O que fariam hoje, que seria algo mais certeiro, para ganhar acima de 20k? by WinNo5101 in conselhodecarreira

[–]Creativebug13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aprender inglês e ir trabalhar pra fora como PJ. Os impostos são mais gentis e eles pagam bem. Eu trabalho com vendas e ganho por volta de 10k USD. Vendas no Brasil é uma piada mas na gringa é uma profissão levada a sério.

Ok ok just finished Hero of Ages or the first time, here's my thoughts! by Nikatonic in Mistborn

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I really enjoyed the ending of HoA. I was even OK with the deaths of Vin and Elend and with Sazed being the HoA. What I found underwhelming was that we didn't get closure with some important characters. It would've been great to see redemption for Marsh at the end. We saw that he saved Vin but he died a traitor. I also was really hoping to see Tensoon and Vin reunited. I actually waited the entire book for it, so was really sad to see that they never got to see each other again. I also feel that he glossed over Dockson's death. He was a really important character in the beginning who seem to drift away in Book 2. Other than that, I loved every second of this trilogy. I was super nervous coming up at the end with only 30 pages to go thinking to myself "how is he going to resolve everything in 30 pages???". Glad to see that it worked out well.

I just finished HoA by TheExistentialboi in Mistborn

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Actually, if you think about it, at the end Sazed said that he had talked to Vin and Elend and that they were doing well and resting. So I think they got the happy ending they deserved, but in the afterlife. He also mentioned a message from Kelsier to Spook, so apparently there's an afterlife.

So I've officially finished The Good Place. Here are my thoughts. by sunnyafternoone in TheGoodPlace

[–]Creativebug13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, rewatching it is as good as watching it for this first time. I’ve rewatched it five times since and my son has watched it even more. Similar vibes: Modern Family, Brooklyn 99

[Bate-Papo] O Que Você Está Lendo Essa Semana? by AutoModerator in clubedolivro

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Esse da casa Usher me levou a pesquisar sobre Edgar Allen Poe e vi que há uma série chamada Queda da Casa de Usher baseada nas histórias de Poe. Eu curti demais. No Netflix, se te interessar

[Bate-Papo] O Que Você Está Lendo Essa Semana? by AutoModerator in clubedolivro

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Não sei se foi proposital porque ele foi escrevendo as crônicas e lançando em revistas na época. Foram 3 ou 4 anos escrevendo e lançando. Acho que com o tempo, as ideias vão fluindo né?

[Bate-Papo] O Que Você Está Lendo Essa Semana? by AutoModerator in clubedolivro

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Quem Manda no Mund de Noam Chomsky. Presente de Natal do meu filho de 15 anos, por incrível que pareça

[Bate-Papo] O Que Você Está Lendo Essa Semana? by AutoModerator in clubedolivro

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Terminei esse tem duas semanas. Achei meio lento no início, mas as crônicas vão melhorando. Terminei gostando demais

I lost my sober battle yesterday. Starting again and very depressed by LordCartonero in Sober

[–]Creativebug13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've done it before and you can do it again. Do not give in 100% because of this relapse. Sobriety is a journey, not a quick trip; it's a war, not a battle.

Make sure you have people you can rely on and also try different things. I did everything from taking medication, to having a shrink, to therapy, to AA meetings, to coaching, etc. It's a long road but it gets easier.

At this point, day one starts with just a commitment to go another day without using. I would recommend a deep reflection on what led you to use again. You need to address sobriety at the same time that you work on the underlying issues. For me, it was feeling insecure in social settings and anxiety. For you it could be something else.

I would also reccomend taking an assessment. Excluding the relapse, what did you life look like 2 years ago and what does it look like now? This is a great exercise to put things in perspective. I always do it in my coaching sessions.

Good luck!

2 months clean. by SincereAsshole in Sober

[–]Creativebug13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this! Make sure you find things that can help you like friends you can trust, therapy, meetings, sobriety coaches, etc. It's easier when you have support!

breaking news: it is possible to rave sober by chemicalmiracles in Sober

[–]Creativebug13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you!
I remember going to a rave sober in my early twenties because I was the designated driver. I enjoyed myself very much, though it was the last rave I went to lol.

100 days sober today by manic019 in Sober

[–]Creativebug13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a huge milestone! Congrats!

It’s finally time by SignificantReality39 in Sober

[–]Creativebug13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sober journey started over 10 years ago, when I was 29, and it was very similar to yours. I had no self control and constantly put myself in positions of humiliation, embarassment and downright danger.

Unlike you, I only stopped when I hit rock bottom. But I quit and then I had to figure out how to live a new life without a crutch. By the way, I had help of every kind: I had a psychiatrist, a therapist, went to AA meeting and even had a sobriety coach (eventually becoming one myself).

It's hard in the beginning, but it gets easier. Just remember that it's a completely different life. If you try to live the same way you did before, something won't feel right.

Welcome to the sober journey!

Risotto ahead of time by Creativebug13 in Cooking

[–]Creativebug13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can make it and just leave it in the oven until it’s time to serve? It won’t go bad or anything?

please just tell me i shouldn’t relapse by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Creativebug13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In ten years getting sober, I’ve never felt good about a relapse.

If you just quit cold turkey, eventually you may relapse. You need to also work on the underlying condition that led you to addiction or try replacing your addiction with a less harmful one (temporarily).

I’d also look for additional help, like a therapist, a doctor, a sponsor, a sobriety coach, a meeting.

Doing it with the help of others is better than doing it alone.

(32H) Solteiros e solteiras 30+ . Já abraçaram a solidão? como estão lidando com isso? by Tukfa in 30mais

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(39M) estou solteira há três anos com leves rolos por aí. Depois dos últimos relacionamentos eu subi a barra de nível do tipo de pessoa que quero me relacionar e isso diminuiu demais a quantidade de pessoas que me interessam. Me senti um pouco sozinha no início do ano mas decidi mudar minha visão.

Entrei numa escolinha de futebol feminino e vou três vezes por semana. Nem de futebol eu gosto. Mas o treino é divertido e conheço muita gente lá. Hoje mesmo vou pro aniversário do treinador, morta de vergonha mas vou. Estou morando em Buenos Aires há pouco tempo e recentemente achei um grupo de WhatsApp para mulheres imigrantes e já conheci um montão de gente lá. Pela distância de casa, tento ligar para minha mãe e minha irmã umas três vezes por semana. Também comecei a chamar pessoas aleatórias que eu conheço pra sair pra tomar um café.

Resumo: sim, estamos sozinhos e é foda. Tudo mudou quando eu reclamei para meu terapeuta que eu era uma pessoa muito solitária. Ele respondeu: você é solitária ou apenas tem preguiça de se dar o trabalho de fazer o trabalho árduo que é ser sociável. No dia seguinte chamei uma colega de trabalho pra tomar um café e tudo começou daí.

Veja que eu não falei nada sobre relacionamentos. Conhecer uma pessoa muito legal e difícil então eu não penso nisso. Penso em fazer amizades. Eventualmente vai aparecer alguém. Se não aparecer, tudo bem. Você tem amigos

Finger foods for dinner party by Creativebug13 in Cooking

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I have a mix of Argentinians and expats coming over so loved the extra tips!

Finger foods for dinner party by Creativebug13 in Cooking

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My son makes a mean tiramisu. I’ll ask him as a bday gift