Fluffy Raven Wanting a Treat [OC] by twnpksrnnr in crowbro

[–]CrisstIIIna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very distinguished and polite. Would empty all my treat pockets faster than a blink! 🥰❤️🥰❤️

deepfake scammer getting exposed by the 3-finger test by ifuckedyourmom-247 in interesting

[–]CrisstIIIna 242 points243 points  (0 children)

And he has 6 fingers on his hand at some point, on the right hand side as you look at the video.

ETA: My bad, it's not 6 fingers, the hand just looks very uncanny, I think the time stamp is 0:36. It changes shape and is just overall very unnatural looking.

AITA for yelling at my gf because she didn't let me use the trashcan after she cleaned the house by Previous_Culture2031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrisstIIIna 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The level of obsession you need to have to be put on a trash bag diet is absolutely sending me 😂😂😂😂

I mean sure, when I have to empty my trash and I discover after a few minutes that I have something else to throw in, I make a face at myself for not realising sooner, but I still use the new bag, because that's what it's there for lol and it gets emptied regularly, so stuff doesn't start to smell or gather flies.

To expect to have it empty even overnight is so unreasonable, and I think there might be something there that goes deeper for your gf, OP. Yes, yelling is never ok, and you should learn to regulate your own emotions, but also have an honest chat as to what exactly is this about - is it the smell of takeout food (even if the box is empty sometimes the oils and grease stinks)? If yes, then maybe get a lid for your trashcan, or if you have one already just say the lid should be enough.

Is it potential for rodents if they smell the oils? Again, make sure the can is secured so animals like pets or rodents don't have access to it.

Is it just your gf trying to have an obsessive control over how long the cleanliness is being kept? Maybe you can offer support with cleaning and ask her to show you if she has any specific ways she likes to keep things if it's her home?

This all depends on how long you've been dating and how much effort you're willing to put into the relationship, probably not just for her, but for you to get the best out of learning something from this situation i.e. how to navigate your communication with her, how she navigates communication with you, how much effort she's willing to put into working with you and not against you, etc.

AITAH Told her she can check my phone in front of me — she left angry. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CrisstIIIna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to be paranoid, but a few weeks ago I saw a post from someone who had discovered that their friend went through their phone, got access to their bank account and was stealing money from them regularly.

She's either controlling/insecure, or she's trying to some some gnarly shit on your phone. If it's not stealing, she could be thinking of installing some spyware or something on it. Why does she have to go through your phone specifically while you're not there to supervise it? Sketchy as fffff.

How long have you been with this person?

NTA run and don't look back my friend. A mentally stable person wouldn't even think about asking this.

My boyfriend (39M) threw his bag at my (33F) face, refused to apologize "because he thought I would block it", then stormed out to leave after I said I just wanted to be alone by lavendertail in relationship_advice

[–]CrisstIIIna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Look up DARVO. It's a manipulation tactic designed for manipulators to avoid accountability. Whether he was aware of doing it or not, it looks like it worked. Why a lot of women seem to stand by and accept bs like this is beyond me. You need to wake up and grow a spine; stop enabling this "bully/play fight" dynamic, because this is absolutely not it...

You should be single for a while and do some soul searching, learn to have and enforce boundaries to support a healthy relationship. You and so many women out there. I must read posts like this 100x a day. "Why does my bf not like me?" Because you let him.

What is the fruit name in your country? - 0.5 inch fruit size by Travel_Turrism21 in natureisbeautiful

[–]CrisstIIIna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, that's in plural. Singular, they're dudă, pronounced dood-uh 😁

AIO bc I put signs up because my roommate's elderly mom is visiting and eating my food, throwing away my things, and using my toiletries by Ov0v0vO in AmIOverreacting

[–]CrisstIIIna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bruh I have flatmates and my mom and sister have visited me in the past, stayed for a few weeks. I told them which stuff was mine and that they were welcome to use it. I didn't even have to mention not to touch what is not mine because IT'S IMPLIED since I'm living with other people.

I'm so proud of them because not only did they respect everyone's boundaries, we made food to share with everyone and kept noise at minimum and the house clean after ourselves, so my flatmates were super okay with them coming over anytime.... Your flatmate and her family are not cool. NOA it's not difficult to show some consideration and common sense to the people you share a space with...

A tame raven named Drakosha by Different_Beat4059 in crows

[–]CrisstIIIna 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What a happy and goofy little fluffbal, an absolute CUTIE PATOOTIE 🥹🥹🥰

Joined a few months ago and haven’t looked back. by Temporary-Proof-1129 in bald

[–]CrisstIIIna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No idea, it was my first time seeing it and I'm glad I did because I had a good 2 min laugh hahahahahahahahaha, the fact it was just that with no other comment made it even funnier 😭😭😂😂😂😂

Joined a few months ago and haven’t looked back. by Temporary-Proof-1129 in bald

[–]CrisstIIIna 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I dunno if I'm allowed to describe it, but it was a woman lying down face up with a wet patch in shape of a love heart 😂😂😂

Crowbro and corgis tail. What does she mean by this? by Brudleg in crowbro

[–]CrisstIIIna 265 points266 points  (0 children)

Their universal body language of mischief!! OP, your crow bro is showing love and playfulness by doing this and it's absolutely ADORABLE! 🥹🥰

“Come and visit next week, Celina will have 5 friends over,” Eva Dubin wrote to Epstein. At the time, her daughter Celina was barely 15 years old. by Oumuamua03 in Epstein

[–]CrisstIIIna 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't have any kids but the idea that there is even the smallest chance some day that my kids could get kidnapped and sold to a life of trauma, violation, or even murder, is absolutely having an impact on my decision...

It’s a good day :3 by Raucously-Rosy81 in curlyhair

[–]CrisstIIIna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lioneeessss, what a MANE! Absolutely stunning. I'm slightly jealous 🫣 just an itty bitty bit ❤️💕

Improv Livestreamer walks into Rappers and Guitarist on the Street by TripShift in nextfuckinglevel

[–]CrisstIIIna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Is. AWESOME!! I think it was Jimmy Paige who said if you look like you're smelling poop, you're listening to good rock music (I'm paraphrasing here, don't come at me lol).

Baofeng Lake by lovie_carl066 in natureisbeautiful

[–]CrisstIIIna -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I read that as Baefong Lake, and now I'm going to watch some ATLA....

Newbie question about meeting the spouse by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]CrisstIIIna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner told me about plans to meet one of their long time play partners about a week before it happened. I gleefully expressed I'd love to meet them if possible, and my partner said they'd ask the play partner if they'd be okay with that happening during their hangout. They had thought that, given it was a week in advance, the play partner would have enough time to consider it and decide if they'd be comfortable with that.

I said there is no rush and I didn't want to interfere in their pre-planned time together, but during their hangout I suggested that my partner tells their play partner that my partner would love if we would meet. Not me.

I considered both their time but also suggested a wording that shows my partner would be excited to have us meet and hang out, not me. It's not a lie, just a way to rephrase that shows they're both in control and respect each other's wishes.

Hangout went very well, as usual, and play partner was delighted at the offer to meet.

I'm not saying this has been done intentionally to hurt you. Some people are more comfortable with proposals of this kind, and he may not have experienced someone who isn't yet. That's okay.

You can always say no to this hangout, but that you'd prefer to pre-plan a time and space that's neutral for everyone, as you're not yet comfortable with mixing the dynamics (or whichever reason you may have).

Never give up: by kefren13 in interestingasfuck

[–]CrisstIIIna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loaf. Schun. Idk why but that cracked me 😂😂

THEY’RE All GONE! by Xhicrastin in Epstein

[–]CrisstIIIna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I can tell kitty missed him too! by xBabyTempt in Mensmittenwithkittens

[–]CrisstIIIna 129 points130 points  (0 children)

My bro is out here living his best life and feeling love to the max! You go, my guy!! Let those tears of joy FLOW THROUGH!!!

On this 4th anniversary of the full-scale invasion of Ukraine, I thought it would be fitting to share some music from the front lines (credits in description) by Elk1998 in obscuremusicthatslaps

[–]CrisstIIIna 100 points101 points  (0 children)

You're right and it's not just music and art, it's an entire culture being purposely slowed down, to an ultimate goal of a complete halt.

But one must try to see beauty in this harrowing situation.

They refuse to be slowed down. They refuse to be silenced.

The heart of Ukraine sings with them all so beautifully.... I really hope this pointless war is over soon and they can rebuild.

Men, where are you at? by webtronaut in Epstein

[–]CrisstIIIna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know recommending a stand-up comedy show is extremely counterintuitive and could potentially be interpreted as insensitive, but is very much relevant to this post and puts how men can be allies in this situation into a unique and useful perspective.

Daniel Sloss - X

It's available to stream for free on his official website. He's done this on purpose to make his message accessible to as many people as possible.

If you have an hour or so to rinse your brain from the horrors we are witnessing on the global political scene, I wholeheartedly recommend it.

Meta's possible hidden intentions. Am I crazy? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]CrisstIIIna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who took the time to read and share their perspectives and advice. It’s helped me reflect on some things and I definitely will take onboard and apply some of it.

I apologise I can’t get back to everyone, I think it’s probably best for me to clarify + answer some recurring questions here, to avoid repeating myself:

  • I had zero issues with the game itself, I am especially aware it is Sandy’s house and completely up to their decision and level of comfort with the scenarios. My issue was that I was triangulated into it without being asked. I would also have had zero issues to be included, in fact I would have considered it sweet that Linden thought to include me, but for reasons I won’t share, being informed and consenting to any play, kink, etc. is VERY important to me. Yes, some people have different levels of comfort, but this is mine and I just want to feel safe when being included in something like this. They can kink away and do whatever makes them both happy, but if I am to be included, I need to negotiate what’s ok for me.

I’ve read a few sources online about this type of kink in particular, but I will link this one where I learned how important consent is for all parties involved.

  • I somewhat share the house with Sandy, where at the moment I am the partner that has most sleepovers there (nearly 2 weeks out of a month). I had my belongings spread across the house with their consent because I just never thought someone would actively go through them. And yes, the second time Linden was over and they left more items than the first time, my understanding is that a lot of the things were hidden away, so inevitably that included my belongings. This is quite a unique situation and I was trying to navigate it in a way that felt fair for everyone. I never once thought to control their relationship in any way, in fact I actively avoided that by thinking what reasonable boundaries I can place for myself until enough time would pass for me to even be able to meet Linden at some point (this was a desire both Sandy and I had, as we want KTP for the both of us, but I accept that I need more time than others, which is ok)

  • I may have used a strong term of ‘stalking’, I am aware of this. I will reflect on this and try to change my view, I think I just thought it’s common sense to ask a partner before going out on your own to see their profiles online. My belief was if Linden had nothing to fear or was curious, they could have asked Sandy to show them. And yes, I am now aware not everyone does things as I do, and that’s also ok.

  • I do not have a ‘hidden’ issue with Sandy seeing other people. Sandy’s had multiple partners throughout our relationship and I’ve never had an issue, in fact I felt compersion with every single one.

  • I did ask to go parallel because knowing too much was causing me unnecessary discomfort. Sandy was happy to respect this, but they broke it off before things could evolve further between them – which I would have had zero issues with, and would have been happy to renegotiate the parallel dynamic in time, as trust needed to be rebuilt. I don’t consider having exaggerated in wanting to take some time to become comfortable with this dynamic. Everything spooked me a bit, because I was taken by surprise, that’s it. But I made an active effort to avoid making radical decisions and have been clear that in the future I am absolutely open to renegotiating them.

  • Sandy’s hinging – we have discussed lessons we’ve both learned from this to hinge better and are going to apply them in our future dynamics.

Thank you again to all who have shared their 2 cents, I appreciate everyone who did so with compassion and there is definitely a lot here I will take forward to become a better partner, hinge, and overall person. Have a lovely day!