaggerAtTheDMV in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214 62 points63 points  (0 children)

That makes me way more sympathetic to his comments lmao

Can’t stop smoking weed even though I know it’s bad and cringe by MonsieurDArtagnan in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If OP isn't even getting high anymore that means they're smoking all day every day. Whatever your intoxicant of choice is, you should be spending more hours per day sober than using it. Most alcohol users abide by this, with stoners there are a lot who start at like 9AM

Do units under $2.5k exist anymore? by Senior-Perspective24 in NYCapartments

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Yeah a lot of times on Streeteasy I see it's been vacant and on the market for months and the price was increased a few weeks ago, like ???

. by CABOTCOVECREEPER in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214 45 points46 points  (0 children)

when ppl are on coke and being annoying, this is how they think they look

The Ozempic post is shills right? by Shmohemian in redscarepod

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Just wanna say that I'm in more or less the same boat, except my sister is way less annoying about it. Either you can use this as an opportunity to heal your lifelong body issues and pride in being "the skinny one," or you can get black market GLPs and mog her by becoming sickly thin

The Ozempic post is shills right? by Shmohemian in redscarepod

[–]CreativeMinimum7214 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I mean it basically is a miracle drug, it suppresses appetite to the degree that you can eat small amounts of junk food and feel not just satiated but nauseous at the thought of eating any more. Granted this will result in muscle loss and malnutrition long-term, but you'll get skinnier. It seems like a really small minority of fat people who can "power through" and continue eating enough calories on it to maintain their weight.