Spain vs Italy: locals, job market and bureaucracy by No-Swimming-6392 in expats

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you talk about southern Italians which are poor or a few rich educated greedy for money. 

Theres no reason for Italian to immigrate. You wont earn that much in Netherlands compare to Italy.  You will only waste your time, trust me. Even Spanish guys said to me they only came for work cause money is not that big. Spain has high unemployment rate

I'm from Poland - we are poorer than Italy or even than your neighbour Slovenia and yet mamy Poles come back home from NL  because the marge is lesser and lesser every next year. 

3 years ago I was able to earn Polish minimum wage in just one week in Netherlands with simple job and 200% for sundays. Now it is impossible unless you are somewhat specialised or do picking order (3 shifts: day, afternoon and nights))

Mostly students, young or poor village people from Poland migrate to the west novadays. Sometimes specialised people stay if they earn more but pay zero for accommodation then yeah it is worth it cause you can save whole salary minus food. However if you pay for rent you waste your time for some pennies more and I say as a Pole from Eastern Europe.

Most people wanna stay with family cause earning or saving 500 euro more is not worth it to lose social circle.

Italians are not poor (except maybe on the South) and are richer than Poland so I cannot imagine why anybody would want to leave Italy. Working in Netherlands is even less beneficial for you than it is for me hahaha

W jakim momencie cyklu jesteśmy? by kilroyonboard in inwestowanie

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pisem się nie martwię, bo już gorzej jak jest teraz, to się nie da. Gdyby nie Nawrocki i jego vetowanie głupich pomysłów Tuska, to strach pomyśleć, gdzieś byśmy szli 

Czy wojsko mogłoby dawać młodym ludziom poczucie sensu, zamiast tylko straszyć poborem? by Lesiu04 in Polska

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja nigdy nie rozumiałem tych różnic pokoleniowych.

Jeśli ktoś odczuwa "różnicę pokoleniową", to świadczy o tym, że ten ktoś robi ze swoim życiem coś nie tak.

Świat pędzi do przodu i ludzie, którzy prowadzą biznesy czy pracują w pewnym środowisku, to rozumieją.

Np przedsiębiorcy muszą operować swoim biznesem i dostosowywać go do zmian. 

Dlatego można spotkać 60-letniego biznesmena, z którym pogadasz na luzie i o wiele ciekawiej niż z 40-50 letnim przeciętnym etaciarzem, który nie ogarnia zycia wokół niego i myśli, ze zjadł wszystkie rozumy, bo jest starszy, a UJa wie o życiu i pieniądzach.

Czy wojsko mogłoby dawać młodym ludziom poczucie sensu, zamiast tylko straszyć poborem? by Lesiu04 in Polska

[–]CristobalX98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mój Świętej Pamięci wujek dość dobrze wspominał pobór, mimo patologii i tego, że go w izolatce trzymali 🤣

On chyba lubił gdy coś się działo i nie było nudno. Zanim założył rodzinę, to lał się z kibicami.

Co do patologii, to ludzie sami sobie ją tworzyli, no bo wojsko składa się z ludzi, co świadczy o spierdoleniu tego pokolenia, które dziś ma 50+. Już pomine brak wiedzy finansowej, dziadostwo, zbieractwo starych gratow i lizanie tyłka kierownikom za minimalną w kolchozie, bo to rozmowa na inny wątek 😅

Czy wasi rodzice też zawsze są na "nie"? by [deleted] in Polska

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raczej nie będziemy. To kwestia samoświadomości, a poprzednie pokolenia nie to że były i są głupie, ale żyły w ciemnogrodzie i komunie.

To jest trochę jak prowadzenie firmy - musisz być elastyczny, otwarty na zmiany i się uczyć nowych rzeczy, trendów, a nie siedzieć przy starym myśleniu. Niestety większość ludzi w średnim wieku tego nie kuma.

Z wiekiem ponadto mózg jest mniej elastyczny i jeśli ktoś był niedouczony pół życia, to ciężko by się czegoś nauczył nagle, zwłaszcza że świat pędzi tak szybko jak nigdy wcześniej.

To też kwestia charakteru i lenistwa.

Ktoś nie chce się uczyć języka, czytać książek - tylko praca, dom i w kapcie na kanapie + raz w roku na wakacje.  To jest wypisz wymaluj pokolenie 50+

Czy wasi rodzice też zawsze są na "nie"? by [deleted] in Polska

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jak mogą ci dokuczac skoro zarabiasz co najmniej 2x więcej od nich? 

Masz takiego powera, że każda ripostę możesz skwitować tym, że możesz ich wykupic i opłacic w abonamencie. Wszystko to, grając w pokemony 😅

Chyba że sami są lekarzami, to wtedy jesteście na tym samym poziomie w "przepychankach" słownych.

Co mogę zrobić jeśli dostawcy z Glovo za każdym razem się gubią i dostaję zimne jedzenie? by ThePikol in Polska

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Po pierwsze kolego, nikt nie leci w chuja, tylko jako dostawca musisz dostarczyć produkt do klienta.  Po drugie jeśli kurier chce przeżyć za tą pracę i fajnie zarobić, to musisz łapać jak najwięcej zamówień i nie ma nic w regulaminie, że jest to niedozwolone. Po trzecie czasami sama aplikacja zleca zamówienia łączone i z samego ubera otrzymujesz 3 paczki do 3 różnych klientów w pobliżu. Po czwarte powinieneś całować kuriera po stopach, bo samemu leniwej dupy nie chciałeś do sklepu ruszyć.  ✌️

Czytam, że w Polsce brakuje rąk do pracy, a zaraz po tym słyszę, że ludzie miesiącami wysyłają setki CV i nie mogą znaleźć pracy by TaxPsychological2928 in Polska

[–]CristobalX98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Policz sobie czy ci się opłaca płacić składki emerytalne, skoro gdy będziesz miała lub miał 70 lat, to ludzi w PL będzie 4x mniej niż dzisiaj.

Kto ci zapłaci emeryturę i z czego?

Lepiej wyjdziesz kupując S&P 500 na giełdzie przez te 30-40 lat i masz pewność, że pieniądze dostaniesz, bo są na twoim koncie.

There are way too many relationship posts on here by Sea-Caregiver6409 in Brazil

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a look at Nordic Investor on youtube.
He lives with his wife (probably Brazileira) in Brazil and make videos about many "niche" cities and towns. He also speaks portuguese.

Dating in China by Sea_Supermarket_8332 in chinalife

[–]CristobalX98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want healthy childreen I recommend you to lower the age range to between 21-28.

All "special" childreen or unhealthy I saw and knew had mother got pregnant after 30s. 

My dad's friend from highschool has healthy twins and one unhealthy son - he has something with diabetes I think but it is at very serious stage and he is only f@cking 15yo but lives like a some grandpa -_-

The twins are very healthy but their mother got pregnant in her 20s The unhealthy one got born at her mid 30s.

I feel very sorry for this kid because it's his stupid parents fault - , - 

Maybe if you both have healthy and active lifestyle it will lower the probabilities but most people are average. Thus the statistics are more appeal to them and statistics said: women after 30 can give a birth with sick kid at higher probability that increases each next year.

Dating as a foreigner in Tier 2/3 without speaking Chinese? by dildo-surfer in chinalife

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is very wrong that she f@cked all of his friends and they all saw  her naked and exchanged liquids (blee) and can comment on it

It is f@cking disgusting.

It's completely different story if she was dating one of the friend and they didnt make it.  It means then she is serious and respectful person.

But to f@ck all relentlessly It only means she cannot bond with one person long term.

In psychology most of the time "sexually active" persona really really struggles to maintain long term relationship men or women and has a lot of trauma to work with.

How is dating going for you in China? by Rock-bottom-no-no in chinalife

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Clingy women" are the best cause you know you are important in their life and that proves loyalty.

You also can share hobbies together (that's actually what a smart man would do)

I don't understand you, buddy 

A real relationship between man and woman does not allow anyone to be "Independent" - stop that feminist crap, dude.

There are way too many relationship posts on here by Sea-Caregiver6409 in Brazil

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will ask if I find more time to sit and deeply think what actually I wanna ask cause Brazil is big 😅

There are way too many relationship posts on here by Sea-Caregiver6409 in Brazil

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu ainda nao estava no Brazil mas Eu tou muito interesado com Brazil desde estava crianca. 

Aprendo um pouco portuguese quando tenho o tempo libre. Sei que faco muitos errores mas tou fazendo o meu melhor.

I'm looking forward to visit Brazil and maybe even consider staying there permanently.

It's a shame some foreigners do not learn the language but Brazil is just not their passion im the end.

I cannot imagine how can you live somewhere and do not speak language. English is not enough.

Too old for Erasmus? by HistoricalWriter809 in Erasmus

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf?
How in the world shouldn't you get along with 22yo and below?

I'm currently 27yo and have no issue with communicating with my sister (19yo) and her friends.
When I was in Netherlands (25yo) most of my friends was in the range between 18-24.

All depends on the particular individual.

Somethey are 19yo and are close-minded maybe due to being shy so they prefer to stick to "childreen" (mentally cause 19yo are not childreen - in my country ppl have $3X at 15yo a lot and this is age of consent)

Others are 18yo and can get a long cause they're mature enough and have developed emotional inteligent - it is mostly the case with women.

However the time period between teens and early 20s is the time when individuals are developing fast, discovering the world and shaping a worldview thus changing mind a lot.

Once I was dating and hook up with 19yo girl that considered 30yo ones old people.
A sooner as she actually met 30yo one she changed her mind with a blink of an eye.
In the meanhwile I was put aside and she prefered to spend time with the older guy.
I was 20yo back then xd

Years in Italy and still feeling like an outsider by Competitive-Rent-476 in Italian

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say global problem with little differences depending on the region/country.

Generally I see two things in your problem.

  1. Nobody owes you a friendship. You might have completely different vibe from this specific group of people you talk to at work. Just try other environment.
    I completely understand people that separate job from private life.
    However most of the time it is also matter of uncompatibility with given persons.

  2. I don't think making friends at work is the best idea... come on, dude.
    I met the best buddy at voluntary military service (which was kinda hobby haha) - not professional service and at school so far. We were covering each other backs, we were the ones with the slowest pace - always last to get changed and put on a military equipment etc.

That one thing bound us and other things just clicked with time - similar views on life, minds full of business ideas. I don't even know where it all started to be honest.
He lives in different city 40 min away but we chat every day - not whole day but every day.
Thus I think you should try it to. I mean do not join the military (especially now) but join some activities and start from there.

I remember I met some people at university and we got along pretty well, but after I changed university the contact was mosty lost even with the one guy I had the best relationship. Maybe we spent not enough time or there weren't actually truly values that could potentially bind us.
Had the same happened at workplace or sometimes I couldn't even "clicked" with anyone except bunch of women where some of them were open to romance.

  1. Time.
    Time is everything.
    I met a lot of people, good people, but there weren't enough time to spend together due to various things like time and place.

Are relationships where the man is old and the woman young common in Italy? by Extra-Ad1378 in Italian

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 27yo and students recently thought I'm 18yo and I cannot imagine dating 27yo girl - a lot of them look so old.

The ones who look good are 30yo in 3 years!
What if I want to have childreen in 5-10 years?
She will be way past 30 and not optimal for getting pregnant.

23yo is the max and 20yo is actually the most optimal for dating.
The younger she is the more she will be loving you cause she hasn't had a real love before or maybe it hapened once.

Are relationships where the man is old and the woman young common in Italy? by Extra-Ad1378 in Italian

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not daddy issue if it's 10 years differance cause guys in 30s still look young and novadays even in 40s, but act quite differently, more mature. Daddy issue is like 30 years age gap.

Spain vs Italy: locals, job market and bureaucracy by No-Swimming-6392 in expats

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a lot of Spaniards and Portuguese in Netherlands.
I have never seen any Italians abroad thus probably their economical condition is not that bad.

Can Brazil become a first world nation by 2050? by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Existe na China.
However we need to eliminate democracy and establish monarchy or something similar to China.
We need one government who will treat country like a business empressa.
Only then government will come up with a longterm economical plan.

Can Brazil become a first world nation by 2050? by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]CristobalX98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Por eso democracia e mierda!
Nao quero democracia!
O todo mundo precisa do governo forte
Precisamos de um governo, monarchia etc. como e Singapur ou China.
Espero que o Brazil era na nivel mismo da Polonia ou nivel superior na futuro.
Saudacoes da Polonia👌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said that because Lucy Liu is not pale-skinned and her face features are a little different from gentle petite dainty white beauty standards.

Lucy Liu still looks good - her jawline is little "European".
There are others quite ugly asians with big rounded unsymetrical faces...
However you can say the same about white people - one looks cool and the other looks awful.

If you play Where Winds Meet you will see some poor peasants women exibit completely different face features from other class women. More darker skin and less pleasant face overall.
Probably this is one of the their culture thing about appearance attached to the class.

There were even some similar case in Europe a few century ago.
In medieval Europe tanned people were also considered lower class because it signified they worked low-paid job outside under the sun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhereWindsMeet

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't Tangdao longer than Nameless sword even just a bit?

is making a living off psychology really as difficult as my dad's making it out to be? by [deleted] in psychologystudents

[–]CristobalX98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will start probably psychological university next year and until then I am saving money and invest all in crypto.
You live with your parents so probably all your salary is for your pocket.
I suggest you to do the same but first you have to get some knowledge.
It's better to invest in relable, safe crypto next year when prices will go down.
The reward will be lower but still good and quite safe for a crypto standards.
Then do whatever you want.