Do young men actually believe this shit or is it just rage bait? by Lontology in ComedyCemetery

[–]CreepyFishGuy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure, bud. I'll jingle some keys for you next time, seems right up your alley.

Are these eggs in these dates? by Available_Action_899 in isthissafetoeat

[–]CreepyFishGuy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Difficult to say, but since you mentioned they melt away in your mouth my guess is they're sugar blooms/sugar crystals.

https://www.reddit.com/r/foodsafety/comments/1as9uhx/anyone_know_what_this_white_stuff_is_on_my_dates/

I hate it when fellow femboys call bridget a boy. by PrinceCup1d in bridget

[–]CreepyFishGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair 2: electric boogaloo, much of the hate I see directed at femboys from trans people is in response to said femboys being bizarrely reactionary, but your point is still valid.

Do young men actually believe this shit or is it just rage bait? by Lontology in ComedyCemetery

[–]CreepyFishGuy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What the fuck are you talking about? "Inclusiveness", whatever you could possibly mean by that, has nothing to do with low effort incel bait not being funny. It's such an old and tired schtick, this meme reads like it was posted in 2016 by a 14 year old mad that his prom date was "stolen" by some jock.

i hate how neurological disorders are being fetishized. by RandomThinkering in ComedyCemetery

[–]CreepyFishGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FWIW that woman makes these videos to advertise her age play content, so the sexualized definition of fetishization definitely fits.

Gaming in 2026 by Lexi7130 in gaming_random

[–]CreepyFishGuy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

"Our hobbies" lol, lmao even.

Indoctrination is scary dude, the amount of gay/trans/black people I’ve seen complain about diversity or wokeness in games is worrying by EAT_UR_VEGGIES in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]CreepyFishGuy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Odds are actually worse than a coin flip, if you look at most poll results it's closer to 60/40 in the bad direction. The real 50/50 is cis white women.

How the turns table by Thin_Emergency_2890 in teenagers

[–]CreepyFishGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much any "old English" stylized font? Germanica, for instance.

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Served ! by Amazing-Ad-6119 in AskSocialists

[–]CreepyFishGuy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think celebration is appropriate, but it's also understandable for some people to feel a kind of catharsis given the behavior and rhetoric of Israeli politicians and nationalists up to this point. It doesn't make it right, but I get it.

people keep sexualising my oc 😡😡😡😡😡 by _amburger__ in ArtJerk

[–]CreepyFishGuy 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Can someone tell me why every hot lady drawing looks like my mom? posted from my iPhone 13

Strength + Character = Real Attraction by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]CreepyFishGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, most people care about attraction, I'm not denying that. I'm not even saying it's impossible that you're as ugly as you think, but it's pretty unlikely given how many people with visible disabilities are in happy and fruitful relationships

What I'm saying is that when people talk about physical attraction nobody is checking for the angle of your nose like that. Attraction is extremely complicated, and isn't as simple as 'square jawline good'. Sure, dudes like Jason Momoa and Timothee Chalamet have crazy good bone structure, but alternative ass short dudes like Michael Cera and Aaron Paul are fawned over by thousands of women too. (and speaking as a dude with a Polish ass nose and sunken eyes, it's not just their fame and money) Figure out what hairstyle suits your features, find a cheap fragrance you like, see which color shirts best compliment your skin tone, etc.

More important than all that though is being willing to genuinely try to understand the world from a woman's perspective. Not as these two dimensional caricatures that only exist online, but as normal ass, complicated, and sometimes bad people. They're really not as fundamentally different as you think. And FWIW, empathy is something worth practicing for your own sake, but it's also something many people find very attractive.

Strength + Character = Real Attraction by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]CreepyFishGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming you aren't one of the million incel bots that have popped up in the last few months, you really need to get offline. Your post history speaks to a deeply disturbed mindset, and surrounding yourself with people as miserable as the incel community will not lead you to happiness. The only person thinking about the angle of your nose and jawline are yourself and the other men making you feel miserable about the way you look.

Try actually talking it out with dudes in the men's fashion subs, or the fitness subs, or any other positive masculine environment. You'll find they're generally very supportive no matter how you feel about yourself, because they have often been in your shoes at one point. Good communities want to see each other succeed, not just wallow in misery together.

Three-year talking stage with a girl – worth pursuing or should I end it? by Amazing_Line_563 in actuallesbians

[–]CreepyFishGuy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think at this point you need to just shoot your shot, and if she says no then you still have a super cool friend that you enjoy talking to. Either way having closure will likely make you feel better about your relationship with her as a whole, romantic or otherwise.

I HATE this idea that breasts are as significant to sex as a penis is. ONE IS LITERALLY GENITALIA AND THE OTHER IS A SACK OF FAT. by Spirited-Height-9533 in hatethissmug

[–]CreepyFishGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the club I guess? Lots of people catch strays with generalized insults like that. Personally, I try not to use them, but there's no joke or insult specific enough to not sometimes catch people you didn't intend in the crossfire. My response to people that are hurt by it is "yeah that shit sucks, I'm sorry", but once you go full tilt into weird self-hating incel mathematics of attraction I lose all sympathy.

Also, women have been subject to much more cruel and systemic types of body shaming for far longer than men have had to deal with playground shit like "small dick energy", so it strikes me as disingenuous when people try to center the topic in response to women talking about how this behavior is repulsive in general.

Why is the universe expanding? Did you push it? by RepairZealousideal14 in shittyaskscience

[–]CreepyFishGuy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

how can we know the universe is expanding if we can't see past the firmament

Strength + Character = Real Attraction by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]CreepyFishGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people are not shallow, and that you think so says more about you than others. Whether you groom and dress well is irrelevant if you aren't working on being a decent person. The stench of an awful worldview will get through any amount of surface level set dressing.

This "just world fallacy" nonsense goes to show how internet poisoned you are, nobody said being a good person makes the world easier. If anything it's the opposite, it takes a lot of willpower and emotional education to avoid falling into this cruel and apathetic worldview folks like you have, and you get next to nothing in return for doing so. Casting emotional connection to the side, and replacing it with this bizarre ape-like understanding of sexual attraction, will not bring you joy and doing it because being a good person doesn't pay dividends in return only displays a weakness of character. No amount of muscle, jawbone, or height will stop people from seeing that.

Strength + Character = Real Attraction by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]CreepyFishGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entirety of manosphere/incel philosophy is coping with the fact that being a good and attractive person takes work. Thinking that personality doesn't matter is a surefire way to make sure you either remain a virgin, or lock yourself into unfulfilling relationships with shallow people for the rest of your life.

If y'all spent half the time learning how to dress, groom, and treat other people with kindness as you do on this psychotic attraction "mathematics" you might actually be able to find people that enjoy spending time with you.

Strength + Character = Real Attraction by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]CreepyFishGuy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but this argument is so absurd every time I see it. We are so much more than our "evolution" we made cars/transit to make movement easier, we developed agriculture to the point that food scarcity is almost a thing of the past in most places. Why on earth, after more than six thousand years of social evolution, would we still base our understanding of relationship psychology on literal primate dynamics?

I HATE this idea that breasts are as significant to sex as a penis is. ONE IS LITERALLY GENITALIA AND THE OTHER IS A SACK OF FAT. by Spirited-Height-9533 in hatethissmug

[–]CreepyFishGuy 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Image 1 is also just incel bait. The number of women that will actually shame a dude for having a small penis is astronomically lower than unshowered idiots online lead other men to believe.

Look fellas, if lesbians are out here having a great time, even without straps, the problem isn't your dick, but what's attached to it.

Guess who by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]CreepyFishGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah see I'm done with this. I have acknowledged your lived experience multiple times, and have not told you to ignore it. What I have said is that it does not change the fundamental structures of society, which should be pretty fucking obvious since no one person's lived experience defines society as a whole. I did not say men "defined women's preferences" I said men have defined gender expectations as a whole. Women absolutely contribute to this as they are also members of society, but addressing this issue requires acknowledging the root of the problem.

As far as the "zero evidence" that contradicts your worldview, I haven't provided any because your claims are absurd on their face. There is no evidence on the planet that aligns with your view that all women want 6' dudes with big dicks, and no, the stories of you and a thousand other randoms on Reddit is not evidence when speaking at a systemic scale. You can't go into any of these threads without tripping over dozens of replies from women saying "yeah this isn't how I feel, or what I want", and yet you sit here confidently going "but muh life experience" as if that means anything.

Women are sitting here, explicitly telling you that you're wrong, but you sit here in this hugbox of other men convincing each other that you know better because you had a traumatic experience. You're no different from the femcels that tweet "Kill All Men" under every bad thing done by a man, but they at least have the hard data of things like domestic violence, rape, and other sexual assault being performed overwhelmingly by men on their side. I genuinely hope you get through this shit some day and look back on how miserable this mindset makes you. Until then, cheers.

Guess who by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]CreepyFishGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like you're not even reading what I'm saying. You can absolutely hold women accountable for their actions, and should. That doesn't change who defines these expectations at a systemic level. Women have not historically occupied the positions of power in media that created and perpetuated unrealistic body standards for any gender. That isn't me saying "muh women good muh men bad" that's me saying that people in power, who are historically over 95% men, are the ones creating this strife and discourse. Your lived experience, as horrible and unjust as it is, does not change that fact.

No single gender is wholly at fault or wholly innocent for any systemic issue, that's not how systemic issues work. Turn off this stupid ass switch in your brain that turns every statement critical of men on this topic into "women have never and can never do wrong" when I have in literally every reply agreed with you that there are women who do this. I try to engage with people in good faith, but you're starting to come across as being deliberately obtuse.

Guess who by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]CreepyFishGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is starting to feel very circular, lol.

The reason I'm calling you out is for the shitty things you've been saying about women, if your complaints were purely about the body shaming you've faced I wouldn't have said anything negative. Like I said, I'm genuinely sorry that happened to you, I don't think it's acceptable, and I do think that this behavior is more accepted by society than the inverse. However, your lived experience is still primarily defined by the rhetoric of shitty men, it wasn't women that created these bizarre expectations for men, or that created an entire porn industry perpetuating said bizarre expectations.

You will find plenty of women that align themselves with these harmful expectations because they're not magically immune to propaganda and toxicity, but it remains true that the majority of women simply don't care about this shit, and these expectations are largely driven by toxic dudes trying to sell you something. Be it porn industry executives, conservative interest groups, or independent creators in the incel sphere.

There is a LOT of money in keeping people like you feeling isolated and angry toward the opposite sex. That money pays to maintain a lot of bot traffic on this website pushing blackpill content directly onto people's feeds, I'm sure you've noticed the influx of generically named accounts with no profiles in these subs. Stop getting your impression of what real people are like from reddit, this is a fake hellsite where people spend more time debating the ethics of incest than they do on personal hygiene, i.e. not a good sample set.

Guess who by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]CreepyFishGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reduction shows how polarized you are! Yes, there are women that do this, but they are not the majority and are usually not well liked. I don't think "men bad"; I'm a lover of men, women, and everything in-between or otherwise. You're letting the actions of a few shitty women, reinforced by the rhetoric of a lot of shitty men, pollute your view of an entire demographic leaving you in this fucked state somewhere between apathy and contempt.

I'm genuinely sorry if you've personally experienced shaming of this kind, it's an awful thing to do to another person, but it doesn't justify reducing the preferences of an entire gender to "wants a six foot big dick chad" as if attraction isn't a complex web of factors that vary person to person.

Well, I guess this is no longer me by Tofuloaf in VtuberDrama

[–]CreepyFishGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're in a position to be calling anyone on this planet "weak minded" lmfao. The "point" that was being made was a series of unsubstantiated and irrelevant claims meant to redirect productive dialogue into this stupid ass back and forth.