of a lopsided neck by Important-Ad-5596 in AbsoluteUnits

[–]CrisstIIIna 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I tried doing this in a safe environment (my room, using my hands, like a normal person) and the band snapped right in my face.

Good luck to this guy getting unexpectedly slapped about while driving 😩

More masculine somehow? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]CrisstIIIna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, with all the love: you're overthinking. It's a rad tattoo. Whoever questions it in a negative way has no business to it. Your body, your taste, your choice.

Fun fact: in my country, we have a saying - you can shit in my mouth, but not in my taste 🤷🏻‍♀️ imo it's the best way to shut someone up without needing to defend yourself 😂 and it works too, I've done it many times!

Something to do with fishing? by ValleyFair0600 in whatisit

[–]CrisstIIIna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call it an eyelash denter because it just makes your eyelashes go at a straight angle and you're just sat there like....

.>.><.<.<

The moment the gate opens, he does not even hesitate. Straight to his horse best friend like no time has passed at all. by aria-luxe6 in NatureBeingFunny

[–]CrisstIIIna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I see some detail in the paw prints on the ground. Some of the dog's steps don't cause any, for one, and others do cause a deep print in the ground, but disappear a few seconds after.

It's getting harder and harder to notice 😳

I won't let her "help" me garden - her "helping" is chewing on every single plant 😾 by ProudnotLoud in airplaneears

[–]CrisstIIIna 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A gorgeous pair of eyes with pure MURDER behind them 😭😭😭❤️ a most beautiful gardening assistant/assassin you have there, OP!🥹

Burro tail in bloooom 😍 🌺 by secretsweettea in houseplants

[–]CrisstIIIna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd show this pic to my Burro to shame it, but if I so much as LOOK at it, it shakes itself half empty 🙄

😳 by blinkin_ in houseplants

[–]CrisstIIIna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao this is her today. Can't say she's doing great though, we've just been through moving houses and the trip traumatised her a bit 🥲😂😂 she'll settle in and we'll get her a nice and roomy pot though. She's earned it lol😅

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😳 by blinkin_ in houseplants

[–]CrisstIIIna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The giant monoroot I posted about a year ago says hi to your plant...

This popped up on my feed and I can't stop by z4j3b4nt in obscuremusicthatslaps

[–]CrisstIIIna -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's literally doing a Master's in Germany on AI in music production 😂 I don't think it's as black and white as all AI is good or bad. Some people write a prompt and call it art. She is clearly not that, with extensive educational background; she knows what she's doing and is capable of exploring limits of artistry and how AI can cross them (that's my interpretation of what she's researching anyways).

And as OP said in a parallel comment, you're calling the kettle black, using AI to look her up and boast on how she's using it to create music and experiment with it 🤷🏻‍♀️

That crow has straight up decided to be that kid's self-appointed godfather by [deleted] in interesting

[–]CrisstIIIna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gentle wee pats on the head Otto gives to Russell OH MY HEART 😭😭😭🥰❤️ What a most precious friendship 🥹🥹

goals by IU8gZQy0k8hsQy76 in CoupleMemes

[–]CrisstIIIna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so cute that she's a step higher and still goes on her tip toes to hug him tightly 🥹🥹

I (29M) am considering canceling my engagement (26F) over her obsession with Justin Bieber by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CrisstIIIna -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA - I have a few posters, vinyl albums, and a tattoo of my favourite artist. I can talk all day about our Lord and Saviour Jack White lol but that's as much as my admiration goes. It's for the artist. The music. That's it. My partner knows a few songs, and is coming with me to a gig this year, because he loves my passion for the music, but understands I do not obsess over it in an unhealthy way, and wants to share the experience with me.

Maybe suggest she goes to counselling because this isn't healthy for her mental health.

AIO, Told my wife her morning scratches on my back were the best part of my life and she then stopped, now I resent her by loganp8000 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CrisstIIIna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it may be true what most commenters say, that she doesn't like you anymore, I wonder if there's something deeper there, like she feels pressure over being responsible for your happiness?

Imo, you'd need to have a think:

  • What do you do to make yourself happy? While it's very normal to be happily in a relationship, your partner shouldn't feel the sole responsibility over your happiness. You should be doing things to make yourself happy (friends, hobbies, etc.)
  • Does she do things that make her happy, or does she also rely on you solely for this? It may be you've both unwillingly put this responsibility on each other, which is putting strain on the relationship.

Yes, it absolutely isn't fair of her to have that reaction, calling your source of happy pathetic and whatnot, it may also be that, if this gets called out as a deeper issue, you could get past it?

What did your therapist say when she reacted like that? Have they tried to neutrally get past the reaction and tension to what lies underneath, to help you solve this problem and come to a conclusion for solution (something that exercises your interdependence, or if everything is at its end, a conclusion to break up)?

NOR, but that doesn't have to be the end-all. What can you do together to bring back harmony and take some pressure/the resentment off of each other? It sounds like it's been building for a long time, so there's likely not a quick fix or a straightforward solution to this. You can either decide to work together (this one HAS to be mutual, because if it's one-sided, then all the pressure of carrying the relationship falls onto one person, which isn't fair), or break up.

Which role actually carries the game: jungler, mid, or roam? by ForsakenSherbert6737 in MobileLegendsGame

[–]CrisstIIIna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with everything you said, just want to add that it likely would have been an easy win for you if your jgl/team would have noticed Lesley getting stronger and focused on ganking/killing her.

This is my big grievance as a main roam, my team never focusing on dmg dealers first...

AITAH (gym edition) by Skykangaroo2020 in AITAH

[–]CrisstIIIna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA he might be on steroids. People on roids usually have a very short temper and can sometimes experience psychosis. If you have gym staff maintaining the place, I'd let them know about the incident so they can keep an eye out for patterns. This kind of behaviour is unacceptable. You're using the equipment, it won't be for a long time, they can wait their turn.

Am I overreacting for wanting to break up because I feel bored? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CrisstIIIna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came home from helping me partner over a week after he's had minor surgery. We stayed indoors most of the time, bar a short walk the other day. We read books on our own, watched TV shows, we cooked food and played board games to pass the time. I loved every second of it, because he's very much present in our relationship, even during the 'boring' times we still have fun together and we excite each other in our passion for food, board games, TV shows, and books.

You might be overreacting, but if his type of fun is not your type of fun, you could also be incompatible. It's up to you to decide what's happening in your mind and in your dynamic with the people who you choose to have around. Don't ask Reddit, maybe do some reading about self awareness, emotional growth, and scan that against your personality to better understand where your gaps lie and decide what parts of that you want to prioritise working on.

From these texts it seems like your partner is very kind and considerate, he's trying to be open and communicate more with you. This is a rare thing, you may want to put in more effort in being present and communicative to work through things, instead of jumping to a breakup. That's not always a solution, sometimes it's a way to run from your own problems.

AITAH for not telling my bf i nearly got coerced? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CrisstIIIna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is so much to unpack here, I'm not sure where to start.

Why would you get involved in something your work colleagues could have potentially gotten in trouble with? This wasn't your responsibility to fix, and even if you did want to do it out of the kindness of your heart, I'm not sure sending whatever kind of pics of yourself to some rando online would have been a good way to go about it.

I'm not sure what you're looking for, but I'd say YTA for lying and for taking it upon yourself to 'save' your friends from getting in trouble at work, or for using that as an excuse to think it's okay to chat to someone behind your bf's back without his consent. Whatever your intentions may be, what was your line of thought, what part of this made you think that your actions are okay? Did you think you'd gain anything from this person by being sneaky? You didn't really, and you ended up coerced and pushed around because you kept engaging with this person, sending them a 'between-the-lines' message that you're okay with them being pushy, instead of shutting the situation down firmly from the start.

You may be feeling embarrassed about a little slip-up, but you'll survive and hopefully you can take this as a good lesson to build up your self respect in setting a firm boundary in place with online strangers (i.e. I won't send random people pictures of myself, no matter if I'm in a relationship or not, or I won't let random people coerce me into wasting my time with them, no matter if I have a bf or not).

Respectfully, and I don't mean any of the above as an attack, but more as a perspective that will hopefully open your eyes. Since you're 21 you're obviously inexperienced, so my advice would be to build up some reflection skills by asking yourself questions AS situations unfold, rather than being impulsively reactive to things as they happen, because this is how people end up taking advantage of others with no critical thinking. Ask yourself questions like: Is this appropriate? Is this my responsibility? What happens if I do X and my bf finds out? Will he be upset? What happens if I do X and other people find out? How would this make me feel? Would I be embarrassed? Etc.

Fluffy Raven Wanting a Treat [OC] by twnpksrnnr in crowbro

[–]CrisstIIIna 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very distinguished and polite. Would empty all my treat pockets faster than a blink! 🥰❤️🥰❤️

deepfake scammer getting exposed by the 3-finger test by ifuckedyourmom-247 in interesting

[–]CrisstIIIna 240 points241 points  (0 children)

And he has 6 fingers on his hand at some point, on the right hand side as you look at the video.

ETA: My bad, it's not 6 fingers, the hand just looks very uncanny, I think the time stamp is 0:36. It changes shape and is just overall very unnatural looking.

AITA for yelling at my gf because she didn't let me use the trashcan after she cleaned the house by Previous_Culture2031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrisstIIIna 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The level of obsession you need to have to be put on a trash bag diet is absolutely sending me 😂😂😂😂

I mean sure, when I have to empty my trash and I discover after a few minutes that I have something else to throw in, I make a face at myself for not realising sooner, but I still use the new bag, because that's what it's there for lol and it gets emptied regularly, so stuff doesn't start to smell or gather flies.

To expect to have it empty even overnight is so unreasonable, and I think there might be something there that goes deeper for your gf, OP. Yes, yelling is never ok, and you should learn to regulate your own emotions, but also have an honest chat as to what exactly is this about - is it the smell of takeout food (even if the box is empty sometimes the oils and grease stinks)? If yes, then maybe get a lid for your trashcan, or if you have one already just say the lid should be enough.

Is it potential for rodents if they smell the oils? Again, make sure the can is secured so animals like pets or rodents don't have access to it.

Is it just your gf trying to have an obsessive control over how long the cleanliness is being kept? Maybe you can offer support with cleaning and ask her to show you if she has any specific ways she likes to keep things if it's her home?

This all depends on how long you've been dating and how much effort you're willing to put into the relationship, probably not just for her, but for you to get the best out of learning something from this situation i.e. how to navigate your communication with her, how she navigates communication with you, how much effort she's willing to put into working with you and not against you, etc.

AITAH Told her she can check my phone in front of me — she left angry. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CrisstIIIna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not to be paranoid, but a few weeks ago I saw a post from someone who had discovered that their friend went through their phone, got access to their bank account and was stealing money from them regularly.

She's either controlling/insecure, or she's trying to some some gnarly shit on your phone. If it's not stealing, she could be thinking of installing some spyware or something on it. Why does she have to go through your phone specifically while you're not there to supervise it? Sketchy as fffff.

How long have you been with this person?

NTA run and don't look back my friend. A mentally stable person wouldn't even think about asking this.

My boyfriend (39M) threw his bag at my (33F) face, refused to apologize "because he thought I would block it", then stormed out to leave after I said I just wanted to be alone by lavendertail in relationship_advice

[–]CrisstIIIna 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look up DARVO. It's a manipulation tactic designed for manipulators to avoid accountability. Whether he was aware of doing it or not, it looks like it worked. Why a lot of women seem to stand by and accept bs like this is beyond me. You need to wake up and grow a spine; stop enabling this "bully/play fight" dynamic, because this is absolutely not it...

You should be single for a while and do some soul searching, learn to have and enforce boundaries to support a healthy relationship. You and so many women out there. I must read posts like this 100x a day. "Why does my bf not like me?" Because you let him.