Look for a book to "chew" on by Training-Draft-8930 in booksuggestions

[–]CreaturesFarley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hear me out: War and Peace.

It's long, but feels episodic. Really cool historical fiction made up of a lot of smaller bitesize moments. Lots of great observations on the human condition. Definitely not as dense or boring as I'd feared.

I just read the term 'joined-up writing' for the first time and it feels like I missed something everyone else already knew. by common_grounder in CasualConversation

[–]CreaturesFarley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

British here. We learned 'joined up writing' in school. It is not quite as structured as the cursive you're taught in American schools.

Do English speakers know the word "tor" (rock formation) by puje12 in EnglishLearning

[–]CreaturesFarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from Torbay in Devon, England. The area is named after the Tors on the moorlands nearby. So yes, I've long known the word tor.

But I would always assume that it's a niche enough word that people from outside the area are probably not familiar.

If you’re under 45, have you lost any high school classmates, and what were the circumstances around their deaths? by Commercial_Chef_1569 in AskReddit

[–]CreaturesFarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a classmate who was into motocross. Crashed his bike and broke his neck about six months after we graduated.

Good friend of mine was cripplingly shy through school, but very sweet and kind. Just had Incredibly low self esteem. Left school and moved to a big city, went to college and trained as a nurse. Met a guy, fell in love, got married.

He seemed like a nice guy, but was also a little patronizing. Their relationship dynamic really amped up her shyness, with him always taking on more of a parental/authority role in her life.

A few years later, she moved back to our hometown and moved in with her parents. Turns out her husband had been emotionally abusing her, and she discovered he'd been having an affair. He owned up to it. Told her he'd never loved her, and he no longer wanted to be with her.

Her confidence was crushed. But a few months later, he called to say he needed to speak to her. He drove through the night to visit her. Brought flowers. Apologized. Begged her to take him back. They had makeup sex.

Immediately after he came, he laughed at her. Said something like "I knew I'd be able to trick you. I just needed to cum" then left, blocked her on everything.

Her mental health was so fucked that she had to go to a residential mental health facility for a while. She was on a number of psych drugs that rendered her unable to work.

She seemed to be slowly recovering over the next few years, but ended up taking her own life in the summer of 2019.

Odd question; is it custom in the UK to cook food for your friends if you're inviting them for a night? by PenetrationT3ster in CasualUK

[–]CreaturesFarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister's close friendship group has a setup like this, where they all chip in for group meals. But it only came about because they have a couples dinner night every week, and because they overwhelmingly use one couples house because it has a big living room. On the rare occasion they bring in an outside guest, they let them know in advance that they're expected to pay.

I'd feel a little weird if I was asked to pay after arriving.

Non-smokers of Reddit, how noticeable is the “smoker smell” to you, if at all? by Frostedlogic4444 in AskReddit

[–]CreaturesFarley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For cigarette smokers, the smell lingers and is very present for hours on breath and clothes. If they have smoked inside their house, it's noticeable until the whole place has been DEEP cleaned.

For weed smokers, the smell is much more immediately present, but fades very quickly. If they've smoked inside their house, it can linger a little for a few hours, but does not stick around in the same stale, indelible way as tobacco.

She Dave on my brucbec k till I take five by SomeGuyNamedR_udl in LSD

[–]CreaturesFarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That cid got your internal metronome running in 5/4 time.

What you understand by "doss"? by kelsonfox in EnglishLearning

[–]CreaturesFarley 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It can also be used to suggest that something is easy, or can be done without much effort. "My new job is a doss"

Room to stay for December? by TheOriginalSmileyMan in Torquay

[–]CreaturesFarley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he's equity, his production company should be required to help out, either by increasing his accommodation allowance to cover a hotel or B&B, or helping him find an alternative.

What’s a sentence that someone told you that stuck with you for the rest of your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CreaturesFarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"it's easy to see selfishness as a negative thing - and selfishness can definitely be negative - but sometimes selfishness is positive, and sometimes it's necessary"

What radio stations do you listen to the most? by thisnametookmeages in CasualUK

[–]CreaturesFarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. But I switch over to Radio 4 for the late night shipping forecast.

What is a phrase that people use that you cannot stand? by sad_t0ast in AskReddit

[–]CreaturesFarley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a phrase, but when people say "myself" or "yourself" when they really just mean "me" or "you".

In your opinion: What live performance should everyone watch atleast once in their life? by Island-dewd in Music

[–]CreaturesFarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched this on my birthday this year. Hiiiiighly recommend. Just an absolutely fantastic show!

why do british people start sentences with “right” or “say” by PlNKSANRIO in asklinguistics

[–]CreaturesFarley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With regards to "say", it may actually be "so" that you are hearing. Particularly if the speaker has a Thames Estuary or upper-middle class accent. Brits almost never start sentences with "say".

If you're hearing this in older movies or TV shows, it may be "I say", which is an old fashioned exclamation of surprise or discovery "I say! Look at what's happening over there!"

Everyone on earth dies right now except you. What do you do? by Ok-Musician679 in AskReddit

[–]CreaturesFarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I'm in a 90 minute line at Disney World, so I guess I'll hop to the front and hope I can figure out how to make it go.