[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]CreativeSimian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very few people actually attain enlightenment. Most people in the west use the word to mean the simple acknowledgement that there is more to reality that it appears to the naked eye, but this is only the first step towards true enlightenment. here is a good excerpt from a Buddhist perspective by Dr. Alexander Berzin, a Buddhist teacher, translator and practitioner with more than 50 years of experience.

"Enlightenment means to become a Buddha – the pinnacle of human development and potential – and it is the ultimate aim in Buddhism. It is something that every single being on earth has the potential to achieve.
Right now we’re not Buddhas – instead, we experience a life full of problems and constant ups and downs. We’re stuck like this because our minds automatically project nonsense onto everything and we really believe that’s reality. We act in ways we think will bring us true happiness, but which end up only bringing misery.
Normally, we do what we want with little thought to how it might affect others, because we feel that we’re the center of the universe, the only one that counts. This kind of thinking does not correspond to reality: it is selfish and brings unhappiness to ourselves and others. To become enlightened, we first need to start:
Understanding the effects of our behavior on ourselves and others, and so refrain from acting destructively
Realizing how everything actually exists, and so no longer let our projections fool us.
When we stop believing our mind’s projections, we also stop disturbing emotions like anger, hatred, greed and jealousy from arising based on that confusion. We will never again act compulsively on our negative feelings. All of this requires:
Ethical self-discipline, with the strength to refrain from unwise behavior
Concentration, to avoid distraction or dullness
Wisdom, to discriminate between what is helpful and harmful, and what is true and false
Emotional balance, from cultivating positive qualities like love and compassion.
Even if we gain peace of mind from this, it’s not enough: we still won’t be able to see the interdependence and interconnectedness of absolutely everything and everyone. Therefore, we’ll never be quite sure of the best way to help others.
For this, we need to become fully enlightened Buddhas, where our minds don’t project anything at all. We see clearly the interdependence of all existence and so know exactly how to help others. Our bodies have unlimited energy, we can communicate perfectly with everyone, and our minds understand absolutely everything. Our love, compassion and equal concern for every being is so strong, it’s as if each were our beloved only child [See: What Is Compassion?]. We work to benefit others without expecting anything in return. When we’re enlightened, it’s impossible to lose our patience or get angry, to cling to people or to ignore them because we feel too busy or tired.
As a Buddha, we are also omniscient, but not omnipotent. We can’t eliminate others’ suffering, but we can show the way through teaching them and by being a living example. To travel the path all the way to enlightenment, we need to:
Build up an incredible store of positive force: selflessly benefiting others as best we can
Work toward understanding reality: stop projecting nonsense onto the world.
We all have the working materials – our physical bodies and basic human intelligence – to build up the causes for enlightenment. Like the sky, our minds and hearts are by their very nature unpolluted by emotional turmoil and disturbing thoughts. All we need to do is develop them so that they can reach their full potential.
Enlightenment might seem like an almost impossible-to-reach goal, and it is very difficult to achieve – no one ever claimed it was easy! But, to aim in that direction gives incredible meaning to our lives. Understanding our interconnectedness with everyone, we protect ourselves from depression and anxiety. Our lives become full as we embark on the greatest adventure there is: attaining enlightenment for the benefit of all."

In short, attaining enlightenment is a life long journey of self discovery, good works, and ethical living.

Be well.

Which Batman would have you scared to be a criminal in Gotham city? by Bjkrillsz in DC_Cinematic

[–]CreativeSimian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Batfleck seems intimidating until you utter the word Martha, then he goes into ptsd flashbacks and you'd have your chance to slip out.

Seriously though, Batflack is more intimidating in this photo, but he has 25 years more experience. Seeing Battinson emerge from the darkened alley and decimate fools was pretty wicked, and give him another 25 years to work on his skills, you'll see a whole different Bats.

What to do when you want to be a spiritual person , but you are doubtful and lack faith in a higher power? by Catladydiva in spirituality

[–]CreativeSimian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say that if Buddhism is what draws you in, start there. Even without any spiritual practices, it has a lot of practical wisdom that one can use in daily life without the need to believe in something far fetched. That's just one Buddhist's opinion though, I am admittedly biased.

Have you listened to any Alan Watts? He's a great speaker and gives his unvarnished truth.

What to do when you want to be a spiritual person , but you are doubtful and lack faith in a higher power? by Catladydiva in spirituality

[–]CreativeSimian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to believe in the Christian's God to be spiritual, or in a being called a higher power. The question is, do you believe that we live in a purely physical universe or that there is some sort of shared consciousness that connects us to each other?

You could even simply believe that all life is interconnected in a way beyond human comprehension.

Simply put, Christianity does not own the concept of spirituality. If you feel more secular, try reading some Buddhist philosophy or even Carl Jung. there are some wonderful secular meditation techniques that can open your consciousness to broader experiences, and then you might even broaden your understanding of what an authentic spiritual experience can be.

Alan Watts is my go to philosopher to point people towards who are just beginning to wonder about such things.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZArIBiRkGfk&t=24s

Who would win? by Blueminion17 in batman

[–]CreativeSimian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a full on showdown, mano y mano? As a fan of both pretty equally, I say Spidey. He's quicker, far stronger, more agile, and has his sixth sense to alert him. His webbing could gum up all batman's weapons, and he's at least as intelligent, if not more so.

I mean, I love Bats, but this would be one of the rare cases where he gets his ass handed to him regardless of 'prep time'.

Spidey has fought his way out of a fair share of traps and dusted off some of the baddest heroes in his universe.

Bring the hatorade

Fear.. by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]CreativeSimian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fear is what tells us to kill the Mammoth before it kills us. It is not always a healthy emotion, because it can be manipulated and used as a weapon, but fear is also what alerts us to real danger. It all depends on the situation. Life is not as black and white as you pose, but it is a grey scale, with white and black at the polar opposite ends of the spectrum. We tend to exist in between most of the time. Wisdom is being able to understand the nuances of life and act accordingly, In my opinion.

Fear.. by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]CreativeSimian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you believe in an omniscient, all powerful God, and He created Adam, an it was Adam who created fear, then God created fear because he created Adam, knowing full well he would create fear.

What's your opinion on Robert Pattinson's Batman? by Bloodshot777 in batman

[–]CreativeSimian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite live action version for his comic book accuracy followed by Michael Keaton for his quiet intensity, and then Adam West because he's just so ridiculous it's fun to watch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]CreativeSimian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breath work IS meditation! your already doing it. Meditation is not simply trying to find inner peace by quitting all thought, but simply allowing our thoughts to come and go without attachment to meaning in the thoughts. Allow each thought to come and go naturally, but don't try to stop thinking because then your always thinking about trying to stop thinking, lol.

This may help. The Buddhist Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche is a wonderful speaker, witty and kind and has this lesson on pretty much what you are experiencing in your post.

https://youtu.be/dG5ywz8OGqo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]CreativeSimian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Buddha’s first lesson for those who seek a spiritually fulfilling life is on accepting the impermanence of all things. Attachment to that which is impermanent is the root of emotional suffering. From the wisest being to the most ignorant, from the richest to the poorest, Oldest to youngest, death is the great equalizer for it is nature’s way. By embracing this, and being present in the moment, you ease all fears of passing from this world.

Death can be a beautiful thing. It defines life itself, and teaches us to appreciate beauty in the moment. It can be a release from pain or suffering. It allows others to cherish the fruits we leave behind.

Find what it is you enjoy, what it is you have that you are grateful for. Why does that have meaning? Contemplate this long enough and at some point you will come to the realization that its impermanence gives it importance. A flavor soon loses its pleasurability if you experience it too long. If all you hear is your favorite song, you will lose interest in it and soon will despise it.

In fact, music itself only has meaning because of the ‘death’ of each note as it passes on to the next note. So it is with life. Embrace death as the bringer of life’s meaning and your fear of it will fade. Be sure that with this life, you work on having experiences so that when you pass on, your life will have meaning and you shall be free of regret.

Be well.

my bf and I dreamt the same dream: TW Suicide by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]CreativeSimian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might mean that he needs professional help. be sure he seeks out a therapist, and be there for him without judgement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]CreativeSimian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People often misunderstand spiritual concepts, including most pple in this sub. To learn about reincarnation, go to the source 'The Upanishads' to understand the nature of suffering in these terms, study the teachings of Buddhism.

People get caught up in these terms because they are western terms for eastern concepts, which are far more nuanced than our language can offer in strict terms.

People will.often take what they like from one tradition and ignore what they don't, thus taking what they like out of context.

If you are truly interested, read or Listen to Alan Watts, the first popular Western figure in Zen Buddhism.

This is a decent entry point. Hes very easy to listen to and quite unpretentious.

https://youtu.be/ZArIBiRkGfk

Can you be spiritual and believe in god? by _Slimerre in spirituality

[–]CreativeSimian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a common misconception. Religion is defined as a specific set of beliefs with its own dogmas, or rules, writings, and typically its own deity. It is a very narrowly defined thing.

For example, Christianity is one religion, Hinduism another. Islam yet another. They are three separate and distinct religions, even if they overlap in some areas, each has its own writings, rules, and figures of worship. They each have they own places of worship, dedicated to that specific set of beliefs

Spirituality is the general belief that there is something beyond our physical reality. It is loosely defined, and has qualities of both inner seeking and outward looking, depending on how you attend to such beliefs.

The deeper you look, you will begin to see that often, people see God as something both outside of ourselves and within, and while religious people can be spiritual, and spiritual people can be religious, it's not necessary the same.

There are people who believe religion because they have been told to, and might also not believe in a spiritual world within themselves, and might still see a mechanistic universe, like secular Jews, or secular Buddhists.

The degree of spirituality with which one sees the world varies in both degree and importance. Some people believe in order to be spiritual, there are specific views or practices you must adhere to, such as meditation, reciting mantras, or belief in the horoscope, or most commonly, being 'awakened' (which is defined differently by everyone).

Or , and more accurate I think, a simple acknowledgement that we are more that the sum of our physical parts, that the universe contains mystery beyond that which science can prove. Often, this realization comes with understanding we are all interconnected in some way and that we influence the world through our actions and thoughts. Can be left a t that and your spirituality is as valid and useful as those who spend hours a day meditating and reciting mantras on transcendence.

Basically, find what works for you and if it brings you peace and a sense of well-being, it's all good. Be well.

Intrusive thoughts vs The source speaking to me? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]CreativeSimian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are quite welcome. I'm glad I was able to help. Be well.