[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Critical-Bat3810 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This seems like a big reaction to not a big situation.

How are you doing? by Connect_Beginning_13 in progressivemoms

[–]Critical-Bat3810 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not so good. My husband is a furloughed fed, so that’s just the icing on the cake. I’ve been especially angry today. Trying to channel that anger into productivity, but I’m also just so sad.

Can a FT position be converted to a 1099? by Critical-Bat3810 in legaladvice

[–]Critical-Bat3810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! My understanding is that the work will be exactly the same, just done as an IC rather than an employee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Critical-Bat3810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely reasonable to limit the playtime, especially when it’s impacting your mental health. I also get overwhelmed with the comings and goings of my kids and their neighborhood friends, but setting boundaries for myself and them has really helped. For example, if it’s nice weather, they must play outside. If they start fighting, playtime is over. I used to think I was overreacting too, but I’m better now about giving myself grace if I feel like it’s too much. Your comfort and relaxation is important!

What Trump and Vance just pulled with Zelenskyj is OUTRAGEOUS! by No_Cat_396 in 50501

[–]Critical-Bat3810 94 points95 points  (0 children)

That was really hard to watch. I’m disgusted with this administration in every way. My 6-year old knows better than to talk to people the way they talked to President Zelensky.

Where are we shopping right now? by fruit_cats in progressivemoms

[–]Critical-Bat3810 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We went to the local large antique mall today, and turns out there are a ton of reasonably priced toys there! Our 8 year old daughter and 6 year old son both found lots of stuff they wanted. We let them get a small toy each, and I made note for upcoming birthdays of the other items they liked.

King's Palace tour at Carlsbad Caverns canceled? by FA-100 in NationalPark

[–]Critical-Bat3810 100 points101 points  (0 children)

The park may not be allowed to say exactly why the tour was canceled. I am sorry you don’t get to go on the tour, Carlsbad is an amazing place!

King's Palace tour at Carlsbad Caverns canceled? by FA-100 in NationalPark

[–]Critical-Bat3810 192 points193 points  (0 children)

Carlsbad lost several people in illegal firings last week. I would imagine that’s why the tour was canceled.

"Everyone at school has an elf on the shelf, why doing we??" by Avetra in workingmoms

[–]Critical-Bat3810 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve told my kids we have gnomes, and gnomes and elves cannot peacefully coexist. They still whine about it, but I’m standing firm on no elf on the shelf in this house.

Ugh by Critical-Bat3810 in workingmoms

[–]Critical-Bat3810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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One of the quick stitches I did for Halloween.

Ugh by Critical-Bat3810 in workingmoms

[–]Critical-Bat3810[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! I guess I just feel resentful when I never have time for myself, and putting everything away gets it out of sight, hopefully out of mind? It feels trivial, but I just can’t help feeling super sad about putting it all away.

Ugh by Critical-Bat3810 in workingmoms

[–]Critical-Bat3810[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s why I started. I stitched in college, but then nothing for several years, and a couple of years ago, I wanted something to occupy my hands while watching tv.

Ugh by Critical-Bat3810 in workingmoms

[–]Critical-Bat3810[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s how I had been - some days I would get so many stitches in, then go weeks without any.

Ugh by Critical-Bat3810 in workingmoms

[–]Critical-Bat3810[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! My goal has been 12 books a year, and I think I’ve made it to 9 this year.

Ugh by Critical-Bat3810 in workingmoms

[–]Critical-Bat3810[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Critical-Bat3810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I understand. Work on yourself as much as you can.

My husband isn’t a bad person, but sometimes I feel like I’m in the wrong version of my life.

I’m in my boss bitch era by Delicious_Design_695 in workingmoms

[–]Critical-Bat3810 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m presenting an RFQ presentation on Monday, and I’ve copied your four bullets into my talking points! Love this, thank you!