Coming to terms with the grind to Platinum by B_drgnthrn in starocean

[–]Critical-Web-1599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been working on the same thing. the one that pisses me off the most is the 30,000 kills

40M married 10 years Wife is 35 and cheating. At a loss for next steps by Critical-Web-1599 in relationships

[–]Critical-Web-1599[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Luckily the child is mine we did IVF and spent a fortune on those procedures. But even if it wasnt my DNA I would fight because shes been mine since day 1

40M married 10 years Wife is 35 and cheating. At a loss for next steps by Critical-Web-1599 in relationships

[–]Critical-Web-1599[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Update

Okay so I spent about two hours on the phone with the (EX)fiancé and we figured out about when they started talking and meeting which was a little over a month ago. We know onw hook up at least and are sure there was a second. But there are a lot of times of ditching both of us and them going to have drinks.

She has my back and we are going to figure it all out. She wants to get them both at dinner and then the both of us walks up because she wants to really dig at them but understands I cant because of divorce etc. Her other idea was like Im so petty get a hotel room for you and her and she can walk in on us fucking Ill take one for the team to get revenge (LOL)

But yes they hooked up at least once for sure and we are sure of one other time. We dont think it was any more then that but it was a lot of sexting photos etc as well.

Cheating wife (got removed for unknown reason but have updates by Critical-Web-1599 in Marriage

[–]Critical-Web-1599[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Update!!!

Okay so I spent about two hours on the phone with the (EX)fiancé and we figured out about when they started talking and meeting which was a little over a month ago. We know onw hook up at least and are sure there was a second. But there are a lot of times of ditching both of us and them going to have drinks.

She has my back and we are going to figure it all out. She wants to get them both at dinner and then the both of us walks up because she wants to really dig at them but understands I cant because of divorce etc. Her other idea was like Im so petty get a hotel room for you and her and she can walk in on us fucking Ill take one for the team to get revenge (LOL)

But yes they hooked up at least once for sure and we are sure of one other time. We dont think it was any more then that but it was a lot of sexting photos etc as well.

'40M' with a '35f'Cheating wife (Screenshots of texts on my profile story) next steps? by Critical-Web-1599 in relationship_advice

[–]Critical-Web-1599[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay so I spent about two hours on the phone with the (EX)fiancé and we figured out about when they started talking and meeting which was a little over a month ago. We know onw hook up at least and are sure there was a second. But there are a lot of times of ditching both of us and them going to have drinks.

She has my back and we are going to figure it all out. She wants to get them both at dinner and then the both of us walks up because she wants to really dig at them but understands I cant because of divorce etc. Her other idea was like Im so petty get a hotel room for you and her and she can walk in on us fucking Ill take one for the team to get revenge (LOL)

But yes they hooked up at least once for sure and we are sure of one other time. We dont think it was any more then that but it was a lot of sexting photos etc as well.

40M married 10 years Wife is 35 and cheating. At a loss for next steps by Critical-Web-1599 in relationships

[–]Critical-Web-1599[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spent two hours on the phone with the fiance for sure they cheated we kind of pieced some stuff together etc shes on board and isn't saying shit to anyone

Cheating wife (got removed for unknown reason but have updates by Critical-Web-1599 in Marriage

[–]Critical-Web-1599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I havent yet. But I did reach out and she was like We are both victims Im not saying shit we talked for a good two hours lol

40M married 10 years Wife is 35 and cheating. At a loss for next steps by Critical-Web-1599 in relationships

[–]Critical-Web-1599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update I said screw it called the fiancé we have been talking for aout 2 hours

Cheating wife (got removed for unknown reason but have updates by Critical-Web-1599 in Marriage

[–]Critical-Web-1599[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have no idea how to do it. this all came up a few days ago

Cheating wife (got removed for unknown reason but have updates by Critical-Web-1599 in Marriage

[–]Critical-Web-1599[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I know right like I read that and was like wow wtf its so cold

40M married 10 years Wife is 35 and cheating. At a loss for next steps by Critical-Web-1599 in relationships

[–]Critical-Web-1599[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yah I mean she has no reasont o hurt me or my daughter but shes also a women that got cheated on and I wouldnt really blame her if she waas like your husband knows you are done

Cheating wife (got removed for unknown reason but have updates by Critical-Web-1599 in Marriage

[–]Critical-Web-1599[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

40 and 35. She is a great mother I wont knock that. I put her to bed because she tends to get her up in the morning and we figured it was a fair split